Ukuxhumeka okuphezulu?
Ngamunye wethu ujwayele isifiso sokuxhumana nalabo abazwelana nathi kanye nalabo esibahawukelayo. Yilokho isidingo sazo zonke izidumbu, esizikhuluma ngazo, ukwakha ubudlelwane obuseduze, obunenjongo, okuthiwa "ukuxhumana" (uxhumano), kubonakala. Sidinga labo abaqaphela izici zethu, ulwazi namakhono, impumelelo kanye nokufaneleka. Ngakho kungokwemvelo ukuthi ubungane buvela lapho sisebenza khona. Kodwa ingabe kulungile ukucabangela ubungane obunjalo ngempela? Ingabe kukhona ukuthandana, ukufudumala, ukwethembeka, ukusondelana okungokomoya - konke okuhlobene nobungane phakathi kwethu?
Ngezinye izikhathi sonke siya esidlweni sakusihlwa nomnyango wonke, simema othile kusihlwa, kodwa angizange ngambize othile osebenza nabo engumngane osondelene naye. Sihlanganyela izinto eziningi komunye nomunye, kodwa futhi sithula ngezinto eziningi. Ingabe lokhu kusho ukuthi ubudlelwane bethu bomuntu obuvela ekukhulumisaneni kwansuku zonke kubaluleke kakhulu, ngoba bethonywa yizimfuno zomsebenzi ngamunye, ukuncintisana noma imithetho yokuxhumana enkampanini? Cha, lokhu akunjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi. Kunomngcele ocacile phakathi komngane nomngani: sizizwa lapho sisondela kakhulu impilo yomuntu womunye umuntu. Abanye bethu bakuthola kulula ukusondela kubantu ngenxa yobuciko bethu nokukhuliswa. Lapho ingane iphathwa ngokucophelela, izifiso zakhe, isikhala sakhe siqu, imizwa yakhe iyahlonishwa, ngakho-ke, lapho ekhula, uyohamba ngaphandle kokwesaba ebuhlotsheni obuseduze nobuhlobo obuseduze, okusho ukuthi akusikho kuphela ukwethembeka nokusizana komunye, kodwa futhi kubumbene ngaphakathi, ukuzithoba, ukwethemba. Ngeke asabe ukuthi angasengozini.
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Ukusebenza akulona iqembu lezithakazelo, futhi ukwethembeka ubudlelwane ngokuvamile kuvumelana nemithetho yokuziphatha yenkampani. Kulesi simo, siphoqeleka ukuba silondoloze ukulinganisela phakathi komuntu siqu nochwepheshe, kodwa ngokuvamile kufanele sihlakulele okuthile. Esimweni sami, isimiso esiyinhloko, mhlawumbe, "ukungabi nezitha," kuvuma u-Valery, oneminyaka engu-36, umdayisi ebhange lebhizinisi. Uma othile ezwelana nami, ngizibuza: kungani enza lokhu? Kubalulekile kimi ukungabi nobuhlobo obuseduze, kodwa ukuqhubekela phambili emsebenzini. Ubudlelwane phakathi kozakwethu buhlotshaniswa nenhlanganisela yobuntu nomongo. Ukuthuthuka komsebenzi, etholakala emzabalazweni wokuncintisana, nobungane emsebenzini akuhambisani. Phela, zonke izenzo kanye nezenzo zabo umuntu onjalo uphansi komgomo oyinhloko. Kodwa ngokuvamile labo abahlose umsebenzi, bafinyelela phezulu, bathole ukuthi bangakanani bodwa. Okulandelayo kubo akekho ongakwazi ukuba nguwe. Futhi ngokuphambene, uma osebenza nabo benomgomo ofanayo, ubuhlobo bomuntu siqu buyovela kalula, eziningi zazo ziba ubungane. Ukuncintisana komuntu ngamunye kuvimbela ubungane, nokufeza imisebenzi ejwayelekile, njengokunqoba ubunzima obuvamile, ngokuphambene, ukufaka isandla kulo. Ngomngane wami wesifuba manje esihlangene nenkampani yangasese, lapho abaphathi ngezindlela ezihlukahlukene basusa noma yimuphi oxhumana nabo, ngaphandle kwebhizinisi. Ubuhlobo bethu abuvanga ngenxa yokuthi, kodwa naphezu kwezimo. Futhi yaba namandla ngempela, "kusho u-Anton, oneminyaka engu-33, uMphathi Wokuthengisa. Izinga lokubumbisana nezihlobo ezinobungane liphakeme kakhulu futhi kunzima kakhulu inhlangano yokuziphakamisa emphakathini. Ubuhlobo esimweni esinjalo buba yindlela yokusinda. Lokhu kusebenza enkampanini encane, nakulo lonke izwe. Ngakho-ke, eSoviet Union, lapho uhulumeni ephoqa abantu futhi ephazanyiswa njalo ebuhlotsheni, kwabalawula, abaningi baba abangane abakhulu kakhulu. Uma ushintsha isimo sakho noma umsebenzi wakho, abanye bethu baphazamisa ubudlelwane, okwakungangabazi ngalo izolo. Njengomthetho, lokhu kungenxa yokuthi sithatha ubungane njengabangane, okungaxhomeki esimweni sethu, esimweni sezimali, nanoma yisiphi isimo sengqondo esibi noma esifanele. Akuthinteki ibanga neminyaka, ukuvama kwemihlangano kanye (hhayi) nokungahambi kahle kwezinhlelo. Kodwa ungazivikela ekudumeni? Mhlawumbe, yebo. Uma siqonda imingcele yobungane emsebenzini, kuyosisiza ukuba siyiqonde uma iqala, futhi ingadumala kakhulu uma, empeleni, ayinamandla kakhulu.