Kuyini uMarilyn Monroe Syndrome

Ngokuqinisekile, akekho ozophika ukuthi ngisho nobuhle, abantu abakuzungezile abaphuphayo, okungenani ngezikhathi ezithile bemi phambi kwesibuko futhi bahlambalaza ngenxa yokugxuma ngesikhathi sokuphuma kwesikhala. Isizathu sesimo sengqondo esidabukisayo singase sibe isithende esiphundukile esikhwameni sakho ozithandayo, i-PMS, ukukhwabanisa nosuku lwakho oluthandayo, izinsuku ezibucayi noma okungahambi kahle, ukungabi khona kwabo (ukwesaba ukukhulelwa okungafunwa), umsebenzi wokuphumula, owenziwe yi-boss, ifoni ephukile, i-tequila excess, ibha. Kodwa kwenzeka ukuthi ukunganeliseki okuncane naye kukhula kube yinkinga yangempela yengqondo futhi le disorder ibizwa ngokuthi "Marilyn Monroe Syndrome."

Kungani futhi unobani uMarilyn Monroe Syndrome

• Ingabe unamathele ebuhlotsheni obude nomuntu owenza izinzwa zakho, okwenza ungajabuli?
• Ingabe uphuka ngokushada, wenza konke okudingekayo kuwo, futhi ummeleli ofanelekayo wamadoda akaveli?
• Wake wazizwa ukuthi kubo bonke abantu ohlala njalo ukhetha izidakamizwa, ezingenakufinyeleleka, abathandi bokugxila izandla zakho, ukubandisa ngokwemvelo, ukungathembeki, ukunganaki, ukuhlambalaza isithunzi sakho, okungenakutholakala? Ngesikhathi esifanayo, awuboni amadoda afanelekayo futhi avamile, ngoba angathinti inhliziyo yakho.
• Wake wake wazibamba ucabanga ukuthi uma amathuba egijima ezandleni zakho, unomuzwa wokungalapheki, futhi uqala ukudlula, udlulisele wena wedwa?
• Ingabe uhlukumeza ukudla kanye / noma utshwala?
• Uzibukela wena esibukweni ngenyanyelo nangokwesaba, nakuba abanye bathi ukhangayo?

Uma iningi lemibuzo oyiphendule ngokuqinisekisile, cishe cishe une "Marilyn Monroe Syndrome" - isifo sengqondo. Leli gama laphakanyiswa ngabacwaningi bokuqala bale nkinga ngu-Elizabeth McCavoy wezengqondo nomlobi uSusan Izraelson, owaba ngabalobi bencwadi efanayo. Izizathu zokuthi kungani abalobi bale ncwadi banikeza lesi sifo igama le-actress odumile, amanga ezintweni eziphawulekayo empilweni yakhe.

UMarilyn Monroe uphumelele, enhle futhi enhle. Kodwa ebheka isibuko, wayehlala ebona umsizi omubi owayengakufanelanga injabulo. Mayelana noMarilyn, cishe wonke amadoda ayephupha, kodwa watholakala kulabo bantu ubuhlobo babo obuseduze nobuhlobo bakhe naye.

Izimpande zalokhu kuziphatha zilula kusukela ebuntwaneni. Njengoba iningi labesifazane abahlukunyezwa yi-syndrome livela emindenini engasebenzi, imishado engasebenzi, lapho abazali bengabaniki izingane uthando olungenasisekelo, abazange banelise izidingo zomzwelo ezinganeni zabo. Ngakho-ke, owesifazane ongenamhlanje ongenakuqiniseka, efuna uthando - kuyintombazana encane engayitholanga kubazali bothando. Ngakho-ke, ngaso sonke isikhathi uzothola umlingani ongamkhumbuza ubaba okhulile ngokomzwelo noma umama olahliwe, ngakho-ke, uzama ukuthola uthando lwabo. Uzozama kaningi ukuze azibonakalise yena kanye nezwe lonke ukuthi "ulungile", ukuthi "yilokho ongayithanda." Lapho eseyingane, engenalo uthando, ukufudumala nothando, onasama uyobe ekhuthele kakhulu, ehaha futhi ethandekayo, enelisekile, noma kunjalo, isidingo sakhe semizwa eshiwo ngenhla. Ikakhulukazi izobonisa abantu abakudinga, njengoba kubonakala kuye.

Indlela yokukhipha isifo

Kukhona imiyalo engu-10 ezosiza ekuphulukeleni uMarilyn Monroe Syndrome. Abesifazane abanikeza isimo esifanayo egameni, bakholelwa ukuthi i-syndrome kaMarilyn Monroe iphathwa. Abacwaningi bakholelwa ukuthi ukubuyisela ngokugcwele lo wesifazane kumele kuhambisane nemithetho enjalo:

• Owesifazane kufanele azithande ngokuthanda okungenamthetho.
• Ukuyitholela kufanele ibe yindaba yonke impilo.
• Owesifazane kufanele azihloniphe yena.
• Yonke ukunakekelwa ukuqondisa kuwe kuphela.
• Kholelwa kuwe ngaphandle kwehla lokungabaza.
• Qaphela umzimba wakho futhi uyithande.
• Wonke amandla abo okunikeza ukuvuselela ingqondo yabo, umphefumulo nomzimba.
• Jabulela impilo yakho.
• Vula imibono emisha, ikakhulukazi leyo engashintsha izimpilo.
• Zethembise ukuthi ngokuqinisekile uyowina uMarilyn Monroe Syndrome.