Umhlangano wokuqala ngothando akukaze ukhohliwe. Njengalindelekile usuku lokuqala, iqhwa esikhumbeni, inhliziyo enzithende. Yiqiniso, ngesikhathi kanye nokuqala kwenjabulo ephelele, isiphepho semizwelo sidlula. Futhi ufuna ukugcina imizwa yakho yothando phakathi kwakho kuze kube phakade. Futhi cabanga, kunezindlela zokwenza!
Uthando lokucabanga
Lapho sisondela ngokwengeziwe, sithatha isikhathi esisheshayo se-romance. Ngakho-ke, ukulondoloza imizwa yokukhanya, umuntu kumele ahlangane ngokungavamile ngangokunokwenzeka: kanye ngonyaka, njalo eminyakeni emihlanu. Futhi into engcono kakhulu akuyona ukuhlangana nhlobo, kodwa ukugcina isimo seNkosana Enhle emphefumulweni. Ngezinye izikhathi ungakwazi ukondla lesi sithombe esiyigugu ngezigcawu ezivela kuma-movie namanoveli. Ungondla noma yikuphi imizwa kuNkosana yakho futhi ucabange konke okufunayo - isithombe esihle kakhulu asiyikusivimbela kulokhu. Ngokungafani noqobo, egcwele isikhumba nezinwele zomuntu.
Kodwa-ke: Kulo modeli, abesifazane abancane abaneminyaka yobudala besikoleni esiphakathi nabaphezulu baphila. Bazithandana ngokuzithandela nabaculi noma bhala amaqhawe. Kuze kube yilapho umuntu wangempela (okwesikhashana okwesikhashana) engabi ngumphikisi wePrince wamaphupho afanelekayo. Kodwa ngisho noma lokhu kwangempela kuphakama emkhakheni wezwe, kungase kunqotshwe ngephupho, njalo ukuliqhathanisa ne-Ideal Chosen One. Akekho umuntu emhlabeni ongakwazi ukumelana nokuncintisana okunjalo: maduzane uzoqoqa izinto zakhe futhi afihle ngemuva komugqa ogqamile.
Uthando ngomgwaqo oyedwa
Abathandekayo nabathandekayo bayaqhubeka bengakukhathazi ukuthi awukho lutho - akunjalo yini isizathu sokujabula? Lesi simo futhi sigcina isethi ephelele yemizwa yothando! Okungafani, okukodwa, hhayi uthando olulodwa kungagcinwa amashumi eminyaka njengenkonzo yeholide. Kuyafana nokuthanda iNkosana engqondweni. Isheke langempela alisongeli ubudlelwane bakho: yiziphi amazwi othandekayo athi, ukushaya umunwe ngesando; Uyabamba ebusuku yini? Uphindwe kaningi kangakanani iminyaka eyishumi? - lezi zimfihlo zizofa naye.
Nokho: Ubuhlobo obunjalo bufana nokugula okungapheli isikhathi eside, ukuphoqeleka ukuyeka izinjabulo eziningi zangempela. Uthando olulodwa lwangempela lwalunye ludinga umnikazi walo kakhulu.
Ukugijima nezithiyo
Uma lezi zindlela ezincane zingahambisani nawe, ungahlala ugcina uthando lwakho ngokuthola isimo esingenakuphelelwa isikhathi sezinyanga ezimbili. NjengaseRomao noJuliet! Ngendlela, akukwazi ngokuphelele ukuthi kuzokwenzekani uma lezi heroes zothando zihlanganiswa ngaphansi kophahla olulodwa ukuze ziphile ndawonye ngenjabulo. "Romeo othandekayo, ngikhathele kanjani ukuqoqa amasokisi akho emagumbini!" "UJuliet, kodwa awukwenzi lutho, futhi ngikhathele njengenja.
"Futhi sidla kanjani lapho - singakulungeli?"
Kodwa-ke: Ukuthandana kubungozi njalo: kuthiwani uma unqoba zonke izithiyo? Ngokungazelelwe ukubekezela kwakho kuyothola impumelelo ngokugcwele? Khona-ke kuyoba yini ukuthakazelisa okungcwele kothando?
