Kumele kube nini ukulala ngokobulili

Kungakanani futhi kungakanani okudingekayo? Ngesikhathi abameleli bobulili obunamandla bezama ngobuqotho ukwelula injabulo yethu, thina, besifazane, asihlangani nombono ofanayo: kufanele ubulili bube bukhulu kangakanani, ukuze sithande konke?

Erasers

Empeleni, umfanekiso walokho okubizwa ngokuthi "umqhawe wesilisa" kufanele ucabange ubukhulu bendawo esithathiwe, kodwa hhayi isimo sabantu. Ngakho, ingxoxo enesihloko sokuthi ubulili obukhulu kufanele buhlale kanjani, amadoda anjalo ayagwema noma azama ukutshela indaba yendabuko yokuthi ubusuku bonke ...

Ngempela, leso sithombe kumele sihambe kuze kube sekupheleni, ngaphezu kwalokho, le nsikazi nayo. Kodwa lapha, ngokwalo, umbuzo uvela: kungakanani okudingekayo kulowo ozama ngakho kanzima kangaka? Umzamo wokulinganisa ubude bobulili (ukucabangela ukuqala kwangaphambili, uthando kanye nobulili ngokwalo) uye wathola inani eliningi.

Ngokushesha

Isikhathi: imizuzu engu-5 kuya kwemi-15. Abathandi bezocansi ngokushesha phakathi kwabesifazane kakhulu. Futhi ngesizathu ngasinye:

Isiphetho: Kukhona into okumele uyikhumbule ngaso sonke isikhathi ngokumomotheka, ngoba waziphonsa njengesilo sasendle, kodwa akusikho konke okwenzekayo okungaqondakala nokuzwa. Ngaso sonke isikhathi kufanele uqale inqubo kuqala, futhi hhayi kancane kancane uye esivumelwaneni.

Isikhathi sokufunda

Isikhathi: imizuzu engu-30-45. Ngalesi sikhathi unga:

Ngokwezengqondo zemiqondo, imizuzu engama-30 yisikhathi esihle kunawo wonke socansi.

Isiphetho: unesikhathi sokuzwa inqubo, ubambe ama-nuances futhi ujabule, kodwa konke kwenzeka njalo ngendlela efanayo.

Ihora lokugijima

Isikhathi: cishe nemaminithi angaphezu kwengu-60. Ama-Nuances:

Isiphetho: umcabango wakho unesikhathi sokuqalisa ukusebenza, ujabulela ukuthi kwenzekani, phawula izinzwa ezintsha. Ngendlela, ukuze usindiswe kulo mqhudelwano futhi uqhubeke uhilelekile kule nqubo kuze kube sekupheleni, udinga ukuqeqeshwa okuhle ngokomzimba nokucabanga okucacile.

Nini

Isikhathi: sihlala ngokwesilinganiso ngezindlela ezahlukene. Umoya, izimo kanye nosuku lomjikelezo (ama-hormone bursts nawo abukwa) kuthinta wena, indoda kanye nakho konke okwenzekayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, indima enkulu idlala ngeso lengqondo njengemizwa. Ngakho-ke, isenzo socansi singadonsela nomlingani ngamunye futhi esimweni esithile ngezikhathi ezahlukene.

Ubulili buhlala isikhathi esingakanani

Kuncike eminyakeni yobuhlobo, izici zabo ezingokwengqondo, isenzo socansi sihlala izikhathi ezihlukene. Uma sikhuluma ngezinkomba ezijwayelekile, ngokokucwaninga, cishe imizuzu emibili nemizuzwana emibili.

Izizathu ezenza amadoda azame ukukhulisa ubulili ziziningana. Lokhu kulungiselelwa kwandisa injabulo yomuntu, umzamo wokwenza umlingani ujabule futhi nesifiso sokummangalisa ngamandla akhe kanye nekhono lakhe. Inkinga yukuthi abesifazane babaluleke nakakhulu hhayi izikhukhula ezinjalo ngokwabo, njengokunakekelwa, ukucindezela, ukuqala.

Ngokuvamile abesifazane bayavuma ukuthi kufanele bakhuthazelele umncintiswano wezocansi. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi uma nje ukhuthazela, ukugcoba kwemvelo yesisu kuhlanjululwa, okuvela kuwo amathrekhi ama-microtracks. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ingahle ihlakulele ukuphazamiseka ngokocansi (ukuphazamiseka, isimo sengqondo esibi kumuntu ozakwethu).

Uma abalingani bakholelwa ukuthi ubulili kufanele bude, banganconywa ukuthi bafunde ukuphumula kwemisipha, ukujwayela amasu okuphefumulela kanye nezakhi zosizo lwezocansi ezihlose ukulawula nokuvimbela i-ejaculation reflex. Futhi ekugcineni: ucansi kufanele luhlale uma nje lugcina ukunambitheka kwalo.