Umyeni ubuka ibhola e-TV. Umfazi uthukuthele: "Ubukela yini yonke ibhola lakho? Ngikhulume ngento ephezulu. " Umyeni: "Ngokuqondile! Woza, ake sikhulume ngebhasikidi! "Yiqiniso, lokhu kungukuthi i-anecdote. Kodwa ngokuvamile ngokuvamile izindaba ezinjalo ezihlekisayo ziba yiqiniso lethu nsuku zonke. Kuthiwani uma isiteshi sezemidlalo ilungu eligcwele lomndeni wakho? ..
Akuyona imfihlo ukuthi abantu bathanda ibhola. Futhi nge-tennis, i-hockey, izinhlanga ezihlukahlukene, basketball, ukugwedla, i-kayaking, i-polo yamanzi, ukubhukuda nokugxuma kusukela e-springboard, noma ngisho nakakhulu ne-pole ... Konke kuzoba kuhle, imidlalo iyenzeka ngempela
izwe lonke, ngenxa yesizathu esithile isikhathi esiningi amadoda angadlulisi ibhola noma i-puck ensimini ngokwabo, kepha, ehlezi kahle kwi-TV, bayagula ngentshiseko iqembu noma isidlali labo abathandayo. Uma umfazi noma intombi ezama ukumangalela, uvame ukuzwa: "Awuqondi lutho." Ngempela, yilowo nalowo wakhe. Ekugcineni, abesifazane banokuzilibazisa okuningi okungafunwa amadoda ukuba babelane nabo. Futhi owesifazane kuphela ovela engoma yezingane lapho "... ngo-Spartacus omama bethu abagula" kungaba kuhle kunoma yimuphi umuntu. Futhi akukhona ngawe. Kodwa yini okufanele uyenze uma uhlale ubheka i-Champions League esikhundleni sefilimu ethandekayo noma ukhansela ukuvakashelwa? Kuthiwani uma uthando lwe-sofa-TV lomyeni wakhe luthatha konke?
Lokho abanye abakwenzayo.
E-Spain, hhayi esikhathini esidlule, ukuhlaselwa komphakathi kwaqhamuka. AbaseSpain bamemezele ukuthi umbhikisho webhola laseBurophu ube yimpi engathí sina futhi bahlela ngisho nethi "Abesifazane baseSpain ngaphandle kwebhola." "Akukhona nje ukuthi amadoda asethathele ithelevishini futhi awavunyelwe ukubukela uchungechunge lwawo oluyintandokazi ye-TV, abe engacabangi, anqabe ukukhipha udoti futhi agcwalise umthwalo wabo womshado!" Omunye wabasebenzi abashicilela leli phephandaba utshele iphephandaba laseFrance iLe Figaro. Njengeluphakamiso "lwasekhaya," abafazi bacelwa ukuba bafihle amaphaneli okulawula okukude kusuka kumasethi we-TV futhi benze amahlaya avamile mayelana nokuhamba kwamadoda emidlalweni yezemidlalo.
Abantu abaningi baseRussia babelungele ukulwa nezizathu ezinhle: uKatya oneminyaka engu-27 ubudala wamxosha umyeni wakhe embhede womshado wonke ama-Olimpiki aseBusika, kodwa kuye lesi sici sokuphila komndeni kwakubaluleke kakhulu. Okumangalisa ukuthi, isilinganiso esiphezulu sithwale izithelo: manje uloba ukusakaza kwividiyo futhi ubukele umncintiswano ngenkathi umkakhe elele.
U-Irina wayekhathazekile kakhulu ukuthi uzoshada nendoda eyobukeka njengoyise. Lapho ehlala nabazali bakhe futhi kwakukhona umdlalo kwi-TV (ibhola noma iHockey), kwakukhona ukuthula okuphelele endlini, ngoba ubaba wayelubheka kusukela ekuqaleni kuya ekupheleni. U-Ирин umyeni wesikhathi esizayo ubonakale enganandaba kokubili ebhola, naku-hockey. Unesinye isithandwa - zonke izinhlobo zokulwa (ibhoksi, i-judo, ukulwa). Kodwa yena ngokwakhe ungumdlali. U-Ira uyakwazi ukuxoxa naye. Angamnika yona lapho efuna ukubona okuthile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, banama-TV amaningana endlini.
Umyeni ka-Sonin wayengumdlali webhola, ikakhulukazi, "u-Spartacus." U-Alya Sophia, lokhu kwakungukuhlanya kwangempela! Ngesikhathi ingane yabo yindodana ishaya isikhalazo, umyeni wamemeza umkakhe ukuba "enze" ingane ikhudlwana. Kodwa ngolunye usuku ugogo wahamba nokuhamba nomntwana, futhi endlini kwakukhona ukuthula, ubumsulwa, ubulili kanye ... INdebe Yomhlaba! USonya wayehlezi eceleni komyeni wakhe embhedeni, ebheke e-TV, lapho amadoda angama-20 enempilo ayegijima ibhola elilodwa ensimini, futhi ... wawa ngothando! Ngithandana nebhola!
Ikhodi yomuntu.
