Ngakho-ke, kulesi sihloko sizokunikeza amathiphu azokusiza ukuba ubelethe ingane ehlakaniphile ngempela! Futhi umbuzo othi "Yini okufanele uyenze ukuze wenze ingane izalwe ingqondo?" Izoshabalaliswa yodwa.
UMkhandlu kuqala.
Ososayensi bakholelwa ukuthi abazali abahlela ukuzala isazi sangempela kudingeka babale isikhathi sokukhulelwa ukuze kuzalwe ngoFebhuwari-Mashi, ngoba izifundo zenhlalo ziqinisekisa ukuthi iningi lalabo abahlakaniphile bazalwa kuphela ekupheleni kwasebusika nasekuseni kwentwasahlobo. Incazelo ichaza kakhulu: isikhathi kusukela ngoFebruwari kuya ku-Mashi, ilanga livame ukubhala umsebenzi okwandisiwe, futhi uma lihambisana nendawo ethile yemisebe yathinta ukusebenza komsebenzi wobuchopho.
Kukhona nezimo ezithile zokuhlala kwakho - okungcono, kufanele kube yi-60th latitude, noma ingcono - uma ngesikhathi esifanayo eduze nendawo yokuhlala kuyoba khona intaba-mlilo esebenzayo noma intaba.
Nansi iphuzu elinjalo, okuyiyona into ejabulisayo, kodwa ngokungahleliwe, njengoba kunzima kakhulu ukubikezela umsebenzi wemvelo ngesikhathi esisodwa.
Isici esibalulekile kule nkinga yisikhathi sabazali, ososayensi bakholelwa. Ngokuqinisekile, unina wengane-genius kufanele abe mncane kunomyeni wakhe. Ngakho-ke, kuphawulwe ukuthi ngokuvamile ingane izalwa ingqondo lapho unina esencane kakhulu - cishe eminyakeni engu-13-15 ubudala. Kodwa-ke, lokhu akusho ukuthi bonke abazali abaneminyaka engu-15 ubudala bayathwala isibeletho somntwana. Phela, iminyaka yobudala ibalulekile! Bala isilinganiso seminyaka enhle nje: hlukanisa iminyaka yobudala kababa, engeza eziyisikhombisa - bese uthola ubudala obufunwa ngumama. Kodwa-ke, lokhu kuvela ngani? Ukuze ingane izalwe ingcweti, umuntu kuzodingeka ashade hhayi ngothando, kodwa ukuze afane neminyaka evamile? Kuyinto kuwe ukukhetha ukuthi kuwufanele yini.
Iseluleko sesithathu.
Ungacabangi ukuthi ukuze ube nehlakaniphile, udinga ukuhlangana okujabulisayo kuphela - kubalulekile hhayi kuphela ukuqonda kwengane, kodwa umndeni wakho ovamile. Kubonakala ukuthi iningi lesisombululo se-arithmetic sezinga lokuhlakanipha lomndeni, liphakeme kakhulu amathuba okuthi i-crumb izalwa njengengqondo. Vele unqume izinga le-IQ yelungu ngalinye lomndeni, phinda futhi uhlukanise ngenani labantu. I-value ephakeme - enkulu amathuba okubeletha ukuhlakanipha. Kodwa kukhona njalo njalo: ikakhulukazi emndenini wezingane, izinga eliphansi le-IQ - ngokulandelana, futhi ubuhlakani buzoba nzima kaningi ukubeletha. Nakuba kuye kwaba khona amacala emlandweni, kodwa ngokuvamile abantu ababelethi bazalwa bangabantwana abangabodwa emndenini, noma "amahlumela" amancane kunazo zonke zezingane ezinkulu.
Le ndaba ithi inani eliyinkimbinkimbi yezinhlakanipho zazingamadoda, ngakho labo abalinde umfana banenhlanhla - banethuba eliphakeme kakhulu lokuthola ukuhlakanipha kwangempela. Amakhono akhe aboniswa ezempi, izibalo, izakhiwo kanye nemvelo. Kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi labo abalindele le ntombazane ngeke babe nethlanhla - emva kwakho konke, kunama-real nuggets kanye namakhono emkhatsini wabesifazane, ikakhulu uma kuziwa emkhakheni wezincwadi.
Umkhandlu ungowesihlanu.
Ukudla okunempilo kungenye yezinto ezidingekayo zokuhlela ingane-genius. Futhi, ngakho-ke kuyadingeka ukuba ungabonisi izinhlobo, futhi ngokuqondile ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa - isithelo kufanele siphathwe ngamavithamini adingekayo kuso. Akunakwenzeka ukuhlala ezidlweni. Umama, ophethwe ngaphansi kwenhliziyo yengqondo yesikhathi esizayo, kufanele adle imikhiqizo eningi ene-lecithin - lokhu kudala inkumbulo nobuchopho bomntwana, ukuze ingane ibe lula ukufunda esikoleni. Phakathi kwalezi mikhiqizo yi-isikhupha samaqanda, isibindi nenyama. Akufanele unakekele i-folic acid - umama wakho kufanele akusebenzise kusukela ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, hhayi nje ukudla into equkethe i-asidi, kodwa futhi uyiphuze amaphilisi.
Ngokungavumelekile, ukudla komama okhulelwe kufanele kufake ukudla okuqukethe insimbi ne-zinc ngokweqile, isibonelo, isibindi namaqanda, ukukhwabanisa kanye namantongomane, ushizi, ubisi nezinhlanzi. Odokotela ikakhulukazi bagxile ezinhlanzi, njengoba sekuye kwaphawula ukuthi lezo zinsana ezinomama ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa zithembele kwimikhiqizo yezinhlanzi, zikhule kakhulu futhi zithandeke. Phela, amafutha enhlanzi, aqukethe i-polyunsaturated omega-3 acids, ethinta ukuthuthukiswa okusheshayo nokusebenza kobuchopho, anomthelela omuhle ekukhunjweni kwengane nakwizinga lobuhlakani bakhe jikelele. Futhi nalabo omama abazisa leli phupho lokufundisa ama-genius, kudingeka udle ama-cranberries nesipinashi, ama-blueberries, iklabishi nesipinashi.
Ukubeletha kubalulekile ngokuthuthukiswa kwengqondo yengane, futhi uma isikhathi eside sithatha, kuphakama amathuba okuthi ingane izobonisa amakhono angavamile esikhathini esizayo.
Umkhandlu wesikhombisa.
Ngesikhathi umama ejabulela "isikhathi sakhe sokukhulelwa" sokuphila, akufanele akhohlwe ngobuciko. Kudingekile ukuzibandakanya ngento ehlakulela ifantasy: isibonelo, ukubopha noma ukugqoka. Ungakhohlwa ngomculo - lokhu kuthinta ukuthuthukiswa kwe-fetus. Into engcono kunazo zonke yilabo abavela ezincwadini zakudala: Chopin noMoart, Vivaldi noGlinka, Mussorgsky noRimsky-Korsakov. Ukuxhumana ngokomzwelo phakathi komama nengane yakhe kubalulekile. Ngisho noma kusekhona esiswini sakho - lokhu akusho ukuthi awukwazi ukucula i-lullaby noma utshele isigqi. Ngokuphambene nalokhu, lokhu kuyoba nethonya elihle kakhulu ekuthuthukiseni i-fetus. Mtshele konke okufunayo - kubaluleke kakhulu, kuphela ingane lapho uMama ehola oxhumana naye njalo, ongaphazanyiswa, angakhula abe ngumbono weqiniso.
Nazi izeluleko ezinjalo nezincomo esingasinika umuntu ofuna ukuzala futhi akhulise ingane, ingqondo. Yiqiniso, indawo ebaluleke kunazo zonke empilweni inikezwa icala, ngakho-ke ngisho nokulandela yonke le mithetho engaqinisekisiwe akunikezi isiqinisekiso sokuthi uzoba abazali balo mntwana. Futhi, ngakolunye uhlangothi, ngisho nokuhluleka ukulandela iseluleko akukwazi ukukuvimbela ukuba ubelethe inganekazi encane. Into eyinhloko isimo sengqondo esihle ngokuphumelela, futhi konke kuzohamba kahle! Yebo, uma ingasebenzi, khona-ke uzoba nakho konke ukuphila kwakho, ukuze ufundise ingane yakho ehlakaniphile, efundisiwe futhi ehlakaniphile - okubalulekile futhi.