Okokuqala, kumele sikhulume ngalokho kulesi sihloko kuphela ubudlelwane obuye bahlolisiswa, ukuhlolwa kwesikhathi okuvivinywa, amanoveli asetshenzisiwe, njll, kubhekwa, awekho kulo mkhakha.
Ngokudabukisayo, lokhu akuzwanga njengalokho, kodwa amadoda angokomzwelo ngokomzwelo kunokuba ucabange. Imicabango yabo ayifuni ukuphumula futhi ivame ukugcinwa ngaphakathi. Ukuze umuntu avulele omunye umuntu kunzima kakhulu (kunzima ukuvuma ubuthakathaka bomuntu), ngakho-ke ngezinye izikhathi baziphathe kalula ngemva kokuhlukanisa. Ake sicabangele izinhlobo eziningana zokuziphatha.
Uhlobo lokuqala lokuziphatha. Boomerang.
Njengoba bethi, ngezinye izikhathi babuya. Ngokuvamile amadoda angadalwa okungaqondakali futhi ngezinye izikhathi aqhubeke ebiza emva kokuhlukanisa futhi azame ukuqala ubudlelwane obusha, hhayi ukukhokha ngokukhethekile ukungavumelani kwethu, baqhubeka bewucindezela. Futhi ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka, ngisho nangemva kokuba ikhefu liqaliswe yedwa. Kulesi simo, ukuthuthukiswa kwalokhu ubudlelwane kuxhomeke kithi, futhi kufanele silandele imithetho yethu.
Uhlobo lwesibili lokuziphatha. Angikudingi, ngithole kalula indawo.
Njengoba kungenzima ukuqagela, lokhu kwenzeka uma umuntu wakho wangaphambili eqinisweni "ngosuku olulandelayo" ngemuva kokuhlukanisa kuyithola intombazane entsha (njengomthetho, kuba ngcono kakhulu kunakho, njengoba besho, ukuthi kwenzekani). Lokhu akusho ukuthi imizwa ngawe ishiyiwe kuye, ngesikhathi esifanayo lapho uhlehlile, indoda nje idinga ukuvikelwa, udinga isiqiniseko sesimo sakhe njengesilisa. Wayefuna nje umuntu ukuba abe khona. Ngakho ungasheshi ukucabanga ukuthi ubi kakhulu kune "inkukhu" ayithola, lokhu kungukubonakaliswa kobuthakathaka.
Uhlobo lwesithathu lokuziphatha. UMagpie wamlethela emsila.
Njengoba sonke siyazi, amadoda ahleba ngisho nokuhleka kunabesifazane. Futhi uma wena no-ex yakho ningena kumbuthano owodwa wokuxhumana, khona-ke ungathola ngokungazelelwe ukuthi omunye usakaze amahemuhemu angcolile ngawe. Yilokho, yiqiniso, yikho yangaphambili, futhi kufanele ngithi lokhu kuyinto enengekayo kakhulu. Kulesi simo, akuyona nje ukwesaba ukulahlekelwa ubuso bakho njengendoda (nakuba engakufanelekeli leli gama), kodwa kuhlanganise nokukhokha encane nokungcolile. Umuntu uzama ukukucasula futhi aziveze njengesisulu.
Uhlobo lwesine lokuziphatha. Inhlonipho nokuthula.
Mayelana nalokhu ukuziphatha komuntu ngemuva kokuhlukanisa kwakho kungaphupha kuphela, noma ukukugabisa, uma kunjalo. Lokhu, njengoba bethi, "bahlukana nabangane", kulokhu, ngemuva kokuphumula, awuzange ube ngumuntu - njengomlingani ebuhlotsheni, kodwa umngane omkhulu uvele ngubani owaziyo futhi ekusekelayo. Futhi ngezinye izikhathi kungcono kakhulu kunobudlelwane. Ngokujwayelekile, lokhu kubonisa ukuvuthwa kwakho kwangaphakathi. Okunye ukuthi wukuyeka ubuhlobo bakho ngesikhathi.
Uhlobo lwesihlanu lokuziphatha. Abantu abangajwayelekile.
Lokhu kwenzeka lapho, ngemuva kokuhlukanisa, ngokungazelelwe uqaphele ukuthi akukho okungafani phakathi kwakho nobuhlobo bakho, futhi uyaqonda lokhu. Khona-ke uziphatha njengomuntu ongajwayelekile, azikho izingcingo, akukho ukuhleka, akukho ubungane, ukuxhumana kuncishisiwe kuye kwaba okungenani. Kulesi simo, ungazisola ngokuthi ubuhlobo, ngoba uhlukile kakhulu futhi awuhlangene nokuphila.
Yiqiniso, lokhu akuzona zonke izinhlobo zokuziphatha, ngoba empeleni ukuhlukaniswa konke kuhlukile. Lezi zibonelo kuphela ezijwayelekile kanye nezici ezivamile. Nje lapha, izizathu zokuhlukanisa azicatshangwa nhlobo, futhi zithonya kakhulu ekuziphatheni komuntu ngemuva kwekhefu.