Umbuzo wendawo yokuphumula nengane ngosuku oluvaliwe, ubeka abazali abaningi ekupheleni kokufa. Lapho ukhetha indawo yokuchitha isikhathi, lalela izifiso zengane yakho. Njengoba unikezele ukuthi ukhetha indawo yokuzijabulisa kuye, igama eliyisimiso lihlala kuye. Futhi lena yinye yezikhathi ezibalulekile lapho ingane izwa ukubandakanyeka kwayo nokubaluleka emndenini, ikhula iqiniseka futhi ithule.
Okuningi kuxhomeke ekuhleleni kwezimpelasonto, ukuthi abantu abadala bazicabangela kanjani izici zonyaka wengane kanye nezithakazelo zakhe. Ngokucabangela kuyadingeka ukwamukela umbuso wosuku lomntwana, ikakhulukazi kubalulekile ezinganeni ezingaphansi kweminyaka emithathu yokuphila. Kulokhu, kubalulekile ukuhlela zonke izinto ezicatshangelwayo. Uma kukhona ukuhamba enkulisa yezingane ngemuva kokudla kwasekuseni amahora amabili, ngosuku lokuphuma kwengane kufanele luhambe ngesikhathi esifanayo. Vakashela ipaki, uhambehamba emigwaqweni ejwayelekile, ume endaweni yokudlala, ukuze ingane ingadlala nesihlabathi, neontanga yakhe, ihlelelele umdlalo olula ohambayo. Ungathathi ingane yakho nawe uma uya emakethe noma ezitolo. Uzothola ukukhathala ukuhamba nje ngaleyo ndlela futhi, mhlawumbe, ukutheleleka.
Ngokuvamile abazali bahola izingane zabo endaweni yokudoba, epaki yokuzijabulisa noma endaweni yokuzilibazisa. Ohambweni olunjalo kubalulekile ukubala isikhathi futhi ungacabangi ukuthi kungenzeka kangakanani umntwana, njengoba ukuvakashela lezo zindawo ngokushesha kumlonda. Ukuqondiswa ngumthetho: ukuzijabulisa okuhlobene nokuhlala endaweni engavamile yengane kufanele kwenziwe ngosuku lokuqala. Usuku lwesibili lwenzelwe ukunciphisa ingane futhi ukuze angene ngesigqi esivamile sokuphila ngaphambi kokuvakashela inkulisa.
Kungcono ukuqhuba umcimbi ekuseni, ukuze ukukhululeka kushiywe kusihlwa. Kanye nomgwaqo, lokhu kuchitha isikhathi akufanele kudlule amahora amathathu.
Akunconywa ukushayela izingane ezineminyaka engaphansi kweminyaka emithathu ubudala, izihlahla zikaKhisimusi, izivunguvungu, i-escus kanye nemidlalo yaseshashalazini. Izimpawu ezikuzo zenzelwe izingane ezindala. Ingane encane mhlawumbe ngeke iqonde noma yini, izokhathala futhi ingase ikwesabe. Izingane zingabona okuhlangenwe nakho okusha nolwazi ngemaminithi angu-20 kuphela ngosizo lwezincazelo zikamama. Izethulo esekisini, indawo yaseshashalazini, esihlahleni sikaKhisimusi singaphelela amahora angu-2-3, okungaphezu kwamandla wengane.
Uma uqala ukuvakashela i-zoo, khombisa izinyoni zezilwane nezilwane ezijwayele kuye ezithombeni, emidwebo nasezintwaneni. Abantu abadala kufanele balingise umthwalo wolwazi wengane. Misa uhambo uma luhamba ngeselula futhi lungaziqondi, noma, ngokuphambene, lugxeka futhi luvila, olubonisa ukusebenza ngokugcwele.
Ntambama, thola amakilasi athule. Funda ibhuku lezingane zezingane, vakashela izindawo ezijwayelekile, izindawo zokudlala noma ipaki. Kuhle ukuhamba nomndeni wonke.
Akudingekile ukuphoqa ukuthi ingane idlale nezinye izingane noma ukuxhumana nabantu abadala. Akunconywa ukumema izivakashi noma uya ukuzivakashela, bukela i-TV. Esikhundleni salokho, mtshele ebusuku ebusuku indaba ethule.
Indawo ethakazelisayo futhi ethakazelisayo lapho ungakwazi ukuphumula kuphela nomntanakho, kodwa futhi uchithe isikhathi ngokuzuzisa, kungaba khona ukuvakashelwa kumamyuziyamu. Kuzingane zasenkulisa, iminyuziyamu yemlando yemvelo iyathandeka. Noma kunjalo, ingane ayikwazi ukubona yonke into emnyuziyamu. Ungavami ukuhamba kusuka kwesinye isikhangiso ukuya kwesinye, kuyaphuza ingane. Kungcono futhi kusebenziseke kakhulu ukukhetha ukunakekelwa kwakhe okunye, ukuhlola ngokucophelela lo mbukiso futhi ufunde kabanzi mayelana nabo. Khetha ukubonisa ngokuvumelana nezithakazelo zomntanakho, isibonelo, ezinikezelwe izikhali ezindala, izikhwama, izinto zokukhishi, ifenisha, njll.
Izingane zibonisa isithakazelo esikhulu ekutholeni izimbangi: izikebhe, ezixotshiwe esihlahleni somuthi, ngamatshe nangezikhumba, kanye nezindwangu.
Usuku olugcwele izenzakalo lukhanga kakhulu ingane. Ngokuvamile abazali bacabanga ngephutha ukuthi ingane ekhulelwe iyawela kalula. Kodwa empeleni ingane ejabule ixoshwa kakhulu, iyethusa kakhulu, ivame ukungenangqondo, ikhala ngaphandle kwesizathu futhi ayikwazi ukulala isikhathi eside. Abazali kufanele bakhumbule ngalokhu okuphawulekayo kwe-psyche yezingane ezincane, bahlele izimo zokuthula ezinganeni ekhaya, ungayidluli ngolwazi kanye nokubonakala.