Nakuba ngokwami ngingabaza ukuthi kukhona okunjalo. Ngezinye izikhathi ukuhlukahluka "kuthola" ngokobulili - ukwahlulela ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo. U-MCH wami wangitshela ngokuqondile lokhu okulandelayo: "Masixabane nanamuhla kumanini." Ekuqaleni angizange ngikuqonde lokho ayekushayela khona, wacabanga isikhathi eside, wabe esebuza ukuthi kuyadingeka yini kithi. Kuvela ukuthi uthanda ngempela ukubekezelela nami. Ngoba sinezikhathi ezimbalwa ngakho kwaba njalo futhi kuvame ukuphela ngesiphepho sobudlelwane obuseduze nokubuyisana kwamaqembu.
Cha, angiphakamise ukuthi wonke umuntu abuyele ekhaya kusihlwa ngemuva kosuku olwenziwe emisebenzini, futhi enze iphutha lomngane wabo wokuphila. Kunoma yikuphi, lokho akudingeki kakhulu. Kodwa uma ucabanga ngalokhu okuningi, ungenza kancane, nje ingxenye encane yohlu olusha kunoma yimuphi ubuhlobo obusungulwe futhi obuqinisiwe - futhi lokhu kuzokuletha izabelo eziningi. O, mhlawumbe, ngeze ngiletha leli gama embonini yezezimali. Ngandlela-thile ngandlela-thile kuhlangene nesihloko sokungabi nesikhathi esiseduze. Nakuba kubonisa ngokucacile ukuthi yini oyitshalayo, uzoyithola. Uma uthanda yonke into wena, futhi indoda yakho iyajabula, futhi kusukela emlilweni wesithando sakho akukho lutho oluthola umlilo endlini (nakuba kubonakala sengathi uqala ukubhema), futhi akudingeki ubize ucingo oluphuthumayo, ngakho wacabanga ngakho.
Ngihlangana nomuntu wami iminyaka eminingana. Kungase kumangele ukuthi umuntu afunde, kodwa njalo lapho ebuya ekhaya, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi isikhathi eside noma izinsuku eziningana, sihlangana ngokufudumele kangangokuthi omakhelwane "baphonswe." Kubonakala sengathi ngishaye! Yebo, ngokuqinisekile!
Izikhathi eziningana kwakufana nalokhu: uyangibiza, ngisemsebenzini. Uthi konke, ngikulindele, ngikulungiselele konke, woza. Yiqiniso, kwakudingeka ngicele umphathi wekhanda, ngiyabonga uNkulunkulu, yena ukhona kithi ohlakaniphile. Ngiyeke ngihambe .. Madoda, ngigijima, uma ungakholelwa, sekushaywe kakade ngokulindeleke ukuthi kwenzekani. Ngangena, futhi uShurik futhi sengivele ngibeke itafula, futhi ngibeke iwayini esiqandisini, futhi wayesekulungele. Kwakuyi-SO ...! Nakuba engazange asungule iskripthi sobusuku obuseduze, akazange alethe noma yini entsha ezindleleni zokukhohlisa zakudala. Ngifaka umphefumulo wami kuwo. Le nkulumo iphindwa izikhathi eziningi, kodwa angikwazi ukukhetha amagama kangcono.
Ngakhele izimo ezithile ezingavamile ngesihloko esithi "ubambe ubusuku obuseduze nabathandekayo bakho." Futhi noma yini phakathi kwethu, manje sikhumbula njalo lezi zikhathi zenjabulo. Eqinisweni kuyadingeka ukuthi uthande abangane, ukubanika imibono futhi ukwazi ukuthokozisa isenzo ngasinye esihlangene kuhlanganisa ndawonye.
Masibe, isibonelo, kusihlwa ngesitayela saseJapane (ngiphakamisa lesi sihloko, kusukela ngidlule "ku-cheers"). Lapha ungadlala ngeklamo yefulethi (zonke izinhlobo zezintambo "kulesi sihloko" ngokuqinisekile ungathola uma kungenjalo, khona-ke kumngani noma, ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu, esitolo), nangemenyu yokudla etafuleni (uma ungakwazi ukupheka izitsha zaseJapane, upheke noma uthenge noma yiziphi ezinye izitsha zaseMpumalanga.
Ngandlela-thile, zonke izinhlobo zezinongo ziyinto evuselelayo), futhi ungakhohlwa mayelana nokuzenzela (ungenza ngisho nokugcoba ubuso bakho njenge geisha yangempela, kodwa lokhu ngokwami kwakudingeka ngisebenzise usizo lomngane), futhi ingubo yokugqoka i-kimono, ngicabanga, amantombazane. Thola indawo ethize yenkulumo yaseJapane, ufunde imisho embalwa - lokhu kuzoba yinto yokugcina. Uma konke kucatshangwa futhi kwenziwa, ubusuku bakho obuseduze buzophela ngokuqondile. Ngakho, ngomsebenzi!