Kuyo yonke impilo yakhe umuntu ngokuqinisekile uhlangabezana nemizwa enjengokuzwelana, uthando, uthando. Le mizwa emikhulu futhi ekhanyayo izalwa kaningi kubantu abasha kuze kube iminyaka engaba ngu-30. Ngesikhathi esizayo, ukuthola ukuzwelana, ukuyeka uthando - kunzima kakhulu. Izibalo zibonisa ukuthi uma lucky kakhulu, "uthando ngengozi lufika" kathathu. Izikhathi ezintathu umuntu angakwazi ukuhlangana naye ofuna ukukhuluma naye, amise usuku, qale ukwakha ubudlelwane obuseduze kunabo ababajwayele nje.
Ngokuvamile imizwa enjalo iphela masinyane - ivele ichithe, ifana ne-mirage ehlane. Bashiya ngemuva kokuzisola kuphela. Ngezinye izikhathi inqubo ingenabuhlungu kangangokuthi izinkumbulo zisuswe ngokushesha kakhulu. Ngabo, bathi i-goodbyes, njengenganekwane. Kodwa kungaba khona ukudumala okukhulu, ukuhlupheka nokulangazelela ukuthemba okungagcwaliseki. Labo abanobuhle kunabaningi, abaFate ababesekela kakhulu, baphile ekupheleni kokuphila kwabo ndawonye, behlangane kanye ngengozi.
Abantu bayazi ukuthi bayisigamu sonke. Ngezinye izikhathi kufanele uchithe impilo yakho yonke ukufuna Wena ngokwakho. Abantu abaningi abahlukene badlula kithi nsuku zonke, esingaziqapheli bese sikhohlwa ngabo. Kodwa manje ukubuka okusheshayo kunomuntu othile nakho konke ... wadabula umshini kagesi, wangena engqondweni. Isenzo esisodwa nje - futhi uyaqonda ukuthi - lolu uthando luzoshintsha impilo yakho. Uyaqonda ukuthi ngenxa yalowo muntu usulungile, uma kungenjalo, okungenani - kakhulu. Ngenxa yakhe ungashintsha izimiso zakho ezimisiwe, gcina amehlo akho ezinkimbisweni ezibalulekile zomuntu othandekayo. Uyayamukela njengoba ikhona ngempela.
Owesifazane othandweni uzimisele ukufaka engozini kumuntu wakhe. Uma nje usondelene naye, ukuzinikela yedwa kuye, yena ngokwakhe ngaphandle kokulandelela. Ngezinye izikhathi ngenxa yalokhu owesifazane angaya empini nomndeni wakhe.
Umuntu oyedwa uthole kanjani ukuzwelana komunye? Bathi ukukhanga kukhangwa. Ngaphezulu kuya kokunciphisa, futhi ngokuphambene nalokho. Mhlawumbe, abameleli bobulili obuhlukile bakhanga izimfanelo ezithile? Isayensi kule ndaba iphakamisa ukufana kwezinhlamvu. Mhlawumbe isimo esifanayo, izici ezifanayo. Owesifazane ukhetha kanjani indoda yakhe?
Ama-musculature namahlombe avulekile - abheka ngokuyinhloko owesifazane, athembisa ukuvikelwa kwakhe okuphelele. Ngemuva kwalokho, owesifazane angase azizwe ephephile ngokugcwele. Futhi amadoda? Baqaphela izinhlobo zokukhohlisa zomlingani ocansini, injabulo ethembisayo, futhi futhi - esikhathini esizayo - inzalo enempilo.
Indoda-ubaba emndenini ukhathalela indodakazi yakhe ngesisa nangothando. Ngakho-ke, lapho ukhetha umlingani wokuphila, intombazane ekhulile ikhetha indoda ebuka okuthile njengoyise. Uqaphele ngokucophelela ukuthi lowo okhethiwe uzomphatha ngokuhlanganyela okufana nobaba esemncane.
Bonke abantu bahlelwe ngendlela yokuthi bafuna ukuxhumana nabameleli bobulili obuhlukile, nomaphi lapho bekhona. Emsebenzini, ezokuthutha, eholidini ... Basebenzisa wonke amathuba okuthandana ngothando. Abantu abasha abajwayelene nabo benza abantu baqiniseke kakhulu ngamakhono abo. Futhi owesifazane, ngaphezu kwalokho, akanakunqotshwa ngokuphelele.
Yonke imibono yowesifazane ohlangane naye "indoda yami", kuphela ngaye. Ukuthula kulahlekile kuze kube phakade, noma ukulala noma ukudla akudingeki. Ulapha kulesi simo somlingo, esimweni somkhuhlane wothando, okuyinto isayensi echaza ngamagciwane athile. Lezi zihlanganisa ama-pheromone - izinto zobulili ezisebenza ngokuzikhandla. Lezi zi-aphrodisiacs, ezikhomba ukunxusa kocansi. Bamphoqa lo wesifazane ukuthi asebenze ngokusondelene nomuntu okhethiwe.
• I-adrenaline ihamba ngokuthinta okungenacala kwe-fan.
• I-hormone yenjabulo - i-endorphins - igxilisa umuzwa wendlala.
• Kunciphisa isidingo sokulala phenylethylamine ngomphumela we tonic.
• Isifiso sobulili sabalingani sithuthukiswa yisenzo se-oxytocin emzimbeni.
Lezi zinambuzane zomkhuhlane wothando ziholela umuntu esimweni sokujabula, aphendule amakhanda. Futhi ukuze ungalokothi ulahlekelwe ikhanda lakho, ubuhlobo kufanele bukwakhiwe njengemdlalo omele uwuthole ngokuqinisekile.
Ngesithunzi, thola ukuncoma, ungafihli imizwelo yakho, ngokubukeka kahle. Ngokweqile kobudlelwane bakho, umthandi akufanele aqiniseke. Kodwa ezinhlelweni zakho zokugcina kanye nethemba lesihlobo sakhe, yebo, akufanelekile ukuzinikela kuze kube yisikhathi esithile, kuze kube yilapho wena ngokwakho ekugcineni uqiniseka ngokufaneleka kwakho okukhethile. Isinqumo esifanele siyoxhomeka ekutheni ubumnene bakho, ngokuvumelana nokuhambisana kwawo. Ukubekezela kungethusa futhi kuhlukanise umlingani. Ngokuthobeka kakhulu futhi namahloni kuyodumazeka kakhulu.
Uma konke okufanayo uyeke ukukhetha okungaqondakali kulo muntu, qhubeka nokuzethemba ukwakha nokuthuthukisa ubudlelwane bakho. Ukuthanda ubudlelwane kwenza umuntu abe mnandi kakhulu, okwenza avele ekhanya ngaphakathi. Ukuphila komuntu siqu kunciphisa ukucindezeleka futhi kuqinisa ukuzivikela. Ukumamatheka kukhanya ebusweni ukuze indoda ethandwayo ibonakale ikude.
Yehla othandweni! Futhi mthande!
Sergey Vasilenko
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