Ubulili emva kokubeletha: izinkinga

Vumelana, ngokushesha noma kamuva, wonke owesifazane uhlangana naye empilweni yakhe ngokuzilahla ngokocansi. Lokhu ukuzibamba kungabangelwa izizathu eziningi. Kulezi zizathu, kuncike ekutheni isikhathi esingakanani sizosetshenziswa ngaphambi kokuba umzimba wesifazane uvumelane nezocansi ezivamile. Ososayensi baye bafakazela ukuthi ngemva kokubeletha ngesikhathi ingane isondla, i-hormone emzimbeni ikhishwa, eyanciphisa i-libido futhi inesibopho se-lactation, futhi kufanele yengezwe ukuthi ngemva kokuzalwa umzimba wesifazane ubuyiselwe izinyanga eziyisithupha ngokuya eziningana zezinto eziphilayo futhi, empeleni, owesifazane kule nkathi akapheli ubulili.

Qala umsebenzi osebenzayo wocansi ngemuva kokuziyeka isikhathi eside akulula. Ukuzibamba isikhathi eside kuholela ekutheni ngesikhathi sokulala kocansi owesifazane uzizwa engathandekile ngokuziphatha nangokwengqondo. Ngemva kokuwela emngceleni ekamelweni lokulala, ukukhathazeka kokuziphatha kuyazwakala, ukwesaba kuvela. Ukuziqeda kuholela ekushintsheni kwengqondo okuyinkimbinkimbi kanye nokuvela kwento okuthiwa "isakhiwo somfelokazi". Abesifazane abanenkinga enjalo basabela ngokuthandana kakhulu komlingani, kuyilapho kunzima futhi ngezinye izikhathi kungenakwenzeka ukufeza i-orgasm. Ngesikhathi sokuzilahla, umzimba uvuselelwa futhi lezo zidumbu ezithinta ukukhangwa ngokomzimba ziqala ukusebenza ezingeni eliphansi kakhulu, kanti owesifazane akafuni ukulala ocansini kanjalo. Kule ndaba ukubhekana nale nkinga kuzosiza kuphela ochwepheshe.

Abacansi bezocansi bahlukana nabafazi babe yizinhlobo ezimbili: kwabanye besifazane, isifiso sobulili sanda ngesikhathi sokuzilahla, kanti kwabanye, ngokuphambene nalokho, silele. Abesifazane, abanesisindo sabo sobulili besanda, bafuna kakhulu ubulili, umlingani wabo kumele ahlale ekhona nento entsha. Lokhu akusho ukuthi abesifazane abanjengoba abalingani bobulili obuhlukahlukene, nje kuphela ukwaneliseka kwabo okugcwele, kuyadingeka ukuhlukahluka.

Abanye balinganisa ucansi ngokugibela ibhayisikili, uma uyazi kanjani, bese ukhumbule, kodwa kusukela kulokhu kuqiniseka akunamathanga. Ekhanda ngokushesha kunemibuzo eminingi mayelana nokukhangisa kwabo namakhono obulili. Futhi manje ake ucabange, ngakho-ke isigwebo sakho sokuphoqelelwa i-baton siphelile futhi ungagxuma emphakathini wezinjabulo zenyama. Ukuqeda izimpikiswano ngaphambi kocansi ngemuva kwekhefu elide, udinga ukuqonda izinto ezimbalwa:

Lungisa umzimba wakho, hlola ukuthi uzokwenzenjani uma unesifo esilula.

Uma lokhu kungumlingani wakho omusha futhi ngaphambi kokuthi angacansini, ungamgijimi ngokusondelana ngokomzimba. Sebenzisa isikhathi esithile naye futhi ulinde kuze kube yilapho isifiso sakho sivuka. Uma ungafuni, akudingeki ukuba uziphoqe.

Ukuphumula, kuzoba yikuphi okumele kube khona. Uma ikhanda lakho ligcwele imicabango, ngokuqinisekile ngeke ujabulele noma yikuphi ukubalwa. Yeka ukucabanga kanzima.

Ungowesifazane, futhi abesifazane badalwa ukuba bazijabulise. Ungathobeki futhi ubuze umlingani wakho ukuba enze zonke izifiso zakho zocansi zigcwaliseke.

Yiba nomthelela, ungabi namahloni.

Khokha ngokukhethekile ama-caresses okuqala, ungasheshi ukuzama konke okujabulisayo ngesikhathi esisodwa.

Uma i-caress yokuqala ngesizathu esithile ayikwazanga ukuvusa ngokuphelele isifiso sakho socansi noma ungakhululwa ngokugcwele, thatha ishaja esihlangene nendodana yakho.

Uqinisekile futhi uhle emehlweni akho owesifazane, awubhale ebunzini lakho uma kukhona ubulili bokugcina, ungakhathazeki.

Uma lokhu kungumlingani wakho ovamile wocansi, ziphatha, njengokuvamile, ungadlala, kodwa yenza lokho izinzwa zakho zikutshela khona.

Uma ungeke ukwazi ukufinyelela i-orgasm isikhathi eside, kufanelekile ukubonisana nochwepheshe.