Idwala, liyikusasa futhi lizophela, akunalo ngempela umbala omubi. Owesifazane oshonile - lo wesifazane ohlangana naye naye ngokuphawulekayo washintsha impilo yomuntu. Kungenzeka ukuthi emva kweminyaka engamashumi amabili yokuphila kwakho ndawonye, indoda yakho iyavuma ukuthi ungumfazi obulalayo. Kodwa kanjani enye? Emva kwakho konke, washintsha isiphetho sakhe kanye nokuphila ngokujwayelekile. Noma mhlawumbe kunesimo esithile: wena uzinzile ngokuzenzele ibhizinisi lakho, uye emsebenzini, uye ezitolo, vakashela izingane zomntanakho, futhi ngalesosikhathi, othile othule uhlangothi odongeni, ngoba ungumfazi obulalayo.
Owesifazane oshonile - kungaba ngumfanekiso wokuphila, indima edlalwa owesifazane ozungezwe ngamadoda, noma nje umzuzwana we-episodic emlandweni wokuphila kwakho. Akudingekile ukuthi lokhu kube ngumnikazi wengqondo engavamile, imilenze ende, isifuba se-silicone. Nakuba, izici zangaphandle zidlala indima ebalulekile. Owesifazane odlala indima "ebulalayo" ubonisa lesi sithombe emvelweni wakhe, kuyilapho bonke abanye bebulawa ngenxa yokukhetha umuntu.
Ukuba owesifazane - i-museum iyamnandi kakhulu futhi ilula kunomfazi. Kunzima kakhulu ukuhlanganisa lezi zindima ezimbili, uma uhlala nendoda. Vumelana ukuthi cishe akunakwenzeka ukuvela kumyeni wakho ebusuku ebusuku, ukuba ngumthombo wakhe wokukhuthazwa, futhi ngokushesha uxoxe ngesabelomali somndeni, ugeze, u-iron noma upheke ukudla. Ngeshwa, ubuciko kanye ne-bytovuha buxhunyaniswe ngokukhululekile. Nakuba, emlandweni kukhona izibonelo zabafazi-ama-muses: iGala - umkaSalvador Dali, uNatalika Goncharova - umkaPushkin. Nakuba, kuzo zombili izimo, abafazi abazange bachithe isikhathi ekhishini ukupheka ukudla kanye nezidlo.
Ngisho nobuhlobo obuvamile kakhulu, inoveli elula ingakwenza ube owesifazane obulalayo. Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga "isikhathi" sokuyeka ukuthanda umuntu wakho. "Ngiyathandeka, kubonakala kimi ukuthi angisekho manje ..." Inhliziyo yomqhubi uyaphukile, impilo isiphelile, uyindoda ebulalayo! Kulungile, ukuthi umfana uzokukhumbula impilo yakho, njengaleyo eyayijikijela, yaphuka inhliziyo yakhe, yahamba njengezimbu, yamshiya yedwa ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe.
Uthando olubulalayo lungaba khona uma kunezithiyo endleleni yokuxhumana engakwazi ukunqoba, okuvimbela abantu ukuthi bangabuthana. Izinkinga ezibonakalayo, ukuba khona komfazi osemthethweni, izinkinga ngenqubomgomo yokufuduka, abazali kanye nokunye okuningi kungabangela imizwa yakho emihle ukuba ingaqhubeki ibe yinto engaphezulu. Isiqinisekiso sokuthi u-100% weqiniso lokuthi lo muntu uzofudumala futhi akukhumbule ngezikhathi ezithile futhi ucabange ukuthi kwenzekani uma ...
Owesifazane obulalayo wangempela, njengengomabhayisikobho, akagcini nje ukuphula inhliziyo yomuntu, kodwa uphinde uchithe izikhwama zakhe, uthathe impahla, abhubhise imindeni, abambe ama-akhawunti ebhange, axabane nabangane nezihlobo, ukuze kungabikho muntu ongasiza ngesikhathi esifanele. Futhi uyakwenza, hhayi navyazhchivo, ukumomotheka nokukhuluma ezindlebeni zakho amazwi amnandi nezithombe zekusasa elihlangene elijabulisayo. Ukuhlangana nowesifazane onjalo kuyoba yingozi ngempela. Noma kunjalo, lokhu akusekho isithombe, kubalwa ukushisa futhi indlela owesifazane obulalayo enza ngayo ukuphila. Ngemva kokuba indoda isindezelekile ngokuphelele, inqotshwe futhi ihlukaniswe emgqeni, owesifazane unelisekile, futhi uqala ukuzingela isisulu esisha.
Ngakho-ke, yini okufanele uyenze, uma ngokuzumayo empilweni yakho uhlangana nomuntu obulalayo?
Owesifazane - i-museum iyingozi ngoba ingakhuthaza indoda yakho ukuthi isebenze. Futhi wena kulo mzuzu, phuma, ugeze, upheke. Bahlezi behlezi futhi bekhuluma, futhi uzizwa unqatshelwe futhi akudingekile. Qaphela, ngoba ubuhlobo obunjalo bokudala buya kancane kancane bube ngokwengeziwe. Kungcono ukulahla imininingwana enjalo, noma ukushayela umfana. Zikhethele ukuthi yini ebaluleke kakhulu - injabulo yomuntu noma ukudala.
Owesifazane obulalayo ophule inhliziyo yakhe kumuntu wakho akuyona into eyingozi. Umfana ukhalela ngendwangu yakho ngothando lwakhe olungathandeki, mayelana nokuthi waphonswa owesifazane ongcono kakhulu emhlabeni. Futhi uyaziduduza, ukhonza i-handkerchief. Lolu hlobo lobuhlobo lungenzeka ekuqaleni. Kodwa uma kuthatha isilinganiso sokuxhumana njalo, kufanelekile ukucabanga ngakho. Emva kwakho konke, ufana nowesifazane obulalayo, unamehlo, umzimba, inhliziyo nomphefumulo. Ungamsiza ukuba amkhohlwe, uma isikhathi eside, ungenakuthola ekhanda lomuntu, shiya lo mkhakha bese uzithola ube indoda evamile!