Abaningi bavame ukusola ngobugovu kuphela ngoba asilaleli ukuphathwa kwabo.
1. Ngokuvamile abazali bethu bafuna okungaphezu kwalokho esingakwenza. Baqhubeka besitshela ukuthi batshale izimali kakhulu kithi, futhi asikaze siqinise isifiso sabo. Ngokuvamile abazali bakholelwa ukuthi izingane kufanele zihlangabezane nezifiso zazo. Ngakho-ke, bayaqiniseka ukuthi bayazi kahle ukuthi yini ezosivumelanisa kahle nokuthi yini engekho. Ukuze sibonise abazali bethu ngokuzimela kwethu kubalulekile ukuba senze imizamo enkulu. Yenza izinqumo ezifanele futhi ube nesibopho sezenzo zabo.
2. Kunezinsuku lapho abangane bethu noma abajwayelene nabo beza ukuvakashela kunoma yisiphi isikhathi esikahle, bakholelwa ukuthi uyohlale ujabule ngokuvakashelwa. Abantu abanjalo abanesithakazelo kulokho okwenzayo manje, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi unamasu nokuthi uzosebenzisa kanjani isikhathi, iqiniso lokuxhumana nomuntu kubalulekile kubo. Zama ukungavumelani nabo, ngoba wena ngokwakho awukwazi ukubona ukuthi uzochitha kanjani isikhathi sakho kuzo. Kulungile futhi ubatshele ngokuqinile ukuthi kungcono ukuvumelanisa kusengaphambili ngomhlangano, njengoba ungaba matasa futhi unezinto ezidinga ukubhekana nazo.
3. Ngokuvamile insizwa yakho ikutshela ukuthi ayinandaba nawe. Futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo, uchitha sonke isikhathi sakho samahhala naye, funda naye eqenjini elilodwa noma usebenze naye endaweni eyodwa. Vele ukhulume naye ngakho. Thola ukuthi ukungaqapheli kuboniswa kanjani umbono wakhe.
4. Uma unquma ukuyeka, kufanele ulalele inkulumo ende mayelana nokukhanyela kwakho kubaphathi bakho nozakwabo. Ngokuvamile iziphathimandla zisebenzisa ukuxhaphaza ukuze uhlale eqenjini, ikakhulu uma usebenza kahle. Ngakho-ke, bavame ukusebenzisa le ndlela yokwenza ukuba uzizwe unecala futhi ungabaza ukufaneleka kwesinqumo. Kodwa akudingeki unikeze lo msebenzi impilo yakho yonke.
5. Abangani bakumemele ku-cinema noma kwenye indawo, kodwa awufuni ukuya noma yikuphi. Ungabatshela ukuthi awunayo imizwa enhle futhi uthanda ukuhlala ekhaya. Futhi ungaya endaweni ethile esikhathini esizayo. Uma ucabanga ukuthi bangakhubeka, ungakhathazeki. Ngemuva kwakho konke, nawe, ungase ube nezinhlelo zokuhlwa.
6. Ngezinye izikhathi ucabanga ukuthi ifoni yakho kufanele ishintshwe amahora angu-24 ngosuku, njengoba ungakwazi ukweqa izingcingo ezibalulekile. Kodwa ungakhathazeki. Ngemuva kwalokho, umuntu ngamunye unesikhala sakhe siqu, lapho ekhululekile khona. Vele ucishe ifoni isikhashana futhi uphumule, phumula. Uma uhlale usolwa, akekho ongasiza.