Mayelana nokuthi kungani abantu bezocansi, bengakhohlwa ukuqhubeka komusa, kubhaliwe okuningi. Kulawa, siyaziwa ngokuqinisekile ukuthi umgomo oyinhloko wobudlelwane obuseduze ukugcina impilo enhle engokomzimba nengokwengqondo. Kodwa, kubonakala sengathi, ukulala ocansini, sisesekhona-ngokuhlangenwe nakho - ukuhlangabezana nezifiso zabo zomphakathi. Kanjani? Yebo, ngezindlela ezahlukene. Konke kuxhomeke endleleni olala ngayo, yikuphi okuthandayo oyithandayo?
IZINDABA ZOMUNTU
Lokhu kungenxa yesizathu esithile kubhekwa njengesiqalo noma, okungenani, hhayi okwanele ngokwanele. Abaqondisi befilimu ezithandayo, noma ngabe yikuphi, abakuthandi ngokukhethekile. Abathandi be-Movie ngesizathu esithile bakhetha ukuzithanda ngethando ngezindlela eziyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu: bemi ngasemaphethelweni edwala elincane, behlezi emotweni egijimayo ngesivinini esikhulu noma embi kakhulu echibini (enye inketho ideskithophu). Kuyacaca ukuthi emva kokuqothulwa okunjalo ngokocansi, umbhangqwana oshadile kanye nobulili esimweni sendabuko "ubuso nobuso" kungase kubonakale sengathi bubuhlungu futhi ubuhle bube bubi. Kodwa-ke, yiyo kanye le ndlela evumela ukuba indoda nowesifazane baqaphele imizwelo yomunye nomunye: ngokuboniswa kwamehlo, ubuso obusweni, kwenza uthando lube lukhuni futhi lube nesimo senhliziyo. Lokhu, eqinisweni, kungukuthi abantu nabasondelene babeseduze. Njengoba okuhlangenwe nakho kokugcina okungokomqondo okungokomqondo akusizi ngalutho, into esemqoka ukudala inzalo.
Uma ukhetha lokhu ukuhlelwa kwendabuko kwabanye - umbhangqwana wakho uthathwa njengokuthi uzinzile futhi uhambelana. Njengomthetho, isikhathi sobudlova nothando olubudlova sasivele selusemva, futhi ukufisa kwe-Afrika kwathathelwa esikhundleni sokuzethemba, ukwethula nokufudumala. Ngokuvamile, izimfanelo zabalingani bomuntu siqu zihambisana ngokuphumelelayo. Izimo zokuphikisana ngokuvamile zixazululwa ngokuthula, ngosizo lokungqubuzana okunengqondo. Umholi emndenini uyindoda. Njengoba unamandla futhi unolwazi oluningi, uyayinakekela umngane wokuphila. Ezocansini, udlala indima ehola phambili, ngoba, "ngaphansi kocindezelayo", lo mlingani usuke enqatshelwe ithuba lokusiza indoda nganoma yisiphi isenzo. Kuwesifazane ojwayele ukunakekelwa nokunakekelwa, lesi sikhundla sisho uphawu lokuphepha, ukuhlanganiswa okuphelele nomuntu othandekayo.
UMUNTU KOMUNTU AKUBA UKUBONA
Kodwa-ke, uma ufuna i-pose echazwe ngenhla, ungathola enye incazelo, isibonelo, ngezinye izikhathi ibizwa ngokuthi "i-pose yamafazi abanzi." Nakuba eqinisweni, ukuqina komzimba akufanele kubekwe icala. Ukuqhosha - yebo, ukunganakwa - yebo, kanye nomqondo wokuhlukanisa ngisho nokudelela kancane umuntu olala naye. Ukucacisa lesi sikhundla kulokhu kuwukufa okulula: "Uyangishaya kanjani!"
Ngokwesimo, owesifazane ubonakala ehileleke ocansini, kodwa, eqinisweni, ugcwalisa umsebenzi wakhe kuphela, lapho ethola isikhundla esikahle kunazo zonke, okuvumela ukuthi ungaqhubeki imizamo yakho engokomzimba nangokomzwelo ngeze. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, imicabango yabantu besifazane emcimbini osondelene kakhulu ingabanjwa yilokho okushiwo yilokhu: kusuka ekugcokeni emaceleni ukudweba amapulani ngosuku olulandelayo.
Amadoda futhi avame ukusebenzisa leli phuzu ukuze afinyelele imigomo ayinalo uhlobo lwezocansi. Lesi sikhundla semithwalo sivumela abameleli besonto eliqinile ukuba banelise izifiso zabo, ngoba, ngaphezulu, indoda igxila kumlingani (kuzo zonke izinzwa zezwi). Lokhu kubangele ukukhumbuza kaningi abantu abanezimiso zokucindezela - ukungcola, ukuhlukanisa, ukuzethemba. Abangalokothi baphuthelwe ithuba "lokuchoboza ngaphansi kwabo" noma ubani, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umlingani ibhizinisi, umncintiswano noma owesifazane othandekayo.
TOP WOMAN
Kuncike ebuhlotsheni beqiniso phakathi kwabathandi, lesi sikhundla, njengasekuqaleni, singabonwa kusuka emazingeni ahlukene. Uma phakathi kwabalingani - iseluleko nothando, cishe, indima ebaluleke kakhulu yowesifazane. Futhi akudingekile neze ukuthi uhlobo lweNkrasov owesifazane olwa nokulwa, futhi uyisidumbu futhi uhlose. Abalingani abancane nje bafinyelele lelozinga lobuhlobo, uma ukwethembelana nokufudumala komunye nomunye kuthatha izinhloso zokuncintisana "obani."
Ukuba sesimweni esiphezulu, owesifazane unethuba lokwenza lokho akufunayo, nendlela afunayo. Umlingani (uma, eqinisweni, ulungile ngokuzihlonipha), lokhu ukuziphatha kwabathandekayo, akukho lutho kodwa injabulo, ngeke kukhululeke.
Into ehle kakhulu yukuthi i-pose ye "umgibeli" ivame ukumane ithandwa ngabesifazane abaxhomeke ngokugcwele (ngokuziphatha nangokwezimali) kubalingani babo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi okungenani bazizwe bephakeme, bebaphakeme kunomcindezeli wabo. Isimo sezocansi senza nje ukukhohlisa okufisayo.
INKOSI YASEHUSBAND
Uma uvame ukulala ocansini kule ndawo - inyunyana yakho inemibala yokuzizwa ngokomzwelo nokuthembeka komzwelo. Kusukela ohlangothini lomfazi, lesi sikhundla somzimba sisho ukuthi, "Ngiyethemba ngokuphelele." Njengomthetho, abalingani abakhetha lo msebenzi balingana nobuhlobo babo. Ngisho noma imibono yabo ingavumelani ngezindlela ezithile, bahlale behlonipha imibono yomunye nomunye, njalo bathola izixazululo ezamukelekayo. Ekubuseni obuseduze kwabantu abanjalo azikho izinqatshelwe. Bathanda ukuzama, kepha bahlale bezwela ngocansi "ukwazi" okujabulisa bonke bobabili.
Kodwa ngokuqondile ngenxa yalokho okushiwo, lesi sikhundla singabonisa hhayi nje ukusondelana okukhulu, kodwa futhi nesilinganiso esiphakeme sokuhlazeka! Isibonelo, uthandwa ngabantu abadlwengula, amadoda ahlukumezayo afuna ukuhlupha umlingani wakhe, amenze abe nomuzwa wokuthi uyinceku ebuthakathaka eguqa phambi komnikazi.
ISIHLOKO ESIFUNDWAYO
Naphezu kokuqala, le ndlela ayivame ukusetshenziselwa abalingani abavamile - ngaphandle kokuthi lokhu kuyisikhathi esiyinkimbinkimbi ye "imenyu" yobulili evamile. Futhi hhayi ngenxa yokuthi kunzima kakhulu ukwenza: zama ukugcina umlingani wakho ngesisindo, futhi ngisho nokuzama ukuthola injabulo ngesikhathi esifanayo! Ukufeza inkohliso enjalo indoda kumele ibe nenani elilinganayo lamandla omzimba.
Futhi nokho lokhu kufakazela ukukhathazeka, ukuzumayo, ukusheshisa kanye ... nokunye ukukhanya kobuhlobo. Ukuba nobulili kungaba khona noma kuphi - kunoma iyiphi ikhoneni elingasese, elikuthole ukukhanya kothando. Uhlobo lokudla okusheshayo okusheshayo, okungadingi amalungiselelo amade.
Uma ukhetha ukulala ngokobulili, ukuthanda kwakho kungenzeka ukuthi kube esiteji sokuqala sokuthuthukiswa, lapho amandla amakhulu okushayela ubudlelwane ethandekayo. "Ukuma" ngokusondelana ikakhulukazi njengabantu abangenangqondo, abazethemba, abajwayele konke (kulokhu - umlingani) ukugcina ezandleni zabo. Leli lungiselelo libavumela ukuba baqiniseke ngamandla abo, ubukhulu namandla amakhulu phezu kwalesi simo.
Kodwa-ke, abesifazane, lokhu kuthungatha kungabangela esinye isizathu, futhi kude kakhulu nokuhlangenwe nakho kobulili. Ngempela, ukukhuluma ngokukhululekile, abantu abanenhlanhla abakwazi ukuthola i-orgasm endaweni enhle kangaka, akutholakali abaningi. Kodwa akukubi yini ukuzwa sengathi unesibindi, inhle futhi ingenasisindo (naphezu kwamakhilogrekhi ambalwa) Thumbelina ezandleni zomdlali weqhawe!
Ungakwazi ukuvula ngokungapheli "i-" eerotic, uthola kuzo izimo ezincane ezingalindelekile zemizwa, izifiso nemizwa. Ungakwazi ukuhlaziya isikhathi eside ukuthi uhlanganyele kanjani ocansi, ukuthi yini okukhethayo nokuthi yini ongathanda ukuyisebenzisa esikhathini esizayo. Njengama-hieroglyphs angavamile, ahlale egcwele incazelo efihliwe. Lezi zimpawu eziyingqayizivele yilulimi lomzimba wethu, lapho uthando nokuthandwa kuboniswa khona. Into esemqoka ukuthi abantu abaseduze baqondana futhi bakhulume ulimi olufanayo. Khona-ke kuyoba nokudumazeka okuncane okubabayo, amathemba angagcwaliseki. Futhi inkulumo evamile ethi "ukulala ocansini" izolahlekelwa ukuxhumana kwayo okungalungile futhi ibe yinto evumelana ngayo injabulo nokuthanda ngokuvumelana.