Izifundo zokuqeqesha ekhaya

Uma sithandana, samukela into yemizwa yethu njengoba kunjalo. Bese uvula amehlo kancane kancane ubone izinto ezahlukene. Omunye uthaka ekhaleni ngesikhathi sokudla, othile usakaza amasokisi akhe nxazonke zendlu, othile uhlale ephuzile, futhi omunye uthatha indawo yokugezela amahora amathathu nsuku zonke. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, le mikhuba iqala ukuthukuthela, sizama ukulwa nabo, sibeka ama-ultimatums, sisongela, sicele, kodwa ngeze.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, sekuyisikhathi eside abantu befunda ukufundisa ngisho nezilwane eziyimpumputhe ngezindlela ezahlukene. Futhi uma inja yomakhelwane ingakwazi ukuletha amasobhothi futhi inike i-paw, awukwazi yini ngempela ukufundisa ngokunemba nokugcina isikhathi komyeni wakho?
Into eyinhloko ukuthola ulwazi lwabaqeqeshi.


Amadoda nezimbongolo.
Amadoda avame ukufaniswa nezilwane ezincane, sifaka ukufaniswa okunye. Izimbongolo, njengamadoda, zivame ukuphumula ngokweqile, zinenkani, zingenasiphelo. Uma unomuntu wesilisa odlala ukudlala okunjalo, khona-ke izingxabano ezinengqondo ezibalulekile, izicelo nezizathu ezizwakalayo kuzo ngeke zisebenze.
Yini okufanele ngiyenze? Kulula! Yehla ezingeni layo, bheka umhlaba ngamehlo akhe futhi okuningi kuzocaca.
Amadoda adlala amakhadi, chess, imidlalo yekhompyutha kanye nebhola. Sebenzisa lobu buthakathaka ukuze kuzuze. Konke okudingayo ukumbamba ngomdlalo. Hlela umncintiswano, ubeke isifiso sakhe sokuba ngowokuqala futhi lapho umdlandla uthatha ngokuphelele, umise umdlalo, ethi uzoqhubeka kuphela ngemuva kokuthi esheshe izitsha, uya nawe esitolo, kunina, noma uzobe eshayela i-nail odongeni. Le ndlela izosebenza ngaphandle kokuhluleka uma nje ugcina izithembiso zakho, futhi ungakhohlwa ukukukhuthaza.

Amadoda nezindlovu.
Okukhulu, okuzolile, okwenziwe nge-phlegmatic futhi okwahlukana. Uyabona yini indoda yakho kulokhu? Futhi umuntu onjalo uyakwazi ukufunda ikhono oyidingayo. Isimo kuphela: asikwazi ukugijimela. Ungathembeli ekuzimele kwakhe. Ukuze ufundise lo mlingani noma isoka ukuthi angasatshalazi izinto, kuzodingeka asebenzise isikhathi esiningi, kodwa akanayo ithemba.
Uma ufuna ukuthi akusize ngokuhlanza jikelele, qala kuqala. Susa amakhethini, thola izinto eziphuma emakhwameni, ufumene izindlela zokugeza konke esitsheni emigodini. Ukubona lokhu, lo muntu uzoba lula ukuqonda futhi uvumelane nalokho okufunayo kuye. Bese unikeza imisebenzi elula, isibonelo, thola okuthile kusuka ku-mezzanine noma uhambise iKhabhinethi enzima. Kamuva, lapho uthola nje umshanelo, uzofunda ukunikeza usizo. Ungadluli - awudingi indoda ukuqala ukulungisa kabusha ifenisha lapho ubona khona.

Amadoda nezinja.
Akuwona wonke umuntu ongafaniswa nalezi zilwane, ezihlakaniphile nezithembekile. Kodwa uma okwakho kunjalo-kujabulisa, njengokwesikhashana noma okuthembekile, njengoSt. Bernard, khona-ke uzoqonda zonke izintelezi zalokhu kufana.
Ukuze indoda yakho iphathe kahle, idinga ukunakekelwa kwakho, uthando lwakho nokubekezela.
Ngokuqinisekile, usuqaphele kakade - uma uqala ukuthukuthelisa indoda yakho, uhlala eyisithulu kuzo zonke izinkokhelo, ezimweni ezivelele kakhulu, uvele nje athande umsila futhi afihle emsebenzini, egaraji, nabangani. Zama ukunganaki ukuziphatha kwakhe okungalungile, ngoba ukungabi nampendulo kumuntu onjalo - kubi kakhulu kunoma yisiphi isijeziso. Ukuze umkhuthaze uvele edingekile, ngaphandle kwalokho umuntu ngeke abone umehluko phakathi kokubi nokuhle.

Amadoda namabhubesi.
Uyabona yini ngemikhuba yendoda yakho into efana nemikhuba yenkosi yezilo? Mhlawumbe unamathele embonweni wokuthi indoda kufanele ikwazi ukuziqhenya ukuze uzizwe ugcwele futhi ujabule. Akulula ukumnciphisa isifiso sokuba ne-harem, kodwa kungenzeka.
Kufanele uhlakaniphe futhi ungenzi sengathi ungumholi, kodwa ungabonakali ubuthakathaka bakho kuye ukuze ungabi yisisulu. Zama ukulingana nomuntu - ingonyama, khona-ke uzokuthatha ngokungathí sina.
Uma umcela okuthile, khuluma ngakho ngokusobala, ngesibindi, ungabuzi, ungabuzi, kodwa ngitshele ukuthi isicelo sakho noma isifiso sakho kufanele sigcwaliseke. Ngokushesha nje lapho uphakamisa izwi lakho noma uqale ukumbumbulula ngeso lengqondo - uzolahlekelwa.

Amadoda namahhashi.
Amahhashi abonakala njengezilwane ezinhle kakhulu, ezinomusa, eziqhenyayo neziqinile. Bathanda inkululeko, kodwa bayakwazisa isimo sengqondo esihle. Amadoda alolu cwaningo abona kuphela labo besifazane abahluleka ukuwacela okuthile ngezwi eliphezulu.
Ukuze ufunde umuntu ovela emihlanganweni yamuva, ukuhlangana ngokungazelelwe nabangani, ukusebenzisa amathinta, ithoni ethandekayo nazo zonke izimfanelo zakhe ezinhle kunazo zonke. Indoda enjalo iyoyiqonda ngempela ikhono lakho lokuthandana nokuzwela ngisho nangesikhathi sokucasuka okukhulu. Ngikholelwa, angeke abe nesifiso sokuhamba ngesigwebo esifanayo, ngoba uzoyesaba ukulahlekelwa nguwe.

Kuvela ukuthi phakathi kwethu nezilwane kukhona okunye okuningi okufanayo kunalokho esikucabangayo. I-Analogies ingabamba isethi esingapheliyo. Ngakho-ke, kungenzeka futhi kuyadingeka ukusebenzisa isipiliyoni namakhono abaqeqeshi abaqeqeshiwe, okubaluleke kakhulu, ungadluli induku futhi ukhumbule ukuthi abantu bahluke nezilwane.