Kungani abantu benesizungu?

Kukhona abantu abahlala befuna ukuba njalo enkampanini. Uma behlala bodwa bebodwa, emva kwezinyanga ezimbalwa baqala ukuzizwa bengakhululekile. Ngokungafani nokunye okunjalo, kukhona abanye - abangabodwa. Umuntu onesizungu akakwazi ukuphuma endlini amasonto, abone abangane njalo ezinyangeni ezimbalwa, uhlale ekhuluma ngalokho okudinga ukuthula, ukuthula nokuhlala wedwa. Kodwa kuyiqiniso? Ingabe abantu abangashadile ngempela ngoba bazalwa ngale ndlela noma bekungumphumela wokuhlukunyezwa kwengqondo nokucindezeleka ekuphileni?


Umkhuba wokuhlala wedwa

Abanye bethu njengabantwana babengaqondwa kahle kakhulu ngabanye abantwana. Omunye uzame ukujoyina umphakathi, ngenxa yalokho, waphumelela. Kodwa abanye abantu basebenzisa ukuhlala bodwa. Ukuthanda kwabo isizungu kungumkhuba wokuziphatha oye waqala kusukela ebuntwaneni. Eqinisweni, umuntu akakwazi nje ukuthi abe yinkampani, indlela yokuziphatha ngayo. Ngenxa yokuthi akajwayele ukunakwa, umuntu onesizungu uqala ukuzizwa engakhululekile, kubonakala sengathi wonke umuntu uyamnaka, abukele, into ayifunayo kuye. Ngakho-ke, unomuzwa wokuthi kungcono ukuba ngcono kunomuntu. Uma umuntu onesizungu ehlala ngaphandle kokukhathalela abanye abantu, angakwazi ukuphumula futhi angacabangi ukuthi yini okumelwe akwenze nalokho okushoyo. Uzwa ukuthula, okungenakukuthola enkampanini. Ngokuvamile kwenzeka ukuthi lolu hlobo lwezingoma ezijulile emphefumulweni ngempela lufuna ukufunda ukuxhumana no-lyudmii kangcono "ukujoyina" ithimba. Kodwa ngenxa yenkimbinkimbi yezingane nentsha, kunzima kakhulu ukuwela ukwesaba kwabo. Yingakho abantu abanjalo beqhubeka behamba ngokuphila bodwa.

Ukudumazeka

Kubuye kwenzeke ukuthi othile ukhetha isizungu ngokuhlakanipha. Isibonelo, ekukhuleni, umuntu okhulumisana nenani elikhulu labantu, wayehlala enkampanini, bese kungalindelekile ukuthi uhlukaniswe nomuntu wonke futhi uthi kungcono ukuthi abe yedwa kunomuntu. Isizathu salokhu kuziphatha singaba nokukhungatheka emvelweni. Ngeshwa, akubona bonke abantu abazitholela abangane abahle nabangane abafanelekayo. Kuphinde kwenzeke ukuthi abantu eminyakeni ye-vynoschye bahambisana "nezinkampani ezimbi" futhi bekhula, badumala kakhulu endaweni yabo. Futhi kusukela esikhathini esifushane eside bahlangana nabantu ababi kakhulu kunokuhle, kunomuzwa wokuthi umhlaba upakwe emnyama. Ngokujwayelekile, labo bantu abadangelekile bodwa babhekana nokuhlukumezeka nokukhashelwa ngabantu abaseduze ababenze iphutha. Ngenxa yalokho, banquma ukuthi kungcono ukuba omunye kunokusondelana nabantu, bese kuthi isikhathi ngasinye ukuzwa ubuhlungu nokungahambi kahle. Ngendlela, laba bantu abangabodwa bangaba nabantu abaningana abasondelene nabo abagcina nabo ubudlelwane obuseduze nabo. Kodwa wonke umuntu olingane nontanga cishe akavumeli noma ubani oseduze kakhulu ne-initium athembe ngokugcwele. Ungakwazi ukuphatha kahle abangane bakhe ngokugcwele nabantu, kodwa uyohlale ezwa indlela afihla ngayo udonga ongabonakali kubo futhi angamvumeli empilweni yakhe ngokuphelele. Ngenxa yemihlangano engavamile ngezihlobo, abantu abanjalo bazama ukulawula uthando lwabo, ukuze kuthi uma kwenzeka ukukhishwa okwesibili, ungaboni kakhulu futhi ungaboni ukuthi izwe liye lawa. Izizungu ezilahlekile zivimbela kakhulu imizwa yazo. Lokhu kungabonakala eqinisweni lokuthi ngezikhathi ezithile uhlobo olunjalo lwabantu "luphuka phansi." Baqala "ukuphuma kubantu", ujabule, ubone konke. Kodwa emva kwezinsuku ezimbalwa baphinde bangene ngaphakathi kwabo futhi baphinde bahoxise ngoba bazi ngokungazi noma baqaphele ukuthi bavuma ukuba bangenangqondo futhi, njengoba kunjalo, bazijezisa ngokuziphatha okunjalo.

