Kodwa, awukwazi ngisho nokucabanga - ukuthanda kancane - futhi ubuhlobo bakho buvutha imizwa emisha. Hlela umuntu othandekayo kusihlwa sothando.
Sizokutshela indlela yokuhlela ubusuku obungakhohlwa ukuthi uthandekayo wakho.
Okokuqala, udinga ukunquma ngesikhathi nendawo. Ngokuvamile, isikhathi kufanele sibe lula. Asicabangi ukuthi umthandi wakho uzojabula, avuke kusikhombisa ekuseni, emva kobusuku obungabaleki nawe, bese uya engxoxweni ebaluleke kakhulu. Ukukhipha lokhu, kungcono ukwenza izinhlelo ngempelasonto, ukuze nonke nithole ithuba lokulala.
Ukufudumala imizwa yomthandi wakho, shiya ephaketheni lakhe, njengesibonelo, inothi lapho kuyoshiwo ukuthi kusihlwa ulindele umhlangano nawe. Qinisekisa ukuthi ucacise indawo nesikhathi somhlangano wakho.
Kuyoba kuhle uma uqala kusihlwa ngothando endaweni ethile esitolo sokudlela noma ekuhambeni, futhi uqede konke lokhu isenzo - ekhaya.
Mema othandekayo wakho endaweni yokudlela oyikhonzile futhi uyikhokhele - uyojabula kakhulu. Noma, ungammema ekuhambeni okuthandana naye ehlathini noma ezindaweni ozithandayo edolobheni. Ngikholelwa, Amadoda afana nezinto ezinjalo ezincane ezimnandi. Ubuye ukhumbule indawo owakwanga kuqala noma indawo avuma kuyo ngothando.
Uma uhambo oluya endaweni yokudlela alufakiwe ezinhlelweni zakho, nesimo sezulu emgwaqweni awuvumeli ngisho nokunamathela ekhaleni, bese ulungisa isidlo ekhaya. Yenza imenyu yokudla okulula. Uma kungenjalo, lapho usuphelile, wena, njengama-cubs amabili, ulala nje. Kodwa, emva kwakho konke, unamapulani ahluke ngokuphelele kulobubusuku, akunjalo? Ukuze uhlele ubusuku obungathandabuzeki obungakulibaleki, kubalulekile ukukhipha isifiso sakhe, futhi ungapheli isikhathi esingalungile kakhulu. Iwayini, i-champagne, ukudla okulula. Ungakwazi ukupheka okunye ukwanelisayo, kepha shiya le dishi kamuva.
Isinyathelo esilandelayo ukumboza kahle ithebula. Ngokwemvelo, indwangu yendwangu kufanele ihlanzeke, izitsha zikhanyise kusuka ku-gloss. Beka amapulethi aphikisanayo ukuze ubheke emehlweni akho.
Esigatsheni sabathandekayo, ungabeka imvilophu lapho incwadi encane enesivumelwane sothando izongena khona.
Beka amakhandlela etafuleni noma izimbali. Amakhandlela azosiza ukudala umkhathi wothando. Qaphela umculo kusengaphambili. Ubusuku bakho kufanele buhambisane nemisindo emnandi. Ungavumeli i-TV, ngaphandle kwalokho ubungozi bokulahlekelwa ukunakwa komuntu oyithandayo.
Ukuze uhlangabezane nomuntu othandekayo kufanele uhlasele ngokugcwele - ama-blade esondliwe kanye namabhuluki omdala okuqeqesha. Ngendwangu yokugqoka ehlwaya, akufanele futhi ugqoke. Gqoka izingubo zokugqoka, okumele ube nesigqoko sokugqoka izingubo zakho zokugqoka namuhla
Hlanganisa othandekayo wakho ngokumomotheka ebusweni bakho nokubukeka okumangalisayo. Kiss, usize ukuphazamisa futhi, ukuthatha isandla sakhe, uhole etafuleni. Qinisekisa ukusho inkulumo okuzoqashelwa ngayo ukuthi yonke imizamo yanamuhla iyonke ngenxa yakhe.
Isidlo, amakhandlela, umculo omnandi - izikhathi zothando - zikwazi ukuvuselela noma yibuphi ubuhlobo. Ingxoxo yakho akufanele ihlukane nobabili: ungazami ukumbuza ngomsebenzi noma ukukhumbula izikhalazo zakudala. Khumbula isikhathi lapho uhlangana khona, khumbula ukumanga kwakho kokuqala noma ubusuku bakho bokuqala bokuthandana.
Ngokwemvelo, ukuhlela ubusuku obungathandabuzeki obungakulibaleki, kumelwe umnike ubusuku obungenakulibaleka nothando. Ungahlaseli othandekayo wakho ngesikhathi esisodwa, udlale naye, mnike uthando futhi uqobo lwakho. Lokhu kusihlwa kukubili, nithokozane.