Abazali abaningi lapho bebeletha besencane ngaphambi kokushaywa phansi, bayesaba ingane yabo. Futhi wonke umuntu unesithakazelo kumbuzo wokuthi ukuthuthukiswa kwengane engakafiki kufanele kwenziwe ngezinyanga. Phela, lawa bantwana adinga ukunakekelwa okukhethekile nokunakwa. Okubaluleke kunazo zonke ezinganeni ezingakazalwa zingumnyaka wokuqala wokuphila, lapho zithola khona isisindo ngamandla.
Yimuphi umntwana obhekwa njengengaphambi kwesikhathi
Ingane ingakapheli isikhathi eside, eyabonakala kusukela ku-21 kuya ku-36 ngesonto lokukhulelwa, ngesisindo esingaphezu kuka-2500 amagremu kanye nobude buka-46-47 cm. Uma kuqhathaniswa nezingane ezivamile, umntwana osanda kukhula unobuthakathaka kanti nentuthuko yabo ihluke kakhulu nezingane , owazalwa ngesikhathi. Ngokwezibonakaliso zomzimba, ingane yokuqala ekuthuthukisweni iyakuthatha ingane ejwayelekile kusukela ngonyaka kuya kweyithathu, ngaphandle kokuba igula.
Yeka indlela umntwana osanda kuzalwa aqala ngayo ngenyanga
Ngenyanga yokuqala yokuphila, izinsana zangaphambi kokuqala zengozi yokuthuthukisa izifo ezihlukahlukene ezithathelwanayo ezingase zenzeke ngezinkinga. Isisindo ngenyanga yokuqala emva kokuzalwa, ingane ithola kancane kakhulu. Ngentuthuko enhle, ingane kufanele ibe ne-reflex yokugwinya. Akuyona into engavamile, uma lesi sakhiwo singakatholakali, abantwana abanjalo bayondliwa ngephrojekthi. Ezinganeni ezinjalo, ngesisindo somzimba esingaphansi kuka-3 kg, isimiso sezinzwa asizinzile futhi lesi simo singabanjwa izinyanga ezingaba ngu-4. Ngesikhathi ingane ingafundi ukuphefumula yedwa, ukuhlinzeka nge-oksijeni yokufakelwa kuyadingeka. Kubalulekile ngalesi sikhathi ukuxhumana ikakhulukazi nomama nengane, ukugcina ukuxhumana nezwi nokuxhumana.
Ingane esanda kusheshe iqala ukuthola isisindo ngenyanga yesibili yokuphila. Lokhu kuboniswa ngentuthuko yayo enhle. Inhloko ayikwazi ukukhuliswa yizingane ezinjalo, ngokumelene nezingane ezigcwele isikhathi esigcwele. Ngesikhathi sokudla, izingane ezinyangeni ezimbili zokuphila zikhathele kakhulu, zidinga ukuba zenziwe ngebele zichazwe ubisi. Ukondla ingane ngalesi sikhathi kuyadingeka kaningi.
Ngenyanga yesithathu, ingane engakafiki isilinganisa izikhathi ezingu-1.5. Umntwana uzwela kakhulu ukuthinta, nakuba awukwazi ukumomotheka okwamanje. Kubantwana abanjalo kubaluleke kakhulu ukugcina umbuso wokushisa. Ukushisa kwekamelo kumele kube ngamayunithi angama-24. Ingane kufanele igqoke ngokufudumele. Ekamelweni lapho umntwana ekhona khona, ukukhanya okumhlophe akufanele kube khona. Izikhathi zokuvuka kule nkathi yokuphila zisalokhu zifushane kakhulu, ingane cishe yonke isikhathi sokulala, kodwa kubalulekile ukushintsha isimo somzimba wengane.
Phakamisa futhi ubambe ikhanda lamantombazane angakabiphi kuqala kuqala ngenyanga yesine. Uqala ukwenza imisindo futhi alungise amehlo akhe. Ngalesi sikhathi, ungaqala ukwenza umntwana ukusila okulula. Ngomntwana kunconywa: izinqubo zamanzi, ukugxila ezandleni, ukugeza emoyeni.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi abazali bazi ukuthi ingane iqala kanjani izinyanga, ukuze iqaphe ukuthuthukiswa kwayo. Ngenyanga yesihlanu, izingane ezingakafiki zivele zizama ukudlala, ukumomotheka, ezinye zize zibambe ngisho namathoyizi.
Ngenkathi enezinyanga eziyisithupha, ingane engakafiki isanda isisindo sayo sokuqala isisindo 2-2.5, ikhula ngokushesha kwengqondo-ngokomzwelo. Ingane eneminyaka yobudala isiphenduke ikhanda layo, idlala ngamathoyizi, iphendula emithonjeni yomsindo. Kule minyaka ubudala ingane ekuthuthukisweni iqala ukuqala ukuthuthukiswa kwengane evamile. Ezinye izingane sezivele zihlukanisa abathandekayo babo kubantu abangabazi.
Ngenyanga yesikhombisa ngemuva kokubeletha, ingane ingakwazi ukuphenduka isisu esisemuva, idlala ngokuningi.
Ngenyanga yesishiyagalolunye ingane iphenduka kalula, ukuhamba okusebenzayo kuqala. Usuvele ulingisa ukukhahlaza - kuphakama kuwo wonke ama-four kanye nokuguquka. Izingane zingadla kakade kusuka ku-spoon.
Kakade ngenyanga yesishiyagalolunye yokuphila ingane eyaziwayo ngokudlala ngamathoyizi, iqala ukuma emilenzeni, ibambelele emgodini, ingalo eyisekela ihlala yedwa eceleni kwayo. Ngesikhathi esondla, uzama ukudonsa izingcezu zokudla emlonyeni wakhe.
Ngenyanga eyi-10, ingane engakafiki ingakwazi ukukhuphuka ngokusekela ezinyaweni zayo, ukukhuluma imisindo ehlukahlukene, ngokucophelela ukubona izinto ezihambayo.
Ngenyanga yeshumi nanye ingane iyasebenza nakakhulu, iphendulela egameni lakhe, ihamba noma ihamba ngendlela ye-plastunist.
Kakade unyaka, izingane zibhekene nezingane ezigcwele ekuthuthukisweni, ziqala ukubiza amagama. Kodwa akunakwenzeka ukugijimela izinto kubazali (kusheshe kakhulu ukugqoka imilenze), ingane kufanele ithuthuke kancane kancane, kuye ngokuthi imfanelo ngayinye.