Kungani owesifazane othile ebheka ubulili ngokuphelele konke okuzungezile, kanti omunye, futhi ohlakaniphile futhi omuhle, - cha? Kungani kunelungelo lokuthi abanye bahambise inkinobho ephezulu ekugqokeni, baqala kanjani ukulangazelela ihhovisi lesigamu, kanti enye enye neyesidonsa kunazo zonke ayinikezi lokhu? Akukhona ngokubukeka, kodwa ngabe uyazi ukuthi uyayisebenzisa kanjani.
Isibonelo, ingabe uyamomotheka ? Kuye kwaqashelwa isikhathi eside ukuthi ukumemeza okubanzi kuwo wonke umlomo wakhe akungabazeki ukuthi kuqobo kuye, kodwa nansi ukumamatheka kancane kancane ngobuqili ngamehlo kanye nasemaceleni ezindebe ezibukeka okuthakazelisayo kakhulu.
Ukumomotheka okuncane okuthembisayo kakhulu lapho izindebe zimomotheka, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo kubonakala sengathi zifakwe emathinini wokubanga. Uma ngesikhathi somomotheka onjalo uphakamisa isikhumba sakho kancane - umphumela uzolandela ngokushesha.
Futhi upende kanjani? Ikhanye? Ukushaya? Ungabi nentshiseko kakhulu: iqiniso lokuthi umbala wezempi wabesifazane ungukuzijabulisa kuyisimo esiyingozi kakhulu. Kungcono ukufuna izeluleko ezivela kubafundisikazi basempumalanga yothando - yilowo owazi kahle ukuthi kwenzekani. Ingxenye esempumalanga yamehlo ifana nabantu, ngezindlela eziningi ngoba ifana nekati. Amadoda ayithandi i-lipstick ekhanyayo: uma ubheka izindebe zakho ummangaleli wakho kufanele afune ukukuanga ... Ngendlela, ngokusho komcwaningi, amadoda ayeke ukumanga owesifazane ohahayo ngenxa yokuthi besaba ukungcoliswa yi-lipstick, cishe amacala angu-88%.
Futhi ubheka kanjani kuye ? Ekuqaleni, umbono wakho ungavuleka ukubonisa isithakazelo sakho esicacile ekubhekisweni kwezifiso zakho, bese udinga, njengokungathi ukhumbula, uphonsa amehlo akho. Ngendlela, ezimweni eziningi thina, besifazane, senza ngokuzenzakalelayo lokho, lokhu kulawulwa yi-subconscious yethu - senza konke okungahle sikwenze kahle kuze kube yilapho sithatha ukulawula.
Yeka ukuthi izingubo zakho ziyiqiniso kanjani? Uma kukhululekile, ngakho-ke kubi. Ubuhle obungakaze buveze umphakathi abukhendi ngempela. Ngisho inkinobho engafanelekile engabonakali ku-blouse izobangela umzila onamandla kakhulu wesifiso socansi kunamahlombe angenalutho, imilenze nezandla. Khumbula, yisiphi isikhalazo sezocansi esinesidingo? Kodwa babegcwele izingubo ezivela ekhanda kuya enzwaneni.
Futhi wenza kanjani ngakho? Uma ufuna ukwazi ukuthi yiluphi udaba oluphezulu lwezocansi kumuntu, khumbula isiqephu esivela ku-movie ethi "Ku-Jazz Only Girls", lapho i-heroine uMarilyn Monroe egijima esitimeleni. I-Easy gait ne-rocking encane yezinyosi (ukugwedla kancane, hhayi ukugoqa) kuyisimo esihle somfanekiso wesilisa wesimo sezinsikazi. Kungenxa yale njongo ukuthi lezi zibonelo zifundiswa ukuhamba ngendlela eqondile - ama-jiggings adingekayo afinyelelwa kuphela ngale ndlela. Okufanayo kuya ekuthunjweni - umuntu osongayo uba ngamasentimitha ayishumi ngezansi - kuphi lapho kulala ngokobulili? Phakamisa isikhumba sakho, ubheke phambili, uqondise amahlombe akho uphinde uqhubekele phambili esifubeni sakho, bese udonsela esiswini sakho, uphinde uthathe imbongolo - leyo yindleko yenkosi futhi idonsela amadoda.
Usho kanjani ? Kufanele uqaphele ukuthi izwi libhekwa njengengxenye ebaluleke kakhulu yesithombe sowesifazane, kufaka phakathi ubulili bakhe. Abacwaningi bezengqondo baseMelika baye bathola, isibonelo, ukuthi iningi lezocansi liyi-stroke ephansi - kodwa lokho akusho ukuthi wonke umuntu ngaphandle kokungadingeki udinga ukubamba umgogodla obandayo - gwema amanothi aphakeme, ukhulume kahle, ngokuthula nangokuthula kancane.
Futhi, ekugcineni, uyanuka kabi ? Akusho amafutha noma ama-dessodant - njengokungathi uhogela, anjalo yimpumelelo yakho ensimini yezocansi. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, kuzomele ukhumbule: iphunga lamafutha kuphela liyovusa isifiso somuntu, lapho engabonakali futhi ehlangene nokuphunga komuntu ngamunye. Owesifazane ophethe imimoya, njengokungena esitolo se-perfumery-ukuthulukisa, akukhona nje kuphela ongewona ocansi, kodwa futhi ocasulayo abanye.
Uyabona? Ukuba sexy kuyinto elula. Kuyadingeka kuphela ukufuna.