Izimo ezihlukahlukene
Akuyona imfihlo ukuthi amadoda nabesifazane banezimo zengqondo ezihlukene ngokuqondene nobulili, izimo ezahlukene, izidingo ezahlukene. Abacansi bezocansi nabachwepheshe bezengqondo bathi emadodeni, njengabesifazane, ukuhlukumeza ngokocansi kungaba okuhlukile. Kunezinhlobo ezintathu zezimo eziphezulu: eziphezulu, eziphakathi nokulinganisa. Ukuvama kobulili okuvame kakhulu kuvamile kunamadoda kunabesifazane, lokhu kungenxa yokungafani ohlelweni lwe-hormonal. Kodwa isilinganiso nesilinganiso senzeke cishe cishe, kokubili amadoda nakwabesifazane.
Izici zesimo ngasinye sithola isidingo socansi. Isibonelo, okuphezulu, njalo indoda noma owesifazane udinga ukusondelana ngokocansi. Ukuhlukanisa umuntu onesizotha kungenziwa ngezibonakaliso eziningi. Omunye wabo - ukufutheka okuphilayo, ukukhululeka ekwenzeni abangane abasha, ukulungela izinzwa ezithinta inhliziyo. Kodwa lezi zindlela akuzona isiqinisekiso sokuthi ungumuntu onamakhono okulala ocansini.
Noma kunjalo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthola umlingani onokwanelisa izidingo zakho ngaphandle kokubangela ukungakhululeki kuye.
Izidingo ezahlukene
Njengomthetho, isidingo socansi ekuqaleni kobudlelwane bomuntu sikhulu. Uma umuntu esencane, uvame ukwedlula futhi obhekene nokukhangwa ngocansi. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, umxhwele womlingani ohlala njalo uma ungapholile, kuba ngokulinganisela. Indoda ingathanda futhi ifune owesifazane iminyaka eminingi, kodwa kubonakala sengathi iyancipha, inelisekile koxhumana nabo ocansini abangavamile, okungathinti ngaso sonke isikhathi izinga lezocansi.
Owesifazane, ngokuphambene nalokho, ngokuqala kobuhlobo kuphela uqala ukubonisa isithakazelo ekuphileni kocansi. Ngisho nabantu abanobuhlungu kakhulu bangasho ukuthi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ucansi emkhatsini womlingani uba mnandi kakhulu, futhi isidingo saso sivame kakhulu.
Ngalesi sizathu, ngaso sonke isikhathi kungcono kakhulu ukuthi abesifazane bafune indoda enobudlova obunamandla kakhulu kuneyakhe. Ngakho-ke, owesifazane onesimo sengqondo esivuthayo, indoda enesisindo nesiphakeme. Lokhu kuzobasiza ukuba balondoloze ukuzwana phakathi kocansi iminyaka eminingi.
Izimfihlo zobumnandi bobulili
Ukwehlukana ngokocansi, yebo, kubalulekile. Kodwa ukusebenza ekubudlelwaneni kubalulekile. Isibonelo, kubalulekile ukukhetha isigqi esihle sokuphila kocansi kuwe. Umbhangqwana ngamunye ungumuntu ngamunye, abanye badinga oxhumana nabo ocansini njalo, abanye banesonto elanele kanye noma kabili ngesonto noma ngisho nenyanga. Sula imithetho nemithetho ayikho futhi ayikwazi.
Kodwa kukhona izinto ezithinta ikhwalithi yokuphila ngokocansi, isibonelo, ukuphumula okude phakathi koxhumana nabo ngokocansi kuyaphikisana nakanjani wonke umuntu. Ukuphila ngokocansi okungavamile kunomthelela omubi ekusebenzeni kwamadoda nabesifazane. Okhulile lo mbhangqwana, kuphakamisa ingozi yokulahlekelwa ngokuphelele ithuba lokuhlanganyela ocansini olugcwele noma ukulijabulela uma uvumela ukuphumula okukhulu kwezobudlelwane bocansi.
Kufanelekile ukwazi ukuthi impilo yocansi yombhangqwana ayikwazi ukulingana ngaso sonke isikhathi sonke isikhathi. Ngezinye izikhathi inkanuko iyancipha, bese ishaywa ngamandla. Kunezizathu eziningi zalokhu - ukukhathala, ukucindezeleka, isimo sengqondo esibi, izinkinga, ukucindezeleka. Indoda akusho ukuthi ilahlekelwa yithakazelo kumlingani ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kodwa ayikwazi ukuyifisa njengalokho enza eminyakeni engu-10 noma engu-20 eyedlule. Abesifazane bavame ukukhula bebanda nabalingani babo lapho bethandana. Ukuvimbela lokhu, udinga ukunakekelwa okuningi komunye nomunye, ukuzimisela ukwenza ukuvuma nokuzimisela ukuxoxa ngezinkinga.
Isimo sengqondo sobulili somlingani kuyisibonelo ongayithola ukuthi sihambisana kanjani. Kodwa ungacabangi ukuthi ukuhlukana kwezidingo zobulili kuyisithiyo esingenakunqotshwa. Uthando luvame ukwenza izimangaliso. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuguquka kwesimo sengqondo kuhambisana nesikhathi - ngakho-ke, owesifazane angasukuma imvelo enomdlandla, futhi umuntu, ngokuphambene nalokho, angakwazi ukulinganisela umxhwele wakhe. Uma ubunzima bokuphila obuseduze kubonakala bukhulu kakhulu, khona-ke ochwepheshe bazoza ukusiza - urologists, gynecologists, psychologists kanye sexologists. Cishe wonke umbhangqwana unethuba lokuthola ubuhlobo bobulili obuphelele, uma uzama kancane.