Isihloko sobudlelwane obuseduze buqhaqhazela futhi bunzima. Kodwa-ke, ukuthuthumela okungaphansi kuyisihloko sokuzalwa kokuphila okusha owesifazane ogqoke ngaphansi kwenhliziyo yakhe. Amaviki ayishumi nambili okuqala wokukhulelwa owesifazane azinzima kakhulu, kokubili ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo. Futhi phakathi nalesi sikhathi, umbuzo wokuthi kungenzeka ubuhlobo bocansi buba ngowowesifazane ngempela.
Lo wesifazane wakhulelwa futhi kusho ukuthi umzimba wakhe uqala ukuvuselelwa ukuze kunakekele futhi ukondle ingane zingakapheli izinyanga eziyisishiyagalolunye. Ekuseni, futhi kwenzeka njalo usuku lonke, owesifazane angahlanza, ngokuvamile ukuphathwa ikhanda, ukulala nokukhathala kuhlale kuzwa. Noma kunjalo akekho owaziyo ngisho nesikhundla esithakazelisayo sowesifazane, ngoba kusobala ukuthi lona wesifazane uhlale efana, kepha ngaphakathi kwakhe kwakunezinguquko ezinkulu. Yonke imibono yowesifazane, cishe, inomqondo ojabulisayo ngomntanakhe ozayo, isimo sakhe esisha, amaphupho akhe okuphila okusha. Akungabazeki ukuthi lona wesifazane ukhathazekile ngokweqile futhi ukhathazekile, ngoba wesaba ukuzilimaza ingane yakhe. Ukuxwayisa okunjalo kusebenza nasebudlelwaneni bocansi. Owesifazane wenqaba ukulala ngokobulili noma uthola ezinye izici. Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi ubudlelwane bocansi buyenzeka kuphela uma bevunyelwa umjozi wezinkinga zomzimba.
Imithi yanamuhla ayikuvimbeli abesifazane ukuba bahlanganyele ocansini ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Njengoba iqiniso lokuthi ukukhulelwa akusona isizathu sokunqaba ubudlelwane obuseduze, izazi ze-psychologists ziyavumelana. Ngesikhathi ubudlelwano bocansi, amahomoni enjabulo aphonswa egazini labesifazane - i-endorphins, futhi lokhu kuyathinta kakhulu ingane. Okunye okubalulekile ukuthi ngesikhathi se-orgasm kwenzeka ukuqeqeshwa ngaphambi kokubeletha. Uma owesifazane esesaba, khona-ke angakwazi ukuqinisekiswa. Okokuqala, ezinkathini zokuqala zokukhulelwa, ingane isencane kakhulu, ngakho-ke ngandlela-thile ilimaza noma ihlukumeze ukuthi akunakwenzeka. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uhlobo lwemvelo luye lwacabangela konke ukuze ngisho nangaphambi kokubeletha ingane ivikelwe (umlomo wesibeletho uvinjelwe yi-stop stopper, futhi ngokuvamile ingane ibhajwe yi-placenta, isibeletho kanye ne-amniotic fluid) futhi ubuhlobo bobulili bungenzeka.
Kungenzeka ukuhlukanisa lezi zikhathi ezilandelayo zobulili ezinkathini zokuqala zokukhulelwa:
- Ukuba nobulili ukuqeqeshwa okuhle kwezibeletho zesisu, okuyiqiniso ukuthi kuzoba usizo ngesikhathi sokubeletha.
- I-Orgasm kule nkathi ifinyelela ngokushesha, ngoba ukunikezelwa kwegazi ezinxenyeni zomzimba kunamandla kakhulu.
- I-embryo idinga i-spermatozoa kuze kube yiviki leshumi nane, njengoba liyisakhiwo esiphakeme samaprotheni.
- Kule nkathi, akusekho isisu esikhulu esingabaphazamisa ubuhlobo bobulili, ngandlela-thile, kungase kusetshenziswe ngokuphelele.
- Njengoba ukukhulelwa sekufikile kakade, ukwesaba ukuthi owesifazane angakhulelwa akusiyo.
Noma kunjalo, kunezimo lapho ubulili kusadingeka khona ukuhlehliswa.
Ubulili buyaphikisana:
- esimweni lapho owesifazane ebenesisu;
- owesifazane unezingane ezingaphezu kweyodwa (kulokhu, ngaphansi kwezimo ezihle, udokotela angavumela ubulili);
- kukhona ingozi yokuqeda ukukhulelwa;
- owesifazane ugula ngezifo ze-venereal;
- owesifazane unomkhuhlane noma uphepha okungajwayelekile;
- isazi senze ukuthi ukuphazamiseka kwe-placenta kubonakala noma bephansi kakhulu.
Uma kwenzeka ukuthi udokotela angasincoma ukuthi enze uthando, khona-ke lona wesifazane akufanele akhathazeke, ngoba ukukhulelwa kuyisikhathi esijabulisayo lapho kubalulekile ukuba nesimo sengqondo esihle nemizwelo emihle, futhi ungabatholi kuphela kwezocansi. Ngisho nokulula okulula kungabangela injabulo engapheli.
Kufanelekile ukucabangela ukuthi akusifisi ukulala ocansini ezinsukwini zokuthi kufanele afike esikhathini. Futhi, ungakhohlwa ngamakhondomu, angavikela ingane kusuka kwizifo. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi kungcono ukuthi ungasebenzisi amakhemikhali, ngoba angabangela ukusabela kwe-allergen. Futhi ekugcineni, akunconywa ukuba uhlanganyele ocansini obudala, njengoba lokhu kungabangela usongo lokuphazamiseka.