Kodwa, ngeshwa, kumadoda, ukuziphatha kwabesifazane akuhlali njalo kucacile, kodwa mayelana nemicabango kanye nemicabango, mhlawumbe, futhi akufanelekile ukukhuluma ngakho. Kodwa leli qiniso lihlala, owesifazane ufuna ukuzizwa eyedwa, ukuzizwa lokhu, nokwenza konke okubheka ukuthi kuyadingeka umbono wakhe. Masiqondise kancane lezi zenzo, mhlawumbe khona-ke kuyoba lula ukuba amadoda enze izenzo "ezilungile".
"Cha - kusho ukuthi yebo, kodwa kamuva."
Le mpendulo, cishe, ngokuvamile ibeka amadoda ekugcineni, futhi ibangele ukunganeliseki kwabesifazane. Isizathu salokhu yisifiso sowesifazane sokushiya imfihlakalo ethile, noma ukudala ukukhathazeka okungenzeka ukuthi lo muntu wayenethuba lokuthatha isinyathelo, noma iningi ukuqagela ngesifiso somfazi. Ngakho-ke, ngenxa yalokho, owesifazane uzama ukuhlale ethakazelisayo, futhi ngokufanele ayifunayo, futhi ayingqayizivele. Kodwa amadoda ngokwawo alamukele ukuziphatha okunjalo, ngakolunye uhlangothi, akwazi ukuhlukanisa i-coquetry yabesifazane ngokuphika okucacile, noma imvume. Futhi kulula kakhulu kubo uma owesifazane ephendula impendulo yakhe ngqo, futhi ememezela izifiso zakhe. Umphumela: isifiso sagcwaliseka, noma singaphenduliwe, umphumela wegeyimu ulahlekile, futhi ithuba lidalwe ukuthi kuzoba khona oyedwa noma ozobonisa intshiseko enkulu.
Khumbula ukuthi abesifazane bathanda imvelo yabo ukuze bayithinte. Ngakho-ke, lapho umuntu othandekayo eyeka ukwenza lokhu, angakwazi ukubika kalula ekukholiseni okukholisayo komthandi wakhe. Futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo uqiniseke ngokugcwele ukuthi ulungile. Ngakho-ke, uma uxabisa ubuhlobo bakho, zama, ngoba owesifazane kufanele abe nomuzwa owodwa kuphela, futhi uzozizwa uma nje kufunwa.
Umshado awuvimbeli ...
Umqondo womshado awusho ukuthi owesifazane kufanele agqoke isigqubuthelo, futhi angaboni nakwamanye amadoda. Umfazi angaba othembekile kakhulu, futhi athande umyeni wakhe kuze kube sekugcineni, kodwa ukuba azizwe "engasho lutho," kufanele nje abheke abanye abantu. Uma, ngisho nalapho ehamba eceleni kwakho, uzozibheka ngeso lengqondo imibono yabanye abantu, lokhu kuzomvumela ukuba azizwe okuwukuphela kwakhe. Yebo, futhi kufanele uzizwe uziqhenya ngezikhathi ezinjalo, ngoba othandekayo wakho uthanda izinto eziningi, kodwa kungokwakho kuphela. Uma umuntu engaqinisekisi iqiniso elinjalo, nansi isibonelo esisodwa. Ake sithi umkakho uvala izindonga ezine, futhi umzila wakhe wansuku zonke uzoba namaphuzu amane: isiqandisini - isitofu - umshini wokuwasha - isoya. " Ngenxa yalokho, uthola kuphela umkakho, kodwa yiyiphi. Akadingi, zizinakekele, ikhabethe lakhe ngakho akudingi ukuhluka okukhethekile. I-Cosmetics isetshenziswa kancane kancane, futhi lokho kuyinto encane, kanti i-hairstyle ngokuvamile ayikhanye ngobuhlakani. Wake wafuna ukuchitha impilo yakho yonke nowesifazane onjalo? Cishe akunjalo. Ngakho-ke, ake owesifazane afane nethuba. Owesifazane onjengevemvane, uma ekhishwe, uzobaleka, uma ephoqelelwe enqabeni, uzofa. Bamba i-butterfly yakho enhle, futhi kuyohlala phakade kuphela kuwe.
Ubuqili njengendlela yokufakazela.
