Iningi lezinkolelo-ze ezihlobene nokukhulelwa azikho incazelo enengqondo, kepha abesifazane abaningi bakhetha ukubalandela. Isimo ngokwaso - esengozini kakhulu kunokujwayelekile - sidinga ukuqapha. Kulokho okungenakwenziwa ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, izibonakaliso zabantu azizinakulinganiswa. Ngezansi kuphela uhlu olungaphelele lwezibonakaliso nezinkolelo-ze ezihlobene nokukhulelwa.
Ezinyangeni zokuqala zokukhulelwa owesifazane kufanele abe oqaphele kakhulu. Lokhu akungabazeki, ngoba phakathi nalesi sikhathi izigaba ezibaluleke kakhulu zokuthuthukiswa komntwana, futhi ingozi yokuqeda ukukhulelwa ku-trimester yokuqala inkulu kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, inkolelo-mlando ebaluleke kakhulu ngalesi sikhathi ukugcina isikhundla sakho ngasese kubo bonke abantu. Mhlawumbe, lena yiyo kuphela inkolelo ethandwayo yokuthi odokotela banamuhla abaphikisi, futhi bayayisekela. Iqiniso liwukuthi ukukhulelwa kuyisakramente enkulu. Futhi ngenkathi imvelo ingabelwe kule sakramente ukuze ibonakale kwabanye (lapho isisu sibonakala) - kungcono ukungayikhangisi. Okungenani, ngeke kube kubi kunoma ubani.
Kusukela ezinsukwini lapho abesifazane basebenza kanzima ensimini, inkolelo yokuthi owesifazane okhulelwe akafanele abulale inyoka igcinwa. Kwabe sekuguqulwa kancane. Esikhundleni senyoka, kuvele intambo, owesifazane akufanele ahambe noma ahambe ngaphansi. Futhi, "hhayi ekuhlonipheni" kwakuyizintambo. Okusho ukuthi ukugoqa nokuhlanganisa owesifazane okhulelwe, ngokusho nezibonakaliso ezidumile, futhi, akunakwenzeka. Kukholelwa ukuthi intambo yomzimba izongena entanyeni yengane futhi angakwazi ukuyikhathaza lapho ezalwa. Odokotela bakholelwa nokuthi ukuthunga, ukubopha kanye nezinto ezinjalo zenza ngendlela enhle futhi kuhlolisisa owesifazane osesimweni. Into eyinhloko kuphela akumele ingaphezu kweyodwa, ngoba ukuhlala endaweni eyodwa isikhathi eside kwenza i-oksijeni igqekelele kunzima kakhulu emntwaneni.
Kukhona inkolelo yokuthi abesifazane abakhulelwe abakwazi ukudla inyama yenogwaja, ukuze ingane ezayo ingesabi.
Kukhona futhi izimpawu zabantu eziphikisana kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, ngokomunye wabo, abesifazane abakhulelwe banqatshelwe ukubuka izithombe, ukuze bangazalanga ingane ephikile. Kodwa kukhona okuphambene ngqo nenkolelo-ze yokuthi lapho owesifazane okhulelwe ebuka izithombe, ingane yakhe iyoba yinto enhle.
Ngokusho kwezinye izibonakaliso, ngesikhathi ukhulelwe, awukwazi ukukhipha inja noma ikati ukuze ingane yakhe ingalungile.
Ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, owesifazane akufanele ahleke ukukhubazeka, ukugula, ukugula njll, ukuze ungenzi "okufanayo" nengane yakho.
Kukholelwa ukuthi uma ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa owesifazane waya emngcwabeni, ingane yakhe ingazalwa ikhubazekile futhi ibuhlungu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kwakucatshangwa ukuthi abesifazane abakhulelwe kufanele babe nemizwelo emihle ngesikhathi ekhulelwe, ukuze ingane ihle, inempilo futhi ijabule. Ngisho nanamuhla, odokotela kanye nezingqondo ze-psychologists bakholelwa ukuthi lapho bejabule futhi bekhululekile owesifazane okhulelwe, ingane yakhe iyojabula futhi ithole.
Ezindaweni eziningi kukholelwa ukuthi owesifazane okhulelwe akufanele abuzwe ukuba amnike ukudla. Ingane izozalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi.
Owesifazane okhulelwe akufanele aqede izinwele zakhe, ngoba ingane izoba ne-eyelashes emfushane futhi ngokuvamile iyoba buthakathaka futhi ibuhlungu. Eqinisweni, le nkolelo-ze ivela ekujuleni kwamakhulu eminyaka, lapho izinwele ezinde zaziyisici esiyinhloko sowesifazane. Abakaze babeswe, ngaphandle kwezifo ezimbi - ukolora, isifo noma i-typhus. Ngakho-ke, owesifazane onenwele elifushane wayewubukhulu obuthakathaka futhi obuthakathaka. Yeka uhlobo lwezingane eziphilile!
Kukholelwa ukuthi uma owesifazane okhulelwe eba okuthile, ukuma kwalento kuzokuhlala ngesibalo esikhumbeni somntwana.
Ngokwezinye izinkolelo, uma ngabe ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, owesifazane wesaba ukuthi othile uyomthatha ngesandla - emzimbeni womntwana kuyoba khona ukushaya endaweni efanayo.
Abanye bakholelwa ukuthi uma ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa isithombe sesifazane noma sidonsa ama-portraits, singamisa ukuthuthukiswa kwe-fetus.
Futhi, ekugcineni, inkolelo-mlando ebaluleke kunazo zonke ezithobela iningi labesifazane abakhulelwe. Ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwengane, awukwazi ukwenza noma yimaphi amalungiselelo ngendlela yokuthenga umgibeli, isikhumba, izingubo, amathoyizi kanye nezinye "impahla" zezingane. Ngaphandle kwalokho, kukholelwa ukuthi ingane izozalwa ifile. Lezinkolelo-ze zivela esikhathini lapho amaphesenti okufa kwezinsana aphezulu kakhulu. Emadolobheni ajwayelekile awazange alungise ukubonakala kwengane kuze kube yilapho ebhapathizwa. Futhi emva kwalesi simiso baqala ukuthunga izingubo, ukulungiselela ukulala, njll. Nokho, okwamanje, ukwesaba okunjalo akulungile. Amalungiselelo okuzalwa kwengane angajabula kuphela futhi alethe ukwaneliseka kowesifazane. Kodwa nokho abaningi bathambekele ekukholweni ukuthi ngenxa yokuphepha kwabo ngokomoya ngeke kwenzeke ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa - isibonakaliso sabantu salo hlobo asikwazi ukuqedwa amakhulu eminyaka. Noma kunjalo, kunomsebenzi wayo wokucabangela. Futhi ukulandela noma cha - ukhetho luhlala luwakho njalo.