Impendulo yalo mbuzo iwukuthi ilungile ngangokunokwenzeka, izazi zengqondo zeluleka ukuthi ungayiphenduli kanyekanye, kodwa emva kokuzivocavoca okuncane. Cabanga ukuthi izwe elizungezile liye laphela futhi ukhona isikhala esithile somcabango, odwebe umbala owodwa kuphela. Ngumuphi umbala womlingiswa wakho - obomvu, ophuzi, njll. Ungabe ukhululekile kuleli zwe elisha? Manje funda impendulo!
Umbala wesimo sakho unombala obomvu. Akusiyo imfihlakalo ukuthi lokhu kungumbala wokwethaba, ukunqoba, umsebenzi nokuqina. Ngokuqinisekile ungumuntu omkhulu we-altruist: uyathanda ukuphila nabantu abakuzungezile. Kodwa into esemqoka yukuthi uhlobo luyathandeka, lukhutshwe, lukhanyayo futhi lunomusa. Uthanda ukuba endaweni yomsebenzi nasekuphileni kwakho komuntu siqu. Kodwa lapha kunezinombolo eziningana. Okokuqala, uzoba umholi wangempela kuleli cala kuphela, uma ufunda ukuba usesimweni sokuqeda amandla ukuze ungadluli emizwelweni yokushaya. Futhi okwesibili, ebuhlotsheni nabathandekayo, umsebenzi oweqile akuyona indlela engcono kakhulu yokuziphatha.
Ngakho-ke, empilweni yakho siqu, ungesabi ukuvumela izinto zihambe ngokwazo, ushiye ilungelo lokuzikhethela umlingani wakho.
Umbala wesimo sakho ungumbala ophuzi. Uma ukhetha ophuzi kuyo yonke imibala, uyintokazi encane yokudala (kodwa hhayi ngokweqile), ehlakaniphile futhi ezwelayo. Uyakwazi ukuqondisa amandla akho ngendlela efanele, ngakho-ke ebhizinisini lakho uyingcweti. Uphana kakhulu (kokubili ngokwezinto ezibonakalayo nangokomzwelo), ngakho-ke abantu bakhangwa kuwe, nawe, naye, ungathembela ekusizeni kwabo. Ungaziphakamisi futhi uthande imizwelo. Abamele ubulili obunamandla balabo besifazane abaphuthelwa, ngakho-ke unomlingani omuhle kakhulu futhi akakho okwehluleka kubalandeli.
Umbala womlingiswa wakho ubomvu, ophuzi, njll. ayifanele, khona-ke unalo oluhlaza oluhlaza. Umbala wemvelo, imvelo, ukuzola. Abathandi bombala oluhlaza - omnandi, olinganiselayo nokuzethemba. Mhlawumbe yingakho baphumelela emsebenzini nasemtholampilo ekuphileni kwabo. Uma ukhethe lo mbala, ke ngokuqinisekile ungumlaleli omuhle kakhulu. Ngokuqondene nawe, awukhulumi nanoma yini kubangane abathandekayo nabathandekayo, ukhetha futhi ujabule, futhi usizi ngokuziqhenya. Mhlawumbe kufanele siphumule imingcele ethile? Phela, bathi uma uhlanganyela injabulo nabathandekayo bakho, kabili. Futhi uma wabelana nenhlekelele nomngane - sekuyisiqingatha sezinkinga.
Umbala womlingiswa wakho uhlaza okwesibhakabhaka. Ingabe ukhethe okwesibhakabhaka? Lona umbala wabaculi ngomqondo obanzi lawa magama. Uhlala njengokungathi izinkulungwane zamehlo zikubuka ngaso sonke isikhathi, futhi uhlale ulindele ukuhalalisa. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, akukubi, ngoba usetshenziselwa ukwenza konke, noma ngabe yini eyathatha, ngokuphelele. Kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi, phumula futhi uphumule, udinga futhi ukukwazi. Qala ngokuqondile kusukela namhlanje, kulungile? Futhi abalandeli bluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka bayaphupha, bethandana futhi bathanda kakhulu ukuhamba. Ngokuvamile bathanda konke okusha: bathanda ukufunda, banezinto eziningi zokuzilibazisa, umbuthano omkhulu wokuxhumana. Ngothando, laba besifazane abasha banothando, bazinikele futhi bazidela, kunzima ukubekezelela ukuhlukaniswa nomuntu othandekayo wakho
Umbala wobuhle bakho unyaka obomvu. Amantombazane akhethe abomvu, ezolile, ahlanzekile, ahloniphekile futhi anembile, ajwayele ukuhlaziywa. Bahlale benenhlelo.
Omunye angase abize ngisho nangokuzibamba futhi azibikezele. Kodwa lokhu kuwukuqala kokuqala. "Brown" ukuhlolwa bangabangane abakhulu abangakwazi ukubeka ihlombe kunoma yisiphi isimo, kanye nabantu abomndeni kakhulu ababeka induduzo nokuphepha kwezihlobo zabo ngaphezu kwakho konke okunye.