Uke waba ndawonye iminyaka eminingana, wadlulisa isikhathi se-pastel-candy-bouquet futhi wangena ebuhlotsheni bansuku zonke, "bytovuha." Futhi akunandaba ukuthi uhlala emshadweni womphakathi, emnyangweni womndeni wezomthetho noma ngokwehlukana, lesi senzakalo asikwazi ukugwema.
Yini ngempela ngaphansi kwaleli gama elibi? Ake sizame ukuqhathanisa ubuhlobo bomndeni nsuku zonke: wenza ukuhlanza, ukugeza izitsha, ukususa izinto zakhe futhi kudinga ukubuyiselwa kuye, futhi, uhlobo oluthile lomsebenzi noma ngokuthengisa ngobumnene amasevisi akhe ("othandekayo, ngidinga ingubo entsha yomboya / ijazi / ijaji ..."). Yena, eqinisekisa ukuthi i-sutra yomhlinzeki isebenza futhi uletha iningi lemali engenayo emndenini, uyaqhubeka nokusakaza amasokisi akhe futhi hhayi ukwehlisa isembozo se-toilet bowl. Kukhona ukungqubuzana.
Ukuphila kwansuku zonke kungathinta nokuphila kocansi. Uma umfana onentombazane engakwazi ukuzama ukulala embhedeni futhi zonke izinsuku zinama-nihodnoobrazny, ubulili obuhle kakhulu, omunye wabalingani angaba nesithukuthezi. Esimweni esihle kakhulu, kusihlwa kuzophela ngombhalo othi "ake silale phansi eduze", nakakhulu, ushintshe.
Isibonakaliso sokuqala sokuthi ubuhlobo bakho budluliselwe ezingeni le- "indlu" - ukucasula ezintweni ezincane. Isibonelo, uthukuthele futhi amemeza nomngane wakhe oshade naye ngenxa yokuthi ugijima isikhathi eside esibukweni phambi komkhiqizo, nakuba kungekho ndawo yokusheshisa. I-zhuzhutko yakhe iyamcasula ukubamba kwakhe ebusuku noma etafuleni etafuleni. Futhi abafihli lezi zikhalo, kodwa, ngokuphambene nalokho, babonise umbono wabo ngomunye nomuntu siqu.
Omunye angasho ukuthi lokho okushiwo yikusasa ukucabanga ngomunye umuntu ngaphandle kwakho, uhlobo lobugovu ebuhlotsheni phakathi komfana nentombazane. Uma wazi izimo ezichazwe ngenhla - udinga ukwenza ngokuphuthumayo!
Ungakugwema kanjani umusho?
- I-Romantika. Khumbula wena ekuqaleni komshado. Insizwa enesabekayo ayiyazi ukuthi yiliphi uhlangothi oluzofika kumfazi othakazelisayo, uzama ukumjabulisa futhi sicela. Ngakho-ke kungani ungakalungiseleli isidlo sokuthanda noma ungahambisi kuma-movie womculo womndeni omuhle? Zama ukuhlela ukumangala: lungisa isitsha sakhe ozithandayo, uhlobise indlu ngezimbali namakhandlela, ugqoke izingubo ozigqoke futhi ulinde othandekayo wakho emsebenzini. Okubi nakanjani ngeke.
- Ukusabalalisa kwemisebenzi. Uma usuhlala ndawonye ndawonye, wonke umuntu endlini kufanele azi ngokucacile ukuthi kufanele akwenze nokuthi ngukuphi usuku lwesonto. Kuyinto efiselekayo ukuthi kufanele kube namalungelo alinganayo futhi afane namathuba angokwenyama. Ungakwazi ngisho nokubhala bese uhlala esiqandisini, isibonelo, ngubani futhi lapho kuhlanzwa izitsha.
- Nika isikhathi kubangani. Kanye ngesonto ungahlela ukuphumula komunye nomunye futhi uhambehamba enkampanini yabangane abadala. Makuphuze ubhiya nabalimi bebhola, futhi uhamba eduze nezitolo nabangani bakho.
- Izenzo zokuzilibazisa. Uma, nakanjani, kunesikhathi esanele salokhu, bhalisela i-yoga, ukubunjwa, ukubhukuda. Okungafaniyo. Into esemqoka - musa ukuma, ukuthuthukisa, ukuqhubekela phambili futhi ungabandakanyeki kuphela empilweni yomndeni.
- Ubulili obuhlukahlukene. Isivivinyo, ungesabi ukwenza lokho ongakaze uzame. Umbhede yindawo yaseshashalazini yakho. Dlala ngezindima zakho ezizithandayo ezintsha. Uyomangala kakhulu.
Izindlela zokuhlukanisa ubudlelwane obunesizungu manje, okuningi. Into eyinhloko ukuthi ungavumi ukuhamba ngezandla zakho, ungadikibali, futhi uzithuthukise ngezindlela ezihlukile. Zibeke kahle futhi uzobona ukuthi konke okuzungezile kuqala ukushintsha kangcono. Into esemqoka ukukholelwa kuwe!