Izilonda ezinomsindo

Lolu hlobo lwama-singles lufana nolunye oludlule, kodwa umehluko phakathi kwabo ukuthi ukudumazeka kumane ukhetha isizungu futhi ungazami ukusola umhlaba wonke ngalokhu, ngisho noma bewucabanga ukuthi awukuphelele. Izikhalazo ze-voztoobloblennye, ngokwabo, ungakhohlwa ukukhumbuza njalo umuntu ozungezile ukuthi kufanele abekwe icala loluhlobo lwesimo sengqondo somuntu. I-Takyhodinochek ayikwazi ukubizwa ngokuthi yangempela, ngoba akekho ovunyelwe ukuba ahambe, bazama njalo ukuheha. Abantu abanjalo bathanda ukuzama ukufakazela kwabanye ukuthi abadingi muntu. Kodwa empeleni, bazizwa bejabule kakhulu ngenxa yokuthi abazidingi. Yingakho bezama ukuheha. Isibonelo, cishe yonke iminyango inomkhulukazi omdala noma umgogo omdala ongafuni njalo konke. Lo muntu akaxhumani nanoma ubani, kodwa wonke umuntu uyazi ngaye, njengoba usuku lonke ukukhala kwakhe, ukuhlukunyezwa nokusola kwalabo abakuzungezile kuzo zonke izono zabo kuzwakala. Lesi yisibonelo esivamile somuntu onesizungu othukuthele. Kunzima kumuntu onjalo ukufakazela noma yini, noma ukuthola ulimi olufanayo naye. Eqinisweni, yena ngokwakhe ufanele abekwe icala ngenxa yedwa, kodwa akafuni ukuyiqonda futhi ayamukele.

Isizungu-njengengxenye yokukhanyiselwa

Mhlawumbe, kubalulekile ukukhumbula uhlobo olulodwa lonesizungu - laba yibo okuthiwa abantu abakhanyisiwe. Lokhu kusho ukuthi, abaholi bamaBuddha, ngokuvamile, labo abakhetha ukuhlala bodwa, hhayi ngenxa yokudumazeka nezinkimbinkimbi zangaphakathi, kodwa ngenxa yokuthi bafuna ukuthola izimpendulo zemibuzo ethile futhi baqonde ukuthi kungani baphila kule planethi. Kunabantu abambalwa kakhulu abangabonakali ngokugcwele, ngoba akuwona wonke umuntu olungele ukuhamba efuna iqiniso, esikhundleni sokwakha umsebenzi, ukudala umndeni nokunye. Abanye bakholelwa ukuthi ukuziphatha okunjalo kungabizwa ngokuthi ukuphambuka kwengqondo. Eqinisweni, abantu abaningi abaqondi nje abantu abanjalo, futhi njengoba wazi, kulula ukuba umphakathi uwubize ungaqondakali kunokuzama ukuwuhlola. Ukuzikhethela okukhanyisiwe akugwemi ukuba ngokuphelele nabantu. Kulula nje ukuthi bayathandeka kakhulu futhi banethezekile ezweni labo langaphakathi, kunokuba nabanye. Abantu abanjalo banombono ohlukile ngokuphelele nokubuka empilweni.

Ngakho-ke, uma ungacabangi ngalezi zinhlanhla ezikhanyisiwe, zonke ezinye izinhlobo zabantu abathi zifuna ukuba ngokwabo, ekujuleni komphefumulo kusadingeka umphakathi. Kulula nje ukuthi badinga ukuthola indlela efanele, bangaziniki izinkimbinkimbi nokudumazeka ukuthatha phezulu ngezindlela eziqotho. Abantu abanjalo abakwazi ukungena emphefumulweni, njengendawo yokuhlala yabo futhi kufanele bahlale kuso. Kubalulekile ukuvula iminyango yezwe labo elingaphakathi kancane kancane, ukushiya isikhala somuntu siqu futhi akukho nhlobo ezama ukucindezela nokuyibamba. Kodwa nokho, ukuzama ukusondelana nabantu abanesizungu, kudingeka uqiniseke ukuthi ekugcineni ngeke ube yisizathu sokukhungatheka. Emva kwakho konke, uma umuntu oyedwa engavumela umuntu ukuba aphume emhlabeni, lona akakwazi nje ukulikhulisa, kodwa futhi alibhubhise ngokuphelele. Lokhu kufanele kukhunjulwe njalo.