Akudingekile ukusola amadoda ngokudlala ngokweqile. Izazi zengqondo ziyamemeza ngokungafani ukuthi ukulangazelela lezi zibukeli kunqunywe ngaphambili kwabameleli besigamu esiqinile sabantu. Into ewukuthi amadoda anamuhla asinayo i-adrenaline eyanele, futhi esikhundleni sokuba afune ukuzingela ama-mammoth, aya enkundleni (okungcono kakhulu) noma embhedeni - ukudonsa ngentshiseko iqembu lethu ... Ngaphezu kwalokho, njengoba ochwepheshe bathi, ukubukela imincintiswano yezemidlalo ku-TV kusiza ukubhekana nokucindezeleka okucindezelayo nokunciphisa ukucindezeleka. Isibonelo, empilweni yakho, umyeni wakho akakwazi ukuphikisana nomphathi noma akakwazi ukuqhubela phambili iphrojekthi yakhe, kodwa lapha, ejabule eqenjini lakhe elithandayo, uvumela ukuqhuma, ukukhala, ukusola futhi uthole isinxephezelo sokuziphatha nokuphumula kwengqondo. Ngakho-ke, uma sisusa kumyeni wezokuzijabulisa we-polonoe, isimo singashintsha kakhulu. Uzoqala ukuphuka emndenini wakhe. Uma uzama ngempela ukuthatha indawo ethile ngezinye izici zemidlalo kanye nemincintiswano ehlukahlukene, khona-ke kudingeka wenze lokhu kancane kancane. Khona-ke umuntu ngokwakhe, ngokwemvelo angenza ngaphandle kokusakaza ithelevishini. Noma ungene ngisho nemidlalo, noma okungenani uye endlini yaseshashalazini nawe. Ngakho-ke, ungasabela kanjani kulokhu?
"Ukushintshaniswa kwemvelo."
Kulula ukubekezelela ukuzilibazisa komyeni futhi ucabange ngomsebenzi ohlukile. Uma nje elandela intuthuko yabagijimi bethu, uzoba khona emidlalweni yokudansa, yoga, kumbuthano wokudweba noma ukudweba izithombe. Njengokukhetha, imihlangano nabangani, ukuya kuma-movie, ezitolo noma embukisweni kufanelekile. Qedela amaphupho akho ekugcineni! Ekugcineni, unesikhathi samahhala (nesikhathi somyeni), ongayinikela ngokuphelele. Ngehora lo mdlalo okhishwayo uqala? Bhalisa ngokuphuthumayo ukuze uthole umuthi noma isitayela. Bobabili nizojabula futhi niqhubeke nobusuku ngenjabulo enhle. Izinzuzo zale ndlela yukuthi ngeke ube nesithukuthezi futhi ubheke umsebenzi othakazelisayo wesikhathi somdlalo noma ukuncintisana. Amanani amanani aphezulu (amathikithi eklabhu yokuzivocavoca, kanye namathikithi ezenzakalo zamasiko nezokuzijabulisa athola imali eningi).
"Ithimba lokusekela".
Enye indlela yokuphuma kule nkinga ingafakwa into efana nalokhu: "Kwenzekani?" Udinga ukuhlala phansi nomthandi wakho kulesofa bese uzama ukuthola ukuthi bonke laba bantu benzani ensimini. Yiqiniso, kufanele ubonise isithakazelo esiqotho kulokho okwenzekayo. Uma kungenjalo umlingani wakho angase acabange ukuthi uzama nje ukuzama ukuphazamisa ukuzijabulisa kwakhe. Ukuphazamiseka kwendlela ukuthi kuthatha isikhathi eside futhi kuzodinga ukuthi ube nesineke esikhulu, ubuqili, ubuqili nokuqonda kwenani. Nokho, mhlawumbe, kancane kancane ungathandana nebhola, i-volleyball nezinye zezemidlalo. Zama ukuzikhethela ithimba lakho elizithandayo noma omunye umdlali (inzuzo phakathi kwabo yisisindo samadoda amahle). Buka umncintiswano njengokungathi usemidlalo yaseshashalazini. Ngokushesha uzokuqonda ubuqili abaningi, ungasekela noma yikuphi ingxoxo "yesilisa" futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo unikele mahhala imizwelo eqoqiwe. Ukuxabana nomuntu ngeke kube yisizathu ... Kunoma yikuphi, umlingani wakho uzokwazisa ukuqonda kwakho.
"Icala elibi kakhulu."
Eqinisweni, i-etymology yegama elithi "cheerleader" ayisizi ngalutho isenzi "sokugula." Ngezinye izikhathi umdlandla wezemidlalo uba yisifo sangempela, okudingeka nje siphathwe. Uma umyeni wakho engaphuthelwa emncintiswaneni owodwa, uchitha yonke imali yakhe ekuhambeni ukuhambelana kwamanye amadolobha namazwe futhi akakwazi ukukhuluma nganoma yini enye ngaphandle kwezemidlalo, yisikhathi sokusebenzisa izinyathelo zokwelapha. Cishe, inkhulumomphendvulwano ngeke isisize. Othandekayo wakho uzothatha izithembiso zokushintsha, kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuwagcwalisa. Hamba ngobuqili. Ungamthinti ngesikhathi sokuncintisana okubalulekile noma emincintiswaneni (ngemuva kwakho konke, unelungelo lokuzilibazisa), futhi ngesikhathi sezemicimbi yezemidlalo ebalulekile, khetha ibhizinisi elihlanganisiwe. Into esemqoka yisisusa esifanele. "Ngiyathandeka, angikwazi ukukhetha inyama ngaphandle kwakho!", "Darling, abazali bami bazocasuka uma ngiza ngedwa!" ... Ngokuqaphela ukuthi ngaphandle kwakhe yonke into izomisa ngokoqobo, umyeni wakho uzokwazi ukulahlekelwa ukusakaza okumbalwa.