Uthando Ngokuhamba Konke
Izazi zengqondo ziyazi ukuthi isigamu sempilo yokuphila kwemizwa yothando phakathi kwezidalwa ezimbili ezihlala ngaphansi kophahla olufanayo yizinsuku ezingu-90.
Lokhu kungukuthi, singalindela ukuthi ezinyangeni ezintathu imizwa iyoba yingxenye enkulu njengoba iqala ekuqaleni. Futhi ngonyaka bazophendukela othulini. Lokhu, ngokusobala, kwakuqagela ukuthi uDon Juan "ohambahambayo" ongenakuqondakala. Futhi emashumini eminyaka amuva, ukuziphatha okunjalo kuyeke kwaba yindoda yesilisa wesilisa. Abanye baphila kanje, ukushintsha phakathi kokubili kuthi: "Uthando lufikile" futhi "uthando seludlulile."
Kodwa-ke: abambalwa baphatha ukuvumelana njalo phakathi nokuphila kwabo. Ngoba ukuhlala ngaphandle kokuzinza kwabaningi abadala kunzima kakhulu.
Uthando unxantathu
Wena, njengesitimela esivela encwadini yokufunda yezibalo, uhamba njalo ukusuka endaweni eyi-A ukukhomba B. Ephuzu A unomyeni, ngokuphathelene nokuthi igama elithi "romance" lizwakala kanjani lingahambi kahle. Ephuzu В - lothando nayo yonke charm yezingqondo zothando. Indoda inikeza ukuzinza kokuphila nokududuza, futhi lothandi - injabulo nesifiso. Indoda ibona umkayo "kuyo yonke ubuhle bekhaya", nangaphambi komthandi, ngokumelene nengqikithi yezithiyo, ingozi kanye nesimo esiyingqayizivele, ubonakala engumuntu ongathandana naye othandana naye.
Nokho: Ake sithi ngelinye ilanga umyeni wakho uyakhathala, futhi uyothi: "Iya kumthandi wakho." Futhi manje, kubonakala sengathi, umzuzwana omuhle wenyunyana: abathandi bokugcina bezemfihlo benza ipayipi elizinzile. Kodwa kuphela uthando oluvuthiwe kusukela kulolu daba lwezenzakalo. Lokhu, indlela, ufakazela izibalo: emva kokuphumula nomyeni wakhe ngenxa yokukhashelwa, owesifazane uhlala ehlala nomlingani wakhe kuphela kweso elilodwa ngaphandle kwezingu-10, kaningi yena unomuntu wesithathu.
Uthando luhambe? - Hamba phambili
Ukugcina uthando, sivula i-akhawunti ngokulahlekelwa. Zinezinhlobo ezimbili: noma kufanele sinciphise kakhulu ukukhulumisana futhi senze ubuhlobo obungokwenyama; noma ufihle ikhanda lakho esihlabathini bese ungena kumnandi. Noma mhlawumbe kufanelekile ukuyeka ukudla okusemathinini futhi ushintshe imikhiqizo emisha? Mhlawumbe kufanelekile ukuhlala nomuntu othandekayo futhi ubone: yini ezokwenzeka emva kwalokho, ngaphesheya kwesikhathi sokuthandana kwezinsuku ezingu-90? Ingabe kukhona indawo yothando? Ezinye imibhangqwana sezivele zenze izinto ezifanayo. Uthando luyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu, futhi ingxenye yothando ingxenye encane yayo kuphela. Kodwa nguye okhazinyuliswa yizingoma, ama-movie namanoveli. Ngakho kubonakala kubaningi ukuthi akekho omunye uthando. Futhi uma ukholwa, khona-ke uthando "luzodlula" njalo ezinyangeni ezintathu!
Kukhona umbono ohlukile wokuthi ukushisa kothando kunjengokuthi kusengaphambili. Uma kungenjalo, besingeke sazama ukwenza le adventure engozini: ukuqala ukuhlala ndawonye. Kodwa lokho okuzokwenzeka ngokulandelayo kuzoboniswa kuphela ngomkhuba!