Izincomo zokujoyina ithimba elisha
Umuntu oza ezidingo ezintsha ezihlanganyelwe hhayi kuphela ukujwayela imisebenzi esemthethweni, kodwa futhi ukuze azi kahle abaphathi nabalingani bakhe. Futhi ukuthi uzothola kanjani
ozakwabo, umsebenzi wakho uxhomeke, futhi awufuni neze ukusebenza esimweni esinzima nesingqubuzanayo.
Ekuqaleni, udinga ukuziphatha ngokungathathi hlangothi, hhayi ukuveza imibono yakho ebuholi, osebenza nabo noma mayelana nemisebenzi ethile. Uma kudingeka ukuba unikeze impendulo ecacile, tshela ukuthi usuqala, futhi ungazi zonke izinkohliso, udinga isikhathi sokuya emsebenzini futhi wazi eduze kakhulu. Zama ukugwema inhlebo, ngezinye izindlela, hamba engxoxweni, noma uzothola inkazimulo yenhlebo. Labo bantu abazama ukuthola yonke imininingwane yokuphila kwakho, phendula ngemishwana ye-monosyllabic. Ngikholelwa, konke okushoyo ngawe, ufunda sonke ithimba lakho elisha, futhi kuyo yonke imininingwana izokhipha.
Uma iqembu lihlukaniswe ngamakamu amabili, akufanele uthathe isikhundla se-tie, ngoba ngokushesha uzithola ucezu lwabaqaphi. Udinga ukuziphatha ngendlela encane ngangokunokwenzeka futhi ngokuzithoba. Hlaziya ukuthi hlobo luni lokubambisana lungaphambi kwakho, futhi yini eyamukelwa khona.
Nakani izingubo. Mhlawumbe, usuvele wazi, uma kukhona izingubo zamahhala ehhovisi noma ikhodi yokugqoka eqinile iye yamukelwa. Futhi lapha ukuphawula kuyinto engafaneleki: uma ufuna ukusebenza, udinga ukugqoka ngokufanele. Ngisho noma izikhwama ezinzima zebhizinisi azigcini ngempela ehhovisi, lokhu akusho ukuthi ungangena ehhovisi ngezipikili ezinemibala ekhanyayo, izindebe kanye ne-mini. Esivikini sokuqala, udinga ukugqoka okuthile okuyingqayizivele - i-blouse yemibala ethule, isiketi sepensela, isitifiketi se-trouser. Uma uthola ukhululekile kancane, ungahlukanisa izingubo zakho zokugqoka, kodwa udinga ukunqabela izingubo zobulili nezisusa, khona-ke ozakwabo besifazane bazokubona njengomphikisi, futhi abantu bazobona into ephathelene nocansi.
Ngenkathi uvumelanisa ithimba elisha, zama ukuphuthuma emsebenzini, woza imizuzu engu-10 noma engu-15 ngaphambi kokuqala kosuku lomsebenzi, uye ekhaya, ukulibala kancane, kodwa hhayi ngaphambi kwakho konke.
Yiba nobungane, uvule futhi uphazamiseke. Ngokuvamile futhi ukumomotheka endaweni. Kuzakwethu, sicela usebenzise igama, bese uzama ukukhumbula amagama abantu abazokwethula kuwe.
Nakani ukuphumula emsebenzini futhi kwenzeka kanjani? Uma ekamelweni lokubhema, futhi ubhema, ungahlali eceleni bese uzama ukuqala ingxoxo. Uma inkomishi yetiyi, khona-ke thatha okumnandi nawe futhi unikeze ukwelapha.
Uma umenyiwe ukuba udle, ungayeki. Ithuba lokumazi abasebenzi eduze, futhi uma umemekile, kusho ukuthi wamukelwa kahle. Thola ukuthi kungokwezifiso kule collective ukugubha umholo wokuqala, futhi uhlele iholidi.
Bheka, akukho lutho oluyinkimbinkimbi lapha. Uma lo mbuthano omusha ungathandeki ekuhloleni, hhayi ukuxabana, khona-ke ukujwayela kwakho eqenjini elisha kuyoba lula futhi kungenabuhlungu. Futhi yini okufanele uyenze uma lonke iqembu liphendukile ngokumelene nawe?
Uma waba into yokuhlukumezeka
Ukuxoshwa kuyisimo esingenabulungisa, esinenhloso nesibi sabaphathi, abaphathi noma osebenza nabo esisebenzini senkampani. Kunezizathu eziningi zokuxhaphaza, kuba nomona nokubandlulula, ukuncintisana endaweni yokusebenzela. Kodwa ungesabi. Uma usuke waba "zhertovy" mobbing, lalela iseluleko sabachwepheshe:
- Hlola ukuthi kungani isizathu singase sibe khona. Mhlawumbe leli thimba lilambile ukuzijabulisa, "limile," futhi akunjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi kuwe.
- Okokuqala, ube ngumsebenzi ebhizinisini lakho futhi wenze kahle imisebenzi yakho, futhi uphathe ozakwabo ngokuzithoba nangenhlonipho.
- Gcina okwenzekayo eqenjini. Akufanele uvale kuwe. Thola labo bantu abazimisele kahle kuwe futhi bahlale bexhumana nabo.
- Gwema ama-hysterics, ukugoqa, ukuhlaselwa okuvulekile, ngoba lokhu kuzokwenyusa kuphela abantu abathintekayo.
- Uma inkampani inomnyango wokusebenza nabasebenzi, kufanele uhambe lapho ucele usizo.
Ngenxa yalezi zeluleko, uzofunda ukuthi ungajoyina kanjani ngokushesha ithimba elisha futhi uphathe konke kulula. Ukuxubha nezinye izinkinga emsebenzini - lokhu kuyinto yesikhashana, futhi uma uxabisa umsebenzi wakho, ungakhathazeki, futhi wenze imizamo yokwakha ubuhlobo obuhle. Futhi ungajoyina ngokushesha iqembu.