Kuyini i-anorgasmia?
Eqinisweni, lokhu akusona isinqumo noma isici esibi. Owesifazane akasoze athola i-orgasm, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo ujabulele ubulili. Umehluko walo owesifazane onamandla okuzidlalisa, kuphela ukuthi akatholakali, ngaphandle kwalokho ngokuvamile akanayo umehluko. Abesifazane abangamaFrigid, isibonelo, abathinti ukukhangwa ngokocansi ngokuvamile, okungafani nale nkinga.
Izizathu zalokhu ukuphambuka kungaba eziningi. Ngezinye izikhathi inkinga isesimweni somqondo wesifazane. Isibonelo, ngesikhathi sokucindezeleka, abesifazane basencane amathuba okuzwa i-orgasm. Ngezinye izikhathi lokhu kungumphumela wezifo zesimiso sokuzala kanye nezitho zomzimba. I-Anorgasmia ingaba yesikhashana, kaningi iyaphulukiswa ngempumelelo, uma itholakele kahle futhi inquma ngokunembile imbangela yokuphazamiseka emzimbeni.
Kunobuso?
I-Anorgasmia ingaba yingozi empilweni. Yiqiniso, imiphumela yokuqala yalesi sifo, isifo esibudlelwaneni. Ngokuvamile abesifazane kufanele balingise ama-orgasms, futhi njalo kuba yingozi yokugwetshwa amanga noma ingozi yokuthola izinkimbinkimbi ezimbalwa ezingavumeli ukuba zisondele ekujabuliseni. Uma umuntu efunda iqiniso, akuwona wonke umuntu olungele ukuphatha isimo salowo mlingani ngokuqonda, ikakhulukazi uma kungekho ubuhlobo ebuhlotsheni babo. Kodwa, ngaphezu kwalokho, i-anorgasmia, ishiya ngaphandle kokwelapha, kuvame ukuthi kusho ukuthi kunezinkinga ngokuphuma kwegazi ezingxenyeni zomzimba. Ngokwalo, kungumphumela wale nkinga, ngenxa yokuthi kungase kubonakale izifo ezingathí sina kakhulu - i-myomas ehlukahlukene, ukukhathazeka, i-varicose veins, i-hemorrhoids. Ngokuvamile, ukwelashwa okuhlose ukubuyisela ukugeleza kwegazi, kuxazulula zonke izinkinga ngesikhathi esisodwa, futhi akudingekile ukudela impilo noma ubudlelwane.
Ungasusa kanjani?
Uma imbangela ye-anorgasmia engekho empilweni yangokwenyama, kungenzeka ukuthi icala lisesimweni sengqondo sowesifazane. Cishe, owesifazane akakwazi ukwethemba umlingani, phumula. Ngezinye izikhathi ukungakwazi ukuthola i-orgasm kuvela ngoba owesifazane akazi nje yena, akaqondi ukuthi umzimba wakhe ufuna.
Ekuxazululeni inkinga enjalo, umuntu angakwazi futhi kufanele asize. Into ebaluleke kunazo zonke ukudala umoya okhululekile wengqondo. Lokhu kuqondiswa isimo sengqondo esihle, uthando oluqotho nokukhathalela, ukuzimisela ukukhuluma ngezinkinga ezisondelene nokuzixazulula ndawonye. Kufanelekile ukuzama ukuhlunga okuphumuzayo, izindlela ezihlukahlukene zokuvuselela. Wonke owesifazane emzimbeni unemikhakha ekhethekile, okuyiyo, lapho ivuselelwe, ibangela ukusakazwa kwemfashini yokuvusa ucansi. Njengoba abesifazane abanenkinga yokufeza i-orgasm akuyona imfucuza, injabulo enjalo iyatholakala kalula. Umbuzo kuphela ukuletha lolu daba esiphethweni esinengqondo.
Kuyaziwa ukuthi i-orgasm ayifuni ngokuhleleka, kodwa ngokucophelela ukubuka ukuphendula komlingani komunye nomunye indlela yokuvuselela, ungaqonda ukuthi uyayithanda kakhulu. Uma isikhashana ukugqugquzela amaphuzu athile azungeze i-clitoris noma i-vagin, khona-ke i-orgasm izofika ngamathuba aphezulu.
Ngezinye izikhathi i-anorgazmiyu ithatha ukunganeliseki okujwayelekile ngokuphila kocansi. Isibonelo, owesifazane uthanda ucansi olusheshayo futhi oluthandekayo, akasithandi ama-preludes amade, kanti indoda ibheka umsebenzi wakhe wokwenza ihora lesigamu ngokucindezela njalo. Ebudlelwaneni obuseduze, kufanele kube njalo indawo yokuzikhethela kanye nengxoxo enengqondo, kusiza ukuxazulula izinkinga eziningi.
Ukuntuleka kwe-orgasm owesifazane kubhekwa njengesihlamba kumuntu. Abesifazane abaningi bakhetha ukulinganisa i-orgasm, kuphela ukuze bangamcasuli umlingani. Kodwa lokhu kuyabanciphisa ithuba lokufunda injabulo yangempela yezocansi. Uma ama-orgasms ehlala engatholakali, mhlawumbe, akufanelekile ukuhlala ekulindeni kwabo, ngoba ubulili buyinjabulo kusukela ekuqaleni kuze kube sekugcineni. Abaningi banqatshelwe ithuba lokuthola i-orgasm, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo bathola ukwaneliseka kwenkqubo ngokwayo. Into eyinhloko akukhona ukuzishaya ucansi futhi ungayeki lapho, ngoba ukuhlolwa kwesinye isikhathi kuholela emiphumeleni engalindelekile, enye yazo ingaba i-orgasm ende ende.