Izimfihlo eziyinhloko zokuzethemba ngokuphelele

Ukubukeka okuhle kuyicilongo elinamandla, kodwa hhayi njalo i-jackpot. Ngeke uzihlole wena kuphela "ngaphandle". Kodwa ungacabangi indima yokubukeka ekuziboneleni kwakho nokuzihlonipha, futhi, akufanelekile. Kungcono ukwenza ubuhlobo obaneleyo. Sithanda thina ngokwengeziwe, uma sibheka okuhle, futhi sihlonishwa kakhulu ngenxa yokwazi ukuzethula ngendlela engcono kakhulu. Ngosizo lwesilungiselelo esenziwe ngokungenaphutha, izingubo ezikhethwe ngokucophelela kanye nekhanda elihle, senza ukukholelwa kokungabi nalutho (nakuba sikwazi ukwehluleka kwethu). Izinguquko ezibonakalayo ezibonakalayo ekubukeni zisikhuthaza ngokuqiniseka ukuthi singashintsha konke okunye ukuze kube ngcono. Njengoba siziguqula kwangaphandle, izinguquko zangaphakathi nazo zenzeka: sibonakala siqondisa, sinqobe ukungaqiniseki, ukwesaba kanye nezinkathazo. Futhi sikulungele ukuzihlonipha ngokweqiniso lokuthi sibhekene nezinguquko ezinhle. Izimfihlo eziyinhloko zokuzethemba ngokuphelele zizocatshangelwa namuhla.

Umthetho wokukhanga wena

Siphelelwe ngaphandle, sifuna ukuqashelwa abanye. Futhi ekutholeni, sikhulisa ukuzethemba nokuzethemba. Ngamunye wethu ukhetha isitayela sakhe futhi wakhe isithombe: isifazane esithambile, inhle kakhulu, intsha-ngokuqondile, ngokumangalisayo ngothando ... Ngokusemthethweni, lokhu kukhetha akuyona ngengozi: sigxila ukunambitheka kwalowo esifuna ukumthanda, ukumangala, ukunqoba kuze kube phakade noma okungenani kusihlwa. Futhi uma "umgomo ushayekile," ukuzethemba kwethu kuphakama: siqala ukuzihlonipha ngokwenza ukwazi ukuphatha ukubonakala kwethu futhi sifinyelele umgomo wethu. Kodwa umthetho futhi usebenza ngaphakathi kohlaka lobuhlobo nabesifazane bobulili obufanayo. Ukungahlosile ngamabomu ukubonakala komuntu, ukungabi nenhlalakahle, ukunganakwa, ukukhathalela, ngisho nokungahloniphi abesifazane abazungezile, okungahle kwenzeke ukuthi sinciphise ukuzethemba kwethu. Izingubo ezinhle kanye nokwenza okuhle asivumele ukuba singacindezeli abantu bethu abaseduze nathi. Lona uhlobo lwenhlonipho - wena nabanye abantu.

Umthetho wokuzihlonipha

Ukubukeka kahle kusiza ukufihla ubuthakathaka bethu (ukugula, isimo sengqondo esibi) futhi singalahlekelwa ukuzithiba kunoma yisiphi isimo. Kufana nomasikisi wezemidlalo, lapho izinkinga zomuntu wangempela zingabonakali, ukubukeka okucatshangelwe ngokucophelela kusenza sikwazi ukudweba umngcele othile phakathi kwethu nabanye. Kungokomzwelo ukuzihlukanisa nabo. Mhlawumbe awukho esimweni esihle kunazo zonke namuhla, kodwa ukwenza kahle, izingubo zangaphansi ezibizayo nokugqoka okuhle kakhulu akushiyi ithuba labanye ukuthi bayibone. Uzizwa unesifazane futhi unamandla ngesikhathi esifanayo, uzihloniphe ngokwazi ukukwazi ukuguqula izinkinga zakho ngendlela yokuthi akekho ozosolwa ngabo futhi ngeke azame ukusizakala ngobuthakathaka bakho. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izibonakaliso zokubukeka kahle ezizilungiselelayo oziphatha ngokuzinikela futhi ungavumeli noma ubani okumele anciphise kakhulu ibanga ekukhulumeni nawe ngaphandle kwesifiso sakho.

Umthetho wokuzindla okuhle

Ngokwenza ngokwakho kangcono, thina ... sihlobisa umhlaba! Futhi ukuzihlonipha kwethu kukhula emva kokushintsha kokuzibona nokuqonda kwezwe elisizungezile. Ukuzama ukulungisa okuthile okungcono ekubukeni kwethu, sinezela okuhle embonweni wethu weqiniso. Uma siqhakaza, izwe libuye libe lula futhi libalabala: uqala ukuhlangana nabantu abalungile, qaphela izinto ezincane ezimnandi, uthole amathuba amasha. Futhi ngokumelene nalesi sizinda, insiza eyengeziwe yokuzihlonipha ivula. Ngisho naphezu kwezinkinga ezinkulu nezinkinga ezingathinteki, isifiso sokuphila sivuselela. Okungenani ukuze kuboniswe ukuthi "umphakathi" ukubukeka kwayo okusha okuhle, futhi njengesiphezulu - ukuyisebenzisa. Yingakho ezimweni ezibucayi zokuphila kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthola amandla okungazakheli futhi, ngokuphambene nalokho, ngisho nokushintsha ngcono. Futhi uma kukhona amandla, sizwa umphumela walokhu ngendlela yokuzihlonipha kanye nesifiso sokwenza ukuqhuma okusha empumelelweni. Futhi ngisho "ibhonasi" encane, efana nokubuka okubhekayo okulandelayo noma ukuncoma kumngane, iba yisikhuthazo esinyathelweni esilandelayo esilandelayo.

Umthetho wokuthembela

Ukunakekelwa okunamandla, okujwayelekile futhi okubi kakhulu "kokubheka, kuphakamisa izinga lokuzihlonipha. "Izindleko" kusho ukungena kwemali eminingi engaphandle, njengesikhathi kanye nomzamo ozinikele ekuzinakekeleni. Uma sibheka usuku nosuku ngekhemu elihle, ngezikhathi ezithile sinikeza umzimba umzimba wokuzihlaziya, silondoloze ithoni yomzimba esikhungweni sempilo, okungenani kanye ngonyaka siya e-resort, siyazikhulela ngokuzenzekelayo. Umthetho wezokwelapha owaziwa kakhulu "Ukutshala izimali, okubaluleke kakhulu" kulesi simo ngamaphesenti angamakhulu.