Wena, mhlawumbe, sekuyisikhathi eside ugcotshwe yizindlebe zabo bonke abangane bakho, onjengawe, onabantwana abancane - awukwazi ukuphuma noma yikuphi, bathi, kusukela kuloluhlelo lwekhaya, kusuka ku-diapers kanye ne-diapers, ngisho nasendlini odinga ukuhlanzeka njalo akufanele ukhohlwe ngomyeni wakho. Kulezo zikhathi ezincane lapho ekugcineni ingane ilele, uhlambalaza ukupheka okuthile, uphume kancane. Futhi ngokuvamile isikhathi sakhe asihlali.
Yiqiniso, kunzima kakhulu ngezingane ezincane - ngicabanga ukuthi wazi ngalokhu ekuqaleni futhi wazama nokuziphatha ngokuzilungisa kuzo zonke lezi zinkinga ezinzima. Izingane - zihlala zithokozile, kodwa kudingeka ufunde indlela yokuphatha kahle izinkinga ezihambisana nokuvela kwengane endlini. Udinga ukulungele ukuthi impilo yakho izohamba kancane kancane, iyobe iphazamise impilo yemvuthu, engakwazi ukwenza lutho ngokwayo.
Izimo emndenini zihlukile, ezinye zazo zenza ukuba umama akhululwe ingane kusukela okwesikhashana, kanti abanye abavumeli omama benkululeko enjalo. Njengoba usuqonda kakade, ngikhuluma ngawe ohlala nawe. Isibonelo, uma eyakho ingasebenzi noma isebenza ekhaya - ungakwazi kalula ukushintshela emahlombe akhe okungenani umsebenzi wesikole. Ngakho, ukhulula isikhathi esithile sakho. Ngemuva kwalokho, uma kufika isikhathi futhi ukwazi ukuphunyuka endaweni ethile nomyeni wakho noma izintombi zakho, kufanele ubheke ngendlela emangalisayo, ungathandi owesifazane okhulile ongekho izinwele nokwakheka, ngokubheka izigqoko ezipihlakeleyo ezinsikeni zakhe nangemivimbo emikhulu ngaphansi kwamehlo akhe.
Ngakho-ke, uma uhlala nogogo nomkhulu, khona-ke kuyoba lula kuwe mayelana nalokhu. Yiqiniso, ngenkathi ingane isencane kakhulu futhi uzobe unceliswa ngebele ngaphandle kokuziqhenya, ngeke ukwazi ukushiya ingane yakho isikhathi eside nogogo wakho. I-crumb esemncane, njengenoma yini enye, idinga ukufudumala komama nokunakekela. Ngakho-ke, ukubekezela okuncane - kuzofika isikhathi lapho, ukubeka i-malyavka ukulala ubusuku, ungagqoka kahle futhi uphume nabangani e-club noma nomyeni wakho ukuze ubusuku bothando phakathi kwesitolo sokudlela. Yebo, lapho, ngisho nje uhamba edolobheni lasebusuku phansi kwepeni nomuntu othanda uNkulunkulu - lena indlela enhle yokuchitha isikhathi! Kusengcono kunokungayi ndawo futhi kumuncu emabhodleleni asezintabeni namapulethi anezimbiza.
Uma umyeni wakho enza umsebenzi omuhle kakhulu wengane futhi ezimisele kakhulu ukuchitha isikhathi naye - khona-ke ungashiya umfowenu nomyeni wakho othandekayo, kungani kungenjalo, ikakhulu uma kumlethela injabulo enkulu? Ngokuvamile wonke umuntu uthi ukushiya abantwana kubayeni kuyingozi kakhulu - Angikholelwa kule mbono. Yiqiniso, kukhona amadoda angenandaba futhi ahlakazekile, kungcono ukuthi ungahlali nezingane ezincane, kodwa uma wazi ukuthi umyeni wakho ungumuntu onomthwalo wemfanelo ongeke awususe amehlo akhe kumntwana, kungani ungayisebenzisi? Bayeke amahora ambalwa bese uhamba nabangani bakho ku-cafe noma nje ukuthenga. Futhi iholide!
Ngesizathu esithile, wonke umuntu ukholelwa ukuthi ngokuzalwa komntwana, umama osemusha kufanele aphenduke i-robot yomfana, ongenasithakazelo kunoma yini enye ngaphandle kwe-diapers ne-raspashonok. Yiqiniso, uma sikhuluma ngokubaluleka kokuqala, khona-ke impilo kanye nenduduzo yengane kusukela manje kuyaqhubeka ibe yindawo yokuqala, kepha lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele ukhohlwe ngokuphelele. Ukukhathala kunendawo yokuqoqa bese uthululela abanye ngokucasuka. Okokuqala, umuntu oseduze nawe-okungukuthi, kumyeni wakho-ngokuvamile ufika kuwe. Futhi, njengoba uziqonda ngokwakho, lokhu akuqinisekisi umshado wakho okungenani. Ngakho-ke, udinga ukucinga izindlela zokuphumula futhi uphonsa ukufutheka ngaphakathi kwesifiso.
Uma unezintombi ezinezingane ezincane - ngokuvamile zihle kakhulu! Lapho izingane zikhula kancane, ungenza imihlangano emihle! Ngenkathi imvuthuluka izofunda ngokucophelela, wena, mummies, ungaxoxa kahle futhi uphumule! Kuzodingeka kuphela ukuqinisekisa ukuthi izingane azicasuli omunye nomunye, ngoba esemncane bengakacacisi ukuthi kufanele bahlanganyele kanjani, yimiphi imidlalo ehlangene abangayithola nayo.
Ngokuqinisekile edolobheni lakho kunezikhungo ezinhle zokuzijabulisa zezingane. Leli paki elincane lokuzijabulisa lezingane ezincane, lapho kukhona khona nabazali babo. Ngenkathi izingane zizogqoka ngentshiseko amabhola namathoyizi, ungaphuza ikhofi ngekhekhe, ujwayele amanye amama, zibonise, ekugcineni.
Yebo, uma isimo sezulu sinomoya oshisayo kakhulu, kungani ungahlezi umkhankaso ngenkampani yabanye omama abanezingane ezincane? Thatha amatende wezingane ezimbalwa, ukudla okuncane kubo kanye nezingane, amathoyizi. Ngokudingekile - ukhilimu omiyane ophuthumayo hhayi ukugijima ekhaya obomvu nokuvuvukala. Ungathatha ubaba wakho futhi ubheke inyama bese wenza i-shish-kebab enkulu!
Njengoba ungabona, kunezindlela eziningi zokuphumula nokuthola ulwandle olunemizwa emihle, ngisho noma unomntwana omncane. Ekuzalweni kwemvuthuluka, impilo ayiyona into engapheli - iqala nje, udinga nje ukuthola isikhathi namandla okuyihlukanisa. Ukuzilibazisa - yingxenye ebalulekile yokuphila kwethu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi izimo ziphila, kufanele nje uqonde ukuthi inhlangano yakhe kufanele iphathe nawe ngokwakho.
Ngakho-ke, azikho izimo lapho ingane ingakwazi ukuphunyuka noma kuphi (nakuba, mhlawumbe, uma ngabe wena noma umntwana ugula kakhulu futhi uboshwe ngokoqobo endlini - ke-ke, izinto ziyashintsha, kodwa lapha ungathola indlela yokuphuma, kufanele nje uthintane nodokotela ). Ngokuvamile sibhekana nobuvila nokuthi iqiniso lokuthi umama osemusha uzibeka eqondile - bathi, Nginomntwana omncane ekhaya, anginaso isikhathi sami, impilo ihamba ngaphansi komgwaqo, ukudlula kwentsha. Ukuphila kwethu, kanye nobusha bethu, kusezandleni zethu. Ngakho thatha futhi uyiphathe.