Bonke abesifazane bafuna ukuheha abantu, abaziwa ngokuthanda amehlo. Amahora amaningi, izinsuku, izinyanga zokuphila kwakhe, labesifazane badluliselwa ekupheleleni kokubukeka. Ngokuvamile lokhu akuwona nje umqondo wokuzijabulisa, kodwa futhi kuyasebenza - amadoda agcina isikhathi sabo sithandana ekuqaleni, okusho ukuthi angeke kube nesikhathi sokubonakaliswa kwempi yokushayisana ehlathini. Kodwa yikuphi okuhle okumele ulwele?
Namuhla, isiko elikhulu lishukumisa kakhulu ukuthandwa kwamadoda futhi lilolonga ukuthanda kwabo ngobuhle besifazane. Futhi kwenzeke ukuthi kusukela ezikrinini ze-TV, emakhasini omagazini abalukhuni kanye nokukhangisa kumelela, imfashini yomzimba wesifazane omncane ukhuthazwa. Ingabe abantu bayavuma ukuthi abesifazane abancanyana abancanyana bahle kakhulu kunamafutha? Ucabangani ngabesifazane abagcwele?
U-Andrey Tishchenko, oneminyaka engama-35 ubudala, izingubo zomklami
"Ngivame ukuba nama-castings ukuthola izindlela zokubonisa izingubo engizidalayo. I-Standard 90-60-90, ngiyabonga uNkulunkulu, into yesikhathi esedlule, futhi namuhla amafomu amahle ayenzeka ngempela. Kubalulekile kimi ukuthi amamodeli ami ayesifazana, amahle futhi ... amnandi. Yiqiniso, njengomklami, ngithanda amantombazane anesibalo se-hourglass, kodwa njengendoda, angiqapheli ukuthi owesifazane unesigqoko, uma amehlo akhe eqiniseka ngokuzethemba kokungapheli nokuphelela. Ladies abathandekayo abahle! Ungabi namahloni ngokungawa ngaphansi kwezinto okuthiwa "izindinganiso zobuhle". Abesifazane baseSlavic bebelokhu behlukaniswa ngezifomu zabo ezivelele. Ungazihlukumezi ngokudla okudambisayo. Namuhla kuba imfashini ukuba ibe mnandi futhi ujabule! "
U-Alexander Komarov, oneminyaka engu-40, isifo sokusebenza kwengqondo
"Angikhumbuli ukuthi ubani othi:" Abantu bazenza sengathi bathanda abesifazane abanobucayi, amawayini omile nokugembula. Eqinisweni, bathanda abesifazane abathandekayo, iwayini elimnandi nokuphila okuthula. " Ngibhalisela kuwo wonke amazwi. Nginesiqiniseko sokuthi amadoda, abesifazane abo abathinteka ngamathambo, bafuna ngasese abesifazane beqiniso baseRussia (ngomqondo omuhle wezwi) - abomvu futhi abashisayo, njengamaqebelengwane. Abafana! Ungakhathazeki! Yondla! Ngikutshela ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwami: abesifazane abakhulukazi bayakwazi ukuthanda. Zimvelo, zithobekile, zithandekayo futhi zihlale zinezinto zokudla. Bondle kahle futhi bajabule, ngakho - kuhle! "
U-Alexey Kudasov, oneminyaka engu-28 ubudala, umqambi
"Yebo, ayikho impikiswano mayelana nokuthanda izinto. Omunye uthanda i-skinny encane, kanti omunye unikeza "igazi ngobisi." Kodwa kukhona amantombazane amahle kakhulu, agcwele, kukhona "emzimbeni", futhi kukhona amafutha angenamahloni. Angifuni ukucasula noma ubani-mina ngokwami ngangisanda kunamafutha, ngakho-ke ngiyazi ukuthi isisindo esingaphezulu sithinta kanjani isimo somzimba nesimo somzwelo. Angifuni intombi yami, ephaketheni elinamandla ngokweqile, ukuhamba ngezinkinga, izinkinga zomzimba nezingokwengqondo. Ngidinga intombazane enempilo, esebenzayo engakwazi ukuthwala nokubeletha izingane ezinempilo enjalo. Ngikholelwa ukuthi owesifazane ongenakwazi (ukufunda "akafuni") alahle amakhilogremu angeziwe, evilaphayo futhi engakhathaleli impilo yakhe. "
UMakar Udovichenko, oneminyaka engu-52 ubudala, umkhulumeli wezemidlalo
"Nginesiqiniseko sokuthi noma iyiphi into enhle, uma kungowesifazane okholwayo ngobuqotho. Akulona iqiniso ukuthi amadoda agxilile kakhulu ngesikhumba kanye nangabesifazane abavuthayo. Kunoma yikuphi, akukho madoda anjalo phakathi kwabangane bami nabangane bami. Kodwa-ke, okunye okweqile - owesifazane ogwinya, ongenalutho - naye akafuni ukubona noma ubani eceleni kwakhe. Ukukhuluphala akugcini nje ukukhangisa, kodwa futhi kuyingozi empilweni. Izizathu zingase zihluke, kepha uma owesifazane ehlonipha yena nomyeni wakhe, kuzoletha kokubili kokudla kanye nokuphila. Lokhu kuyindaba ebaluleke kakhulu. Ngiyakholwa ukuthi ukwenza umzimba omkhulu uphelele futhi ube mnandi, ngenkathi ushiya ubuhle obukhazimulayo ezindaweni ezifanele, kuyatholakala kuwo wonke umuntu. Kuyoba nesifiso ... noma isikhuthazo ngesimo somuntu ongevila kakhulu ukuzigcina esesimweni sakhe. "
U-Ilya Karpov, oneminyaka engu-25 ubudala, osomabhizinisi
"Ukuthembeka, kunzima ukubona owesifazane ngemuva kwamafutha amaningi. Iyini into ejabulisayo yokuhlala nesithamela, esiziqalile ngokwanele? Uma engafuni ukusebenza kuye, ke kuphi isiqinisekiso sokuthi uzofuna ukusebenza emibuthweni? Indoda ibhekene nezimo ezikhululekile lapho umndeni wakhe uyohlala khona, futhi uma efeza imisebenzi yakhe, unelungelo lokubona owesifazane oseduze naye, ozojabula ngobuhle nokuzwana kwakhe. Ngami ngeke abe namahloni okubonisa abantu - ngiphile impilo enempilo futhi ngingenele ezemidlalo. Futhi mina naye? Owesifazane oqothileyo nendoda ehlakaniphile kubheka njengomlingani ongenangqondo futhi ongenangqondo. Siyabonga, musa! "
U-Oleg Kovalev, oneminyaka engu-46 ubudala, u-trucker
"Ngami, njengoba, ngicabanga, kubantu abaningi, ukuphelela kwesifazane akuvamile ukukhetha okukhethwa kukho. Okokuqala, ngiyakwazisa owesifazane ukuhlakanipha, ukuhlakanipha, ubufazi, ubuhle nokuzikhethela. Futhi ingabonakaliswa ngamafomu amahle, omlomo, lapho i-muzhik evamile ihamba khona. Futhi ubuhlungu besifazane abanjalo bunkulu. Banenhloso yokuphila enenkani enempilo, ngoba bavame ukulwa nemibono emphakathini bese befakazela ukuthi abesifazane abahle kakhulu bangaphansi kwezingubo ezimnandi. Ngingasho ukuthi, ngokuphambene nalokho. Ngezinye izikhathi uyamangalisa, njengoba zibizwa ngokuthi yizinkomba, ungakwazi ukuhlala ungowesifazane futhi unomusa, ukwakha umsebenzi futhi uphumelele ezindaweni eziphakemeyo, ngokungahambisani kalula nezindinganiso zanamuhla ezibukeka kahle ngokubukeka komfanekiso. Awu, yini engcono kakhulu kunomzimba omncane otholile, ocolile ozokufudumala emakhazeni futhi awufihle elangeni? Kuvele nje ukushada, kunjalo. Kodwa bbw wami othandekayo uzoqonda, ngoba nabo banomqondo omkhulu wokuhlekisa. "
Ukufingqa, kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuthi imibono yamadoda ayihambisani nenkulumo-ze yesimo samasiko. Ezimweni eziningi, ukugcwala kowesifazane akudingeki kubaluleke kakhulu kubantu. Bangakwazi ukuqaphela ukuthi baqonda ukuthi owesifazane uyindalo yemvelo, futhi ngamafomu akhe amahle kunendlela ethile. Kwanele ukufundisa amadoda nokubeka umbono wokuthi ubuhle besifazane kufanele bubuke kanjani, bukwazi ukuvusa kuzo izintandokazi zasendulo nothando. Kulokhu bona ngokwabo bayakuqonda ngokuphelele!