Amantombazane-ubuhle
Kulamama namadodakazi anjalo futhi umehluko esikhathini , njengombuso, awubalulekile, futhi izimo zengqondo noma ubudlelwane bangobungane, kungenangqondo. Futhi uma ubheka kuzo ohlangothini, babonakala njengodade ababili noma izintombi. Kukhona ubudlelwano obufanayo emindenini yothando enothando. Ungakhumbula, isibonelo, ukuthi ubukeka kanjani obuhle futhi obuhle ngoCatherine noNastya, umama nendodakazi evela emndenini wezinkanyezi u-Strizhenovyh.
Ubungqayizivele ubuhlobo: ukuthembela okugcwele nokuqonda okubili emaceleni omabili. Umama akaphatheli indodakazi yakhe njengengqondo kodwa engabizi, kodwa uyibona njengobuntu obumbene, owesifazane osemusha angabonisana naye futhi axoxe ngezinkinga. Indodakazi ibona umama wayo njengomngane omdala, njengowesifazane ohloniphekile, ofanele ukuhlonishwa.
Inguqulo yokulwa: ubuhle-abaphikisanayo
Kodwa mhlawumbe kunjalo: umama nendodakazi babheka njengodadewethu ngaphandle, futhi ubuhlobo buba njengabaphikisana nabo. Ubuhlobo obunjalo buvukela ngesisekelo somncintiswano. Kulesi simo, umama uqala ukuzizwa ekhulile kakhulu. Uma unina engashadile, khona-ke ukuphikisana kungavela ohlangothini lwakhe: ukubona ukuthi abantu abasha banakekela kanjani indodakazi yakhe, uqala ukuba nomhawu futhi amqinisekise ukuthi usemusha futhi uyakhohlisa.
Ubuqili bobudlelwane bendodakazi nomdala omdala: omunye wezinhlangothi uzama ngamandla akhe onke ukuguqula abantu abangaphandle, besebenzisa noma yiziphi izindlela zalokhu. Umsunguli wobudlelwano angaba yindodakazi nomama.
Umama:
Ukuze uhlaziye kuqala kokuziphatha kwakho bese uzama ukuzibeka endaweni yendodakazi yakho. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi yimiphi imizwa ayenayo. Udinga ukusiza ingane yakho, futhi ungamcindezeli futhi ungahambi.
Zama ukuthanda umama wakho ngokuthi ungubani. Ungabelani nomama wabantu abasha, ngoba wonke umuntu unemipilo yakhe.
Indlela yokuphuma: hlalani phansi ndawonye, nixoxe ngezinkinga. Kodwa kuyadingeka ukukhetha umzuzu ofanele: noma yikuphi ingxoxo eqaliswe "ngaphansi kwesandla esishisayo" yandisa kakhulu ukuxabana.
I-Cold War option: i-egoist-henchman
Ngokuvamile, uma kungekho ubaba emndenini, ubuhlobo phakathi komama nendodakazi bwakhiwe hhayi kuphela ngenxa yokuncintisana, kodwa nobugovu ngendodakazi. Akavumeli umama wakhe ukuba abe nomuntu siqu, unomona wabantu, uvimbela umshado, ubonise konke ukuziphatha kwakhe ukuthi unina wakhe unomphela futhi unomnikazi wakhe kuphela futhi akekho omunye.
Okuyingqayizivele ebuhlotsheni: indodakazi ibangelwa isikhundla sokuthi umama kufanele azinikezele emntwaneni nasekusebenzeni, futhi ukuhamba kuyindodakazi yakhe, yindodakazi. Lokhu kwenzeka emndenini lapho indodakazi izwa ukuthi kuyo - incazelo yempilo kamama.
Umama:
Zichitha isikhathi esiningi kuwe. Nika ingane yakho inkululeko eyengeziwe, izokuzuzisa kokubili: indodakazi iyozimela ngokwengeziwe, futhi uzokwenza kube lula ukubona zonke izenzo zakhe.
Zama ukuzibeka endaweni kanina, nakuba kunzima kakhulu. Ukuhlala ubugovu, ngeke uphule impilo yakhe kuphela, kodwa uqobo lwakhe.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwakunjani, ubuhlobo bomama nendodakazi kumele bube nobungane, ngaphandle kwalokho impi emndenini ingenakugwemeka. Ngakho-ke, hlonipha abadala futhi uthande abancane, ujabule! Futhi konke kuzokhula emndenini wakho ngokuphelele.