Ucwaningo luye lwabonisa ukuthi abesifazane abakhaphela abayeni babo baqondiswa ukuziphindisela ngamacala angu-70%. Futhi lokhu kubuyelwa kwakungekhona njalo ukuphikisana nokuqhathaniswa, kaningi abesifazane baziphindiselela ukungaziboleki kwabo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ukuya enkohlakalo, abesabi kakhulu, futhi ngezinye izikhathi bafisa sengathi umyeni wakhe wazi ngalokhu. Ngale ndlela, ukumenza enze okuthile. Njengokuthi, uma ufuna ukuphela kwami, ngenze ngizizwe ngedwa, futhi.
Ngokuvamile bangamakhosikazi amadoda asematasa kakhulu, noma amadoda, athatha uhlangothi olusebenzayo kuphela ngesikhathi owesifazane edingeka ukuba anqobe futhi enze ukuze amshade naye. Futhi ngokuqhubekayo, ngaphansi kwesiqubulo esithi "ngeke sihambe noma yikuphi", usuvele umyeni, uhlala emapulazini "omnqobile". Ngezinye izikhathi abesifazane banecala kulokhu, kodwa abesifazane ngokwabo kufanele babe necala, kodwa esimweni esinjalo kuyadingeka ukuba uthole isikhathi esifanele futhi ungaphuthelwa lutho, kungenjalo kuyoba sekwephuzile kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, ukuze ulondoloze ubudlelwano obuqinile, kubalulekile ukuthi oshade naye noma ozakwethu bahlanganyele. Madoda, yiba knights, unqobe abesifazane bakho. Abesifazane - yenza kanjalo ukuthi ungathanda ukukulwela.
Virginity.
Lokhu kungenye yezimiso ezimbalwa ezingabhekiswa ngokuqondile ekuqondeni jikelele komuntu oyedwa. Njengomkhuba wokubonisa, amadoda amaningi afuna ukuba umfazi wabo wesikhathi esizayo abe intombi, abesifazane abazimisele ukwenza kanjalo ngokuqondene nomyeni wakhe. Futhi lokhu akuyona nje indaba yokuziphatha, futhi le "medali" inezinhlangothi ezimbili. Ngokushesha noma kamuva, oshade naye ongenabo abalingani bokuqala ocansini bazoba nombuzo othi "kuthiwani ngabanye?". Ngokuvamile ngamacala angu-50%, imicabango enjalo iyasebenza. Ngakho ukuhlubuka, amahlazo, isahlukaniso. Ikakhulukazi uma indoda noma umfazi engakwazi ukuwanelisa ngokugcwele umphefumulo wabo womshado, futhi bathola ithuba elinjalo ohlangothini. Ngakho-ke, ngezinye izikhathi kungcono ukuqala impilo ebuseduze ngaphambi komshado, futhi uhlole imizwa yakho ezingeni lomzimba. Futhi khumbula ukuthi owesifazane kufanele, okokuqala, athande futhi athandwe, khona-ke angabe abe yedwa kuwe.
Ukuthuka.
Ukucasulwa yizintambo, empeleni, umsebenzi wesifazane. Namathisela kunoma yiziphi izinto ezincane, ukukopela izipanji, ukunciphisa amehlo akho, ngisho nokukhala - lokhu kungaphansi kwamandla abo bonke. Kodwa amadoda ngesizathu esithile akwazi ukusabela kuphela ekubonakalweni kwangaphandle, futhi akafuni ukucubungula imbangela yezenzo zabesifazane. Ukuzizwa komuntu wesifazane nokwamukelwa, okuphansi kwesimo somqondo wesilisa nokucabanga okucabangelayo, kuphela ezinkingeni ezincane. Ezimweni ezinzima, owesifazane angabonisa ukuzimisela okukhulu futhi asabele ngokushesha. Ngakho-ke, ukuthinteka nje kubuthakathaka obuthakathaka, obangelwa isifiso sokuheha kakhulu. Uma nje usabela ngesifiso, ngisho noma ungenzi, kodwa ukunikeza umbono wokuthi kubaluleke kakhulu kuwe - owesifazane uzwa yedwa, edingekayo futhi ethandekayo. Ngezinye izikhathi ngale ndlela kuphela kungenzeka ukugcwalisa ukungabi nalutho kwemizwa, ikakhulukazi uma lo mbhangqwana usenesikhathi sobuhlobo, lapho umzuzu wokuhlukanisa ulingana nokuphakade.