Kungani amadoda afana ne-skinny?

Ukweqa ngokweqile kungenye yezinkinga eziyinhloko kumantombazane amaningi. Futhi uma abanye abantu bezwa ngenxa yokuthi abazithandi ngokwabo, ama-kilogram amaningi angaphazamiseka ngoba abesifazane abanjalo abathandeki kubafana. Yingakho abesifazane bevame ukucabanga ukuthi kungani amadoda ethanda isikhumba?

Ukwesaba inzalo engenzeka

Eqinisweni, umbuzo othi kungani umuntu ethanda omncane, kunezimpendulo eziningana. Kodwa okokuqala, kufanele kuqaphele ukuthi amadoda ambalwa afana nabantu ababi. Abamele ubulili obuqinile njengamantombazane ahlakaniphile abanezibalo ezinhle. Kodwa i-skinny, ene-dystrophic physique, ayithandi abaningi. Kodwa nokho sizobuyela embuzweni wokuthi kungani amadoda ekhetha amantombazane enesikhumba. Kubalulekile ukuthi uqaphele ukuthi okungalungile kakhulu ngokugcwele kukhona abantu abasha kakhulu. Futhi abadala laba babadala, banakekelwa kakhulu kulabo abamele abesilisa abakhulu. Ngendlela, lapha akudingekile ukuba udideke nabesifazane abathintekayo abangeke bazilandele ngokuphelele. Ngisho noma le ntombazane igcwele, kufanele abe nomdwebo, hhayi ama-fat, lapho kungenakwenzeka khona ukuhlukanisa noma yini. Ekukhuleni, amadoda athande abesifazane abancane, ngoba bayaqonda ukuthi owesifazane ongenalwazi, ongakulungeli ukuzala. Futhi yizingane ezesabisa abantu abasha. Ngakho-ke, ngokukhetha isikhumba, bayazivikela ngokweqile ezinkingeni. Lapho abantu bekhulile, banesifiso sokuba nendlalifa, futhi ngesifiso sabesifazane abanamafomu amaningi.

Isifiso sokuba iqhawe

Esinye isizathu esenza abantu bathande i-skinny kuyithuba lokuzizwa njengeqhawe eliseduze nabo. Vumelana, ngoba akubona wonke umuntu wamanje ongaziqhayisa ngamandla amakhulu nokudlala. Futhi eduze nentombazane encane neyincinyane, cishe wonke umuntu uzobukeka njenge-superhero. Ngaphezu kwalokho, amadoda afuna ukuvikela, ukuvikela nokuphatha ezandleni zamantombazane abo abathandayo. Abesifazane abancane abafana namakhosazana, okubangela isifiso esiqhubekayo sokubamba, sizungeze ukunakekelwa nokufudumala.

Muse, hhayi i-jellyfish

Esinye isizathu esenza amadoda akhethe amancane abe mncane kakhulu. Amantombazane amancane aqhuma njengama-moths, anethenda, aguquguqukayo, ahlanza. Kodwa abesifazane abagcwele baphatha ukuhlala kude kakhulu njalo. Yiqiniso, ungacabangi ukuthi wonke amantombazane aphelele ahlangene futhi ahlakaniphile. Ngesisindo esiningi - kunzima kakhulu ukuthi ube nomakhalekhukhwini nesiplastiki. Nakuba kungekho muntu othi lezi zimfanelo azikwazi ukuthuthukiswa. Yiqiniso, ungakwazi, kodwa akuzona zonke izindodakazi ezigcwele ezifuna ukuzikhandla ngendlela efanele. Futhi emva kwakho konke, amadoda afuna ukubheka le ntombazane ukuze ibone ingane yabo ne-muse, ehlanganisa zonke izinto ezinhle kuleli zwe. Izibalo zamantombazane enesikhumba ngokugcwele zihambisana nezithombe ezinjalo zezikhulu zehlathi nama-nymphs, ezibekiwe ekuqapheleni wonke umuntu kusukela ebuntwaneni obujulile. Kufanele kuqaphele ukuthi lokhu kudlala indima enkulu lapho umfana eqala ukukhetha intombazane ebonakalayo. Abantu abaningi baye bajwayele ukuzwa kusukela ebuntwaneni ukuthi amantombazane angcono kakhulu "alula njengama-birches", aqala ukubona lo mfanekiso njengowokuphela kweqiniso.

Kodwa-ke, abesifazane abathandekayo akudingeki bacabange ukuthi ngempela bonke abantu bathanda kakhulu. Eqinisweni, abantu abasha banokuthandwa okuhlukile. Futhi nakuba iningi labo likhetha ngempela amantombazane amancane, kunezinsizwa eziningi ezithandayo. Abesifazane kuphela abakhohlwa ukuthi, okokuqala, lona wesifazane udwetshiwe ngumfazi wakhe. Yebo, yebo, ngisho nentombazane engashadile, kodwa enhle kakhulu ibonakala ihle kakhulu. Kodwa okuphambene ngokuphelele, ngokuziphatha kwabo ngisho nokuphinda kugxeke amadoda. Ngakho-ke, uma intombazane ihlukunyezwa ngumbuzo wokuthi kungani amadoda ekhetha isikhumba, hhayi yena, mhlawumbe udinge ukuba acabange ukuthi angaziphatha kanjani futhi athumele. Uma intombazane egcwele ibukele, igqoke ngendlela yokufihla okungahle kwenzeke, iyakwazi ukuba mnene, iplastiki, ukukhanya, khona-ke unenani elikhulu kakhulu lamathuba okuba ngumuntu.

Amadoda afana ne-skinny ngoba ngokwengxenye lokhu kulandelwa kwesifazane ovelele kwafakwa kusukela ebuntwaneni. Kodwa-ke, wonke owesifazane ongumfazi wangempela angakwazi ukubhubhisa lezi zindlela ezimbi.