Umlando wenganekwane
"Angikaze ngihambe ngaleyo ndlela, futhi indawo ngalolo suku kanye nalelo hora lalikhona, futhi bevela kwelinye idolobha futhi badideka izitaladi ..." Yiqiniso, izindaba zingase zihluke (wena wagijima indiza eyodwa , bangenele isici esisodwa), banento eyodwa efanayo: uqinisekile ukuthi lo mhlangano ulungiselelwe kusuka phezulu, futhi manje ucabanga ukuthi kungaba kubi uma ukhona endaweni engafanele naleso sikhathi. Gcina lo mzwelo wesaba isikhathi eside ngangokunokwenzeka. Futhi indaba ngokwayo, futhi. Mkhumbule kwezinye izimo zothando (nakuba imemori enjalo isivele isithandana), xelela ngezinye izikhathi kubangani futhi ngempela - kubantfwana bakho. Ungavumeli noma yikuphi abantu abanobuqili ababuze imfihlakalo yalo mcimbi. Izindaba ezinjalo zivikela uthando, zisindise izinkinga futhi zivikele umndeni ekuqhekekeni. Okungahleliwe komhlangano kunikeza ukuba khona kwenhlangano yakho ibe nencazelo ekhethekile futhi kuzo zonke izimo kusiza ukucabanga kahle. Kuningi okungaba nakho uma wazi ukuthi konke lokhu akuyona nje injabulo.
Isivivinyo: geometry yomndeni
Dweba obala ngezingxenye ezimbili ze-intersecting. Bona ukuthi inkulu kangakanani indawo ye-intersection. Kufanele kube yi-1 / 4-1 / 3, hhayi ngaphezulu. Wonke umuntu kudingeka abe nesikhala sakhe, izithakazelo, ukuzilibazisa, abajwayele. "Ungafaki intendeni lapho iphevemvane ihlezi khona, futhi uzohlale efika kuye," isaga sesiJapane. Kuhle futhi kulungile kakhulu.
Okhokho abajabulayo
Uma umbhangqwana ucabanga ukuthi ubuhlobo bawo bujabule isikhathi eside, khona-ke okungenani omunye wabashadile unabazali abajabulayo abafanayo ekuphileni komndeni. Injabulo yomndeni izuzwe njengefa: emva kwakho konke, sifunda izici zobungane kusukela ebusheni, sibona ukuthi abantu abanothando baziphathe kanjani. Indlela yokuxabana, ukuthethelela, ukubonisa ububele - konke lokhu akukwazi ukufundwa ezincwadini, kuya ekuphileni. Ngokungaqondakali futhi uba yingxenye yayo. Futhi umuntu owakhulela emndenini ojabulayo unamandla kakhulu kangangokuthi injabulo yakhe yokusebenza ingwane amabili (uma kwenzeka umlingani engenalo inhlanhla njengengane). Uma ungakaze ubone isibonelo esinjalo emndenini wabazali, ezinye izihlobo ngisho nabantu obajwayele nje bangasiza. Thola phakathi kwabo umbhangqwana (omdala, okungcono) othanda ngempela. Ngokuvamile ubukele. Ngisho nesibonelo esisodwa sikwanele ukuthi ekujuleni komphefumulo wethu siyaqiniseka: uthando lungaphila isikhathi eside kakhulu.
I-Own Dictionary
Kufanele ube namazwi amfihlo nezinkulumo okungabikho muntu owaziyo. Yilokho, ngokoqobo: uma usho kanjalo, akekho omunye kodwa uzoqonda. Yiqiniso, akudingeki ukuthi ukhulume lolu limi nhlobo, kodwa kwezinye izimo, ezimweni ezithile, kuyasiza, naphezu kwakho konke ukucebisa amagama akho. Ngokwesibonelo, ukuthi kanjani emcimbini kumlingani oziphatha naye akufanelekile: uyaphuza okuningi, ukuncoma okungajabulisi kuwe (ngoba akukhona kuwe), kufakazela ngenhloso? "Yeka ngale ndlela yokuziphatha!" - Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi, futhi abantu abazungezile bayokuqonda ngokushesha: phakathi kwakho kukhona okungalungile. Omunye umndeni iminyaka engu-15 kulezi zimo uthi: "Ungayifuni." Futhi wena? Uzodinga futhi amagama abonisa isifiso sokuthatha umhlalaphansi, ukubonisa ukunganeliseki okwedlulele kanye nesiginamagama segama: "Ake sihambe ekhaya, ungahlala isikhathi esingakanani nomama wakho?" Abashadile abaye bahlala ndawonye iminyaka eminingi ejabulisayo, sebenzisa amagama abo ayishumi noma amathathu, amagama abo ayishumi nambili. Izipho ngaphandle kwesizathu, i-SMS-ki enomusa ngaphandle kwencazelo, isimemo semibuthano sithuthukisa imizwa futhi sondeza uthando.
Umuntu, ngokungafani nezilwane, udinga imizwelo eqinile kanye nokubonakala okusha. Futhi-ke ... Nsuku zonke kuyafana. "Ngisho noma siphikisana, njengokwesikripthi, ngiyazi kahle ukuthi uzokhuluma ngani, futhi uyazi ukuthi ngizothini." Uthando olunzulu lwabantu lwangaphambi komshado, okuphakama amathuba okuba maduzane azoba yingxenye ngenxa yokuthi "ubuhlobo bube budedengu." Ukuphambene kukhulu kakhulu. Buyela emuva isikhathi akunakwenzeka, kodwa ukwenza ubuhlobo bube bubaluleke nakakhulu. Ngokusho kwezimfundiso ezimbili zomzwelo, noma yikuphi ukuzijabulisa, kunoma yikuphi okwenzekayo, kudluliselwa entweni eseduze futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ihlolwe njengamnandi. Noma yisiphi isimo esibangela ukuvusa komzimba (ngisho nokwesaba noma ukuthukuthela) kukhulisa ukukhangwa kothando. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukwenza okuthile ndawonye okubangela imizwelo eqinile. Noma yikuphi okumangazayo kuyasiza, ngisho noma kuhlelwe. Ukubukwa okungahambisani nesimo (isibonelo, "hinting" eside ubukeka ngesikhathi sekuseni ngezihlobo noma esitimeleni). Futhi imihlangano yokuqokwa komunye nomunye. Iyini iphuzu lokuya komunye umkhawulo womuzi futhi uhlezi ebhentshini uma unendawo ehlelwe kahle? Yebo, cha. Yingakho kubaluleke kakhulu.
Amasiko njalo
Lezi zivumelwano ngokuvamile ziyimfihlo, zikhona ngezimo zangaphakathi nemithetho. "Asikaze sishiye silula." Wayekhamuluka kakhulu: "Konke manje!", "Siyamanga lapho sihlangana, ngisho noma sihlukana nje isigamu sehora." Kubonakala sengathi lezi ziko kufanele zivimbele ubudlelwane futhi zibe nomkhawulo. Okokuqala, sidinga umuzwa wokuzinza emkhakheni wokuphila kwethu, sidinga lokho into ehlala njalo, ehlala njalo.Izifundo zivele zinikeze umuzwa wokuzola .Kwenzekani nxazonke, kunoma yiziphi izikhathi sasingakhathazeki, konke kuhlelekile, uma ngisaqhubeka ukuhamba ngefasitela.Ngaphezu kwalokho, imikhosi inamandla futhi ayivumeli ukuba yingxenye yokuphikisana okukhulu.Uma wena nomyeni wakho ninomthetho wokumanga lapho niya emsebenzini, ungasho ngokuqiniseka ukuthi impikiswano phakathi kwakho ngeke iphele isikhathi eside.Ngaphezu kwalokho, asikho isidingo sokucabanga ukuthi ungayenza kanjani Eqinisweni, amasiko omndeni anjalo adala isiko elilodwa elikhulu - ukunaka nokugcina ubudlelwane obuhle naphezu kwakho konke.