Kungani ibhere liphupha ngentombazane?
Amaphupho anjalo avame ukuhunyushwa, acabangela ubulili bephupho. Intombazane ephupha yalesi silwane, ingaqiniseka ukuthi esikhathini esizayo esiseduze siyoshada. Ngaphezu kwalokho, okhethiwe wakhe uzophendula yonke imibono yalomuntu omusha mayelana nomlingani ofanelekayo.
Indoda ebona ibhere ephusheni kumele inqume ukuthi iyini indlela yokuziphatha. Eqinisweni, kuzodingeka akhethe ukuthi yiziphi izenzo azenzayo: okuhle noma okubi.
Owesifazane oshadile akahlezi kahle iphupho elinjalo. Izincazelo eziningi zephupho ziphatha ibhere ephusheni, njengokubonakala komlingani, okwakungathi umlingani angase azame ukudikibala. Ngakho-ke, kungcono ukuhlale uphawula futhi ube mnene futhi unakekele umlingani womphefumulo wakho, ukuze umyeni wakho angacabangi nokuhlubuka.
Ngokusho kwencwadi yephupho likaMiller, indoda eyabona lesi silwane sasendle ephusheni ingenza kalula noma yikuphi ukwenza, ngoba izimfanelo zakhe zokuhola nokuzinikela kuyosiza ekufezeni lokho okufunayo. Kodwa encwadini yephupho likaWang iphupho elibi elifanekisela intukuthelo, ukukhohlisa nokubhujiswa. Umphuphi kufanele agweme imibuthano emikhulu yabantu nemisebenzi enomsindo.
Ukubalekela kubhere
Ukuze uhumushe kahle iphupho lakho, kufanele futhi ucabangele izenzo ezenziwe kuwo.
- Ukubalekela isilwane kuyisimangaliso, ukuthi izitha ze-dreamwirl zihlela ngobuqili ukumelana naye, ngakho-ke ungahlali emisebenzini ehlukahlukene engabaza noma iziphakamiso.
- Kubantu abangakatholi umlingani, iphupho elinjalo lithembisa umshado wokuqala. Futhi, umsizi ohlala njalo esaba impilo yomndeni, uzothola okukhethiweyo okhethiwe futhi uzoyeka ukwesaba umshado.
- Insizwa encane egijima futhi ifihla ibhere elihlasela, empeleni ayikwazi ukufihla kumuntu othanda ukucasula. Kubalulekile ukuzama ukubheka isoka elinesihluku nesingahambi kahle, ngaphandle kokubandakanyeka empini.
Uthini ibhere elimnyama eliphuphayo?
Abahumushi bamaphupho bavame ukuhlola ubulili kanye nenhloso yombono, kodwa nokubukeka kwesilwane esibonisiwe.
Ibhere elihle likhuluma ngobuzenzisi ngabangane noma ojwayelene naye oye waba namahloni futhi angaletha inkathazo.
Ibhere elimnyama liwuphawu lokugula okubi kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, kungcono ukuthatha izinyathelo kusengaphambili: ukuvakashela udokotela, ukuqapha impilo yakho nokuhola impilo enempilo.
Isidakamizwa esibomvu, esabona owesifazane ongashadile, wathi udumele ngothando, mhlawumbe ngenxa yomphikisi ophumelelayo. Kubamemezeli bobulili obunamandla, iphupho elinjalo lithembisa izithiyo ezincane endleleni eya emgomweni oyifunayo.
Ibhere elimhlophe liwuphawu oluhle kakhulu. Umphuphi uzojabula hhayi empilweni yakhe siqu, kodwa nakwezinye izici. Ngokuvamile, ibhendi langempela lenhlanhla liza ngomuntu.
Njengoba ukuhumusha kuhluke kakhulu futhi kuncike emininingwaneni eminingi, zama ngokushesha ngemuva kokubuka iphupho encwadini yephupho, kuyilapho izinkumbulo ezintsha zalokho abakubonile. Uma lokhu kungenakwenzeka, bhala phansi imininingwane yokulala eshadini, bese nje ubheka ukuhumusha okufanele.