Ukuba ngumama noma ukukhipha isisu?
Ngaphambi kwabesifazane akukhona umbuzo olula: "Ukuba ngumama noma ukwenqaba?", Lesi sinqumo asilula futhi akukhona ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuqiniseka okucacile, ukwamukelwa kwalokhu noma leso sinqumo. Kukhona umzabalazo phakathi kwesono esivele sesivela ngaphambi kokukhipha isisu nangaphambi kwezwi lakhe langaphakathi: "Ngedwa ngedwa ngaphandle komyeni", "Asinayo indlela eyanele yokukhulisa, ukukhulisa ingane," "Ngaphambi kokuba ngifunde," nezinye izitatimende ezifanayo. Ngamanye amazwi, umzabalazo wemibutho emibili: ukuzwa okungaqondakali mayelana nengane, isifiso sokuba umama. Futhi ubuqili (ukuqonda) ukudla ngokungafani komphakathi okuhlukene ngakho-ke kuleso simo akulula kakhulu ukuhamba ucingo lwenhliziyo.
Kodwa indlela yokusebenza ngoba izwi langaphakathi lithi isimo siyinkimbinkimbi, kodwa kunzima, akusho ukuthi akunakwenzeka. Ungakwazi, ngoba angiyena kuphela owesifazane emhlabeni osele yedwa, futhi ngizovusa ingane. Ngezifundo ungathatha iholidi lezemfundo, bese omunye wezihlobo, abangane, obajwayele kuzobasiza noma ezinye izinketho. Awusiye kuphela owakhulelwa ngenkathi ufunda, futhi ukuphila kuzokunika ithuba lokuqeda izifundo zakho. Umsebenzi, uma uhlelwe ngendlela efanele, bese ufaka inkokhelo (nakuba engekho enkulu kakhulu). Yebo, futhi lokhu unyaka wesikhashana - owodwa nengxenye, ngoba akuzona njalo ingane izoba encane. Futhi kulo myalelo, ungathola umsebenzi owengeziwe (kunezinketho eziningi, kuye ngamakhono akho namakhono). Izinto zezingane umqhubi, izingubo, isikhalazo singanikeza abangane asebekhulile kakade ingane. Ezinsaneni, izinsana, izinto azikho isikhathi sokuphelelwa yisikhathi. Ukudla okungakapheli izinyanga eziyisithupha umntwana angabisi ubisi kuphela, lokhu kubuye kube ngokweqile. Isixazululo senkinga singatholakala, udinga nje ukucabanga ngokucophelela.
Phela, impilo iveza izimo ezihlukahlukene, kodwa ingane ayikwazi ukubuyiselwa. Futhi manje usuvele ucabanga ukuthi ukwenza isisu sokukhipha okwesibili, usuke udabukile, uhoxiswa kuwe. Ngokuqondene nokubukeka kwengane, kunenkathazo enkulu eyakhiwa, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo inikeza okuningi: uthando, injabulo, ubungqabavu. Futhi uma unquma ukushiya ingane, futhi usondelene nokuzalwa, unqume ukuthi awukwazi ukuyiyeka wena, khona-ke ungayinikela ekutholeni ingane (kumantandane noma kwabanye abantu abathile ukuthi bayamukele). Ukukhipha isisu kwesibili kuletha ukuhlupheka okungaphezulu futhi kuzokukwenza kube lula futhi kufanele uphile nale mthwalo.
Ukukhipha isisu kwesibili.
Kuthiwani uma emva kokukhipha isisu sokuqala, futhi futhi ukhulelwe, ungenza isisu sesibili? Phendula lo mbuzo odokotela: "Ngemuva kokukhipha isisu sokuqala, odokotela kwakudingeka baxoxe ngezincazelo zokuziphatha kokuphila ngokocansi nokuhlanzeka kowesifazane. Uma usukhulelwe futhi, futhi akusifisi, futhi ufuna ukuphazamisa. Akuxhomekile, ingabe okwesibini noma yesithathu, okwesine akukhipha isisu. Isidingo sokuhamba okwesibili sokukhipha isisu (ukukhipha isisu) esikhundleni semithi akudingekile. Ngemuva kwezinkinga zokuphazamiseka kwezidakamizwa ziba ngu-5% futhi alishintshi kusuka kumvamisa wokuphazamiseka kokukhulelwa. Ukuvimbela ukukhulelwa kwanamuhla kuvimbela ukukhulelwa, kuvuselela imisebenzi yokuzala futhi kufanele kuthathwe ngokushesha ngemuva kokuphela kokufakelwa kokukhulelwa. Indlela engcono kakhulu yokuvikelwa noma kunjalo ibhekwa njengendlela ehlanganisiwe yama-hormonal (zokukhulelwa).
Ukukhishwa kwesisu kokubili okuqhubekayo kukhula ngokwengeziwe, kwandisa ingozi yemiphumela emibi: ukungabi namandla, ukungakwazi ukuthela izithelo kuze kube sekupheleni kokukhulelwa (usongo lokukhulelwa kwesisu) futhi lokhu akukhona nje ngenxa yokulimala kwesibeletho (izibazi), ukwandisa ukungena kwesibeletho ngenxa yalokhu akunakwenzeka ukugcina ingane yakho amaviki angu-12 kuya kwangu-14 okukhulelwa). Kodwa futhi kunezinguquko emlandweni we-hormonal nasemuva wengqondo - empeleni ukukhulelwa okuphephile kuphazamiseka.
Namanje ungabelethi owesifazane, ungenza isisu sesibili? Ukukhulelwa, okuyinto engathandeki, kungcono kakhulu ukukhipha isisu - kuyokwenza ingozi emincane yemiphumela emibi (ngoba lesi sibeletho asikabi kakhulu). Esikhathini eside (ngaphezulu kwamasonto ayisikhombisa), ukungenelela kokuhlinzekwa kufanele kwenziwe ngaphambi kokuba isonto leshumi nambili kanye nokunakekelwa kokulandelwa ngumchwepheshe kuyimpoqo.
Ukukhipha isisu kuyinkinga eningi.
Ukukhipha isisu kuyinkinga eningi, izici zihlukile: ezokwelapha, zokuziphatha, ezenhlalakahle, ezenkolo nabanye. Kudingekile, kuzochazwa ngezisekelo:
1. Noma yikuphi ukukhipha isisu, futhi kungakhathaliseki isikhathi sokuqeda ukukhulelwa, kulimaza umzimba wesifazane.
2. Ukukhipha isisu ngezizathu zezokwelapha, kodwa lapha ngaphandle kokuxoxisana - kuyacaca odokotela abanomthwalo wobungozi.
3. Ukukhipha isisu, ngezigaba zokuqala zokwelapha noma ukwelapha - lokhu kungumuntu siqu.
4. Akekho ongekho owesifazane onelungelo lokumnquma ukuthi ngabe akhiphe isisu noma cha, ngisho nombuso, ukuvinjelwa sekukhulile.
5. Ukuqedwa kokukhulelwa ngosuku olulandelayo ngaphandle kobufakazi bezokwelapha sekuvele bugebengu.
Izinhlobo zokuqeda ukukhulelwa kokukhulelwa: i-saline aminocentesis, i-aspirum aspiration, hysteremia nezinye izindlela.
Indlela yokugwema ukukhipha isisu - abazali ngokumelene nendoda noma ingane, kungani kuveza ubumpofu, uma uyazi ukuthi ingane enokukhubazeka, egulayo kanye nezinye izizathu.
Imiphumela ichazwa ngokuningiliziwe emithonjeni ehlukahlukene, kodwa akekho ozokutshela mayelana nengozi kakhulu, futhi ngeke uwathole, konke kufihliwe ochwepheshe. Futhi uma uNkulunkulu evimbela ngesikhathi sokuhlinzwa noma ngemuva kokufa kwesiguli, i-anamnesis ngeke ibonise isizathu - ukukhipha isisu, iyobekwa njengesimo sesibili noma esivumelanayo.
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