Ukulungiselela ukubukeka kwengane akuyona umsebenzi olula: udinga ukucabanga ngakho konke futhi uyilinganise. Kunzima kakhulu kunomama ozayo, abangalindeli nje kuphela, kodwa izingane ezimbili ngesikhathi esisodwa.
UKUKHULULELA INVIRONMENT
Amama amawele ahlale ehaqwe ukunakwa okukhethekile. Odokotela abasuka ekubonisaneni kwabesifazane bawagcina benomlutha, futhi ngezinye izikhathi baphoselwa emzimbeni abe "eqenjini eliyingozi", belifakazela ngokuthi umuntu okhulelwe ngokuphindaphindiwe kuyinto evamile.
Izihlobo nabangane, njengombuso, bayamangala ngokuphumelela okuphindwe kabili futhi sebeqagele kakade ezindlekweni zengqondo zezipho ezinganeni ezithandekayo ngosuku lwabo lokuzalwa.
Ezinsukwini zokugcina ngaphambi kokubeletha, isisu segolide sezingane ezimbili sithinta ubukhulu bayo, futhi yena nomngane wakhe kubonakala sengathi kungabonakala kahle kuGuinness Book of Records.
Ekupheleni kwenyanga yesishiyagalolunye, owesifazane uyobe esejwayele ukubuka imibono yabantu abathintekayo kanye nemibono yabangane kanye nabasebenza nabo. Kodwa udinga ukulungele futhi kwabanye - hhayi emnandi kakhulu - kulabo abathintekayo besimo sakhe. Isibonelo, izindleko zokuxilongwa kwe-ultrasound noma usuku olulodwa lokuhlala esibhedlela ngokuvumelana nenkontileka ye "wholesale mama" ngenhla. Ukulungiselela i-nursery nokuqoqa i-dowry, umama osemusha akahlali njalo ebonisa ukuthi yini edingekayo "empilweni entsha". Sizozama ukulungisa uhlu lwamaphangi adingekayo kusukela ekubukeni komama.
KONKE - VESELEY!
Ungasheshi ukuthenga izikebhe ezimbili ngokushesha. Izinsana oziletha ekhaya zincane kakhulu futhi zingasebenzi ukuze ukwazi ukugibela kalula embhedeni owodwa futhi akunakwenzeka ukuphazamisana. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izazi ze-psychologists ziphakamisa ukuthi izingane, ezinyangeni ezinhlanu ezinde, ziye zahlukanisa izibeletho zikamama, zizokhululeka kakhulu ngesikhathi sokuqala eduze komunye nomunye. Uma kungenzeka, cabanga ngokuhlela ifenisha ukuze kube nelinye indawo. Zonke izingane zihlukile, mhlawumbe maduze uzodinga ukuthenga owesibili. Ucwaningo olwenziwa ngabazali bamawele lwabonisa ukuthi abanye abazalwane nodade bangalala ndawonye izinyanga eziyisithupha, kanti abanye baqala ukuphazamisana futhi badinga ukuvuselelwa "ekamelweni elihlukile" kusukela ngenyanga yesibili yokuphila. Ngokuqondene nokuncelisa, ngakho-ke, ngokuphambene nenkolelo evamile, omama abaningi baphatha ukuncelisa izingane zombili ngisho nangaphandle kokwengeza ifomula nobisi. Futhi-ke, lokhu kuyisivikelo esiwusizo kakhulu ekudleni amawele. Lokhu kuyisimangaliso kuzo zonke izici kungathengwa ezitolo ezikhethekile noma ezenziwe ngefenisha elibi kakhulu. Umcamelo ubheka njengehhashi elikhulu. Umama, ehlezi embhedeni, uwubeka okhalweni futhi abe "izindlalifa" zombili zomcamelo. Ukudla ngesikhathi esisodwa kwezinsana kunamathuba amaningi. Okokuqala, ngalokhu okuncelisayo, ukukhiqizwa kweprolactin emzimbeni wesifazane kunamandla kakhulu, okuba nethonya elihle ngobuningi besibisi. Okwesibili, isikhathi esingekho, sisindiswa kakhulu. Abanye bakholelwa ukuthi ngokudla okwenziwa ngesikhathi esifanayo kwezinsana kunikezwe ukunakekelwa okwanele. Kuhle - ngezinye izikhathi ungadla izingane kanye nanye ngesikhathi.
SILLA, SILA, HLA!
Uma ukhetha isihlalo sabakhubazekile, qaphela isisindo salo, ubukhulu bendawo, ukuhleleka kwe-assembly-disassembly kanye nomkhiqizi. Njengomthetho, esivumelwaneni esivamile, umqhubi ophindwe kabili uhambisana kuphela uma ehlungwe. Akusikwesabeki - okufanayo inqubo yokuhamba kuyoba nezinyathelo ezimbili. Umehluko omkhulu phakathi kwabagibeli abaphindwe kabili ukubeka izingane: noma ngabe izingane zihambisana nomunye nomunye, noma ngayinye, nge "locomotive". Inketho ngayinye inezinzuzo zombili nezinkinga. Lapho izingane zihlala eduze komunye nomunye, zingakwazi ukuxhumana, ngoba wonke umuntu obuka umbono ofanayo uvula, kodwa "locomotive" iyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu - ingena ku-elevator yezimpahla futhi ifakwe ebhodini. Amanye amamodeli wanamuhla-abaguqulwayo anamathebhu anezinsimbi zokugqoka. Ngaphezu kokuhamba, bangenza omunye umsebenzi omuhle: uma izinsana zombili zingenasisekelo ngaphambi kokulala, zingagubha.
IZINYATHELO EZIKHULULEKILE
Muva nje, kuye kwaba yindabuko ukugqoka amawele ngezambatho ezifanayo, ngokuqhubeka nokugcizelela ukuthi ungubani. Isibonakaliso esinjalo singabangela ukuthambekela kwesinye isikhathi esidlule, sidonse ukunakwa komuntu wonke emndenini ohambayo. Kodwa ake sibheke inkinga yokukhethwa kwezingubo zokugqoka izicathulo ngamehlo wengqondo kwengqondo yengane: iphutha elikhulu emfundweni yamawele yi-generalize yabo, ihlukanisa umuda phakathi kobuntu ababili obuhlukene. Lokhu kuvimbela abantwana ukuthi bangazizwa bodwa: ngamunye wabo uqala ukuzibona ngokuthi "thina", kodwa hhayi ngokuthi "Mina". Futhi iqiniso liwukuthi kaningi kangakanani esizwa kumama wamawele amagama afana nalokhu: "abafana bayagula", "amadodakazi ami awavumeli umama alale." Nakuba eqinisweni, ingane eyodwa kuphela ingagula, ingenangqondo noma igula isigamu. Futhi izingubo ezifanayo ziphinde zigcizelele "ukubambisana" kwezingane.
Ngenhlanhla, imakethe yanamuhla yezingubo zezingane ihluke kakhulu, futhi ungakhetha ngokuhlangene, kodwa izinto ezihlukene.