Yeka ukwesaba! Angikwazi ukumjabulisa!
Lokhu ukwesaba okuwusizo: kusikhuthaza ukuba sihlakulele, sifunde izinto ezintsha ukuze sikhangele ukucabanga kukaMCH. Ukuphazamiseka ukungaqiniseki. Akekho umfana ongathanda ukukukholisa: "Hhayi, wena, konke kwakungcono kakhulu!" Ukuze ube nesifiso esihle, kufanele uthande ucansi kanye nawe. Ngakho-ke ungababuzi: "Uyayithanda yini?" Futhi ukuhleka, ukululaza ngokuthukuthela nokushaya isiponji: "Ngangikuthanda kanjani ..." - futhi nakanjani kuyoba ezulwini lesikhombisa.
U-ex-sexy wakhe u-Megan Fox ...
Qhathanisa kuyasiza. Futhi noma ngabe ukufaniswa akusikho kuwe, ungabesabi. Yini evimbela wena ukudonsa ezingeni elifunayo bese wenza umfana onjalo, lapho azohamba khona ngesonto ngokumomotheka?
Udinga ubulili kuphela!
Futhi wena, wesaba ukuthi unawe kuphela ekubizeni kwezinto eziphilayo, uhlele izikhundla zobulili, umsola, wenqaba ukuzama futhi uhlale ebuza ukuthi uyakuthanda yini? Emalini afanayo, ngisho nalabo abanayo, hhayi kuphela ngenxa yezintelezi zokubhinca, azofika ekushiseni okumhlophe. Zahlulele wena: ingabe uyesabeka kakhulu futhi uyisiphukuphuku kangangokuthi akakwazi ukuthola, uma ethanda, inhlobo yentombazane evumelekile? Isiphetho: uma enani, kuwe kukhona okujabulisayo ngesithunzi sakhe kuphela, kodwa ubuchopho nomphefumulo wakhe.
Ngokuqinisekile ngizoba umama eminyakeni engu-19!
Ukwesaba okuvikela kakhulu, okwesikhashana kusenza sigqoke ikhondomu nabafana ukuthi bathathe amaphilisi. Ngendlela, i-cyprianophobia - ukwesaba izifo ze-venereal - nayo iyadingeka kakhulu. Uma wesaba imiphumela yokulala ocansini kangangokuthi empeleni wenqaba ukubhekana nayo, noma lapho umfana ehlukumeza, unabantwana nemibhede yesibhedlela idansa phambi kwamehlo akho - lesi yisikhathi sokukhuluma nengqondo kwengqondo. Nguye kuphela ongakwazi ukubona izimbangela ze-phobia.
Ngesikhathi esizayo ngokuqinisekile ucela ucansi ngomlomo ...
Ingabe ukhathazekile ukuthi i-MCH izothandazela into ongakaze uyiphuphe ngephupho elimbi? Lokhu kusho ukuthi awumethembi futhi awulungele ukuvula umzimba wakho kuye. Cabanga: kungakhathaliseki ukungabi nakho okuhlangenwe nakho noma ukuthi ezinye izinkolelo zesilisa zinikeza ukukhathazeka kokuziphatha nokungokomzimba? Uma okokuqala, kungcono ukuthi uthi MCH ngokuqondile, ukuthi uyesaba kancane, kodwa usulungele ukuzama. Futhi uma okwesibini - khumbula: akudingeki wenze noma yini ongayithandi. Kodwa waphuma "izinto" zempahla ongayenza esikhundleni sezinto ezifana nalezi (ukusikhipha ucansi, i-striptease, amathoyizi avuselelayo) ukuthi umfana ngeke akhubeke.
Uzocabanga ukuthi ngingumphambukisi!
Uma ufuna ukuthi akubophe esihlahleni, mtshele ngokushesha. Kodwa hhayi ngezwi elithi "ubulili nawe bubuhlungu kakhulu, ake sizame kakade okuthile okusha"! Khuluma endlebeni yakhe ukuthi wayenephupho ngefantasy e-oh-so-kakhulu ethakazelisayo kakhulu. Khuluma yonke into ngokuzwakalayo - isibonelo, yenza ucansi efonini: ngendlela yokuhleka, izwi noma yikuphi ukuzethemba futhi ufunde ukuphendula kwe-MCH. Mbuze ukuthi yini amaphupho akhe: "Nginawe ngingathanda noma yini!" Buka ifilimu lapho ifantasy ibhalwe khona - hhayi ngempela porn: ungajabula futhi izigcawu zokuthunjwa kuma movie action. Faka umdlalo wokudlala indima. Ekugcineni, yenza konke wena-uzozibandakanya. Ngokuvamile, yenza ