Owesifazane akayena ocansini obuthakathaka
Ngakho-ke emphakathini wethu ukuthi isici sobulili sihlukaniswe sibe namandla futhi sibuthakathaka. Lesi sici sisekelwe ngokujulile ezingqondweni zethu ukuthi noma yikuphi ukuphambene nokuziphatha okujwayelekile "kubonakala kungenangqondo. Kodwa ingabe kukhona i-charter okufanele siphile kuyo? Kungani injabulo yethu kufanele ixhomeke kulokho abanye abantu, abangafani neze kithi, bacabange ukuthi kulungile.
Owesifazane wekhulu lama-21 ngumdali okhululwa. Akadingi ukuhawukela noma ukwehlisa. I-Onasama ingabanika izingqinamba kunoma yimuphi umuntu. Wonke amantombazane afuna ukuba mahhala futhi azimele, ngesikhathi esifanayo abakhala ukuthi amadoda "langempela" afile. Yebo, izikhathi zamaHussars sezidlulile, kepha namuhla umuntu angathola futhi "umuntu" wakhe. Ake sibhekane nakho, asibona abesifazana besifazane. Emibutshweni yethu ayikwazi ukuhambelana nayo yonke insizwa, futhi empeleni kuzo kithi futhi kukhona imibuzo.
Indoda kufanele ibe nenduku! O, ngithethelele ngenxa yezinhlamba, kodwa indoda kufanele ibe nesigqoko kuphela. Futhi konke okunye - kungabonakali okungafani kakhulu. Ufuna indoda yakho ibe mnene futhi ilalele, ukuthi kufanele ikunikeze sonke isikhathi sayo kuwe futhi "ihambele" kubangani. Kodwa yiyiphi yalezi zimfanelo ezibonakalayo, okuthiwa, induku? Akunabantu abalungile. Sonke - isethi sezinzuzo nokuqeda, udinga ukubekezela i-skotory.
Namuhla, bambalwa abantu abazibheka njengababuthakathaka futhi bengenakuzivikela, ngakho kungani abesifazane kufanele babhekwe njengabantu? Njengoba ngibheka "... futhi ihhashi elimisiwe lizoyeka, futhi indlu yokushisa izokwenzeka ..." lo mfana kufanele aqonde ukuthi ngaphambi kwakhe uyinkosikazi encane futhi engengozini? Abesifazane banesizathu - abanjalo basenza. Amanga, amanga, amanga! Abazali bethu benza lokhu kithi (futhi babonga ngenxa yalokhu), babelungiselela impilo yabantu abadala, basinika imithwalo yolwazi namakhono asisiza ukuba siphile kuleli zwe. Basifundise ukuba baphikelele futhi banamandla, ukuthembela kulobu philo kuphela. Ngakho-ke lokhu kusengumbuzo omkhulu, obani ubulili obubuthakathaka lapha.
Wena - "u-strongman", mina - "obuthakathaka"
Yiqiniso, lokhu akuwona amandla angokomthetho. Owesifazane ongenangqondo futhi onamandla njalo ufuna ukuzithoba kumyeni wakhe. Kungenzeka ukuxoxa isikhathi eside ukuthi yisiphi isizathu: kungaba umlingisi ongenakubekezelelwa, noma ukwesaba ukunqotshwa kanye nomlingani oqinile ocindezelweyo. Okubalulekile ukuthi ukhetho lomqashi obuthakathaka ukuwina ingxenye yakhe yesibili kungalethela injabulo owesifazane.
Yebo, kuleso simo, kuzodingeka bashintshe izindawo: kuzoba ngumnikeli, futhi uzoba umgcini wendawo. Kodwa ubani othi lokhu kubi? Sibheka ngo-gigolo, okuyinto ephazamisa ngezindleko zamantombazane amahle, sikhuluma ngombhangqwana lapho owesifazane ehola khona ngaphezulu futhi uthatha isikhundla esiphakeme kunomuntu.
Khumbula isithombe seSoviet esithi "I-Office Romance." Nakhu isibonelo esihle kakhulu sokuthi ubudlelwane phakathi kowesifazane webhizinisi nesisebenzi esiphezulu esijwayelekile singabonakala kanjani. Futhi lokhu akukona kuphela kuma-movie.
Owesifazane oye wazuza okuningi empilweni ufuna ikhaya lakhe lilinde umuntu ozomthanda, ahloniphe futhi ahloniphe. Futhi kaningi le ndima ibhekwa kangcono ngumuntu othobekile-onomoya omnene futhi omuhle "ophakathi nendawo", hhayi umlingo ohlukumezayo noma owenza ibhizinisi eliphumelelayo. Lezi zinsuku zokugcina, ezithandwayo, zikhetha abesifazane, abaphikisana nokuziphendulela kwakhe, kepha ungamangala ngempela lo wesifazane-i-vamp.
Happy Together
Ngikholelwa, indoda eseduze nomfazi oqinile nayo inenkinga enkulu. Noma ngabe yini ongayisho, imvelo ithatha inkambo yayo, futhi ukuqaphela ukuthi umuntu udinga ukuba ngumuntu obhekene nabangane, omakhelwane nezihlobo akumniki ukuthula. Kodwa kumuntu onjalo, umbono womfazi wakhe uyigugu kakhulu. Ungumqondo wokuphila, yidwala lakhe, ngemuva kwakhe lapho ekhululekile futhi ezolile. Akudingeki ukuthi athathe umthwalo wokwenza izinqumo ezijulile, ngoba igama lokugcina lihlale lowesifazane.
Kuthiwani ngomfazi? Kuye, konke kuyacaca kakhulu. Ngenxa yobuhle bakhe, usevele enza izinqumo ezibalulekile, imiyalo nemithetho. Awunasithakazelo ekuphileni, futhi mhlawumbe kanye kuphela. Kodwa angakwazi ukuhlala encike kule ndaba kumuntu wakhe. Futhi bangaki kithi abangaziqhayisa ngalokhu?
Ukuletha umugqa
Akunakutsho ukuthi kunabesifazane abaningi abangakwazi ukuma eduze komuntu (akukho icala ukuya ocansini oluqinile). Vumela laba besifazane bembalwa kakhulu, kodwa bafana futhi banelungelo lokujabula. Uma benelisekile ngokuphila okunjalo, uma bengakhululekile eduze ne "nedomuzhchinami" yabo, khona-ke singaba nomona kuphela. Futhi akukho lutho lokukhuphuka ebuhlotsheni babo neseluleko "ukulahla", "ufanelwe ngaphezulu", "uzothola ube ngcono". Mhlawumbe uyinto engcono kakhulu ekuphileni kwakhe. Injabulo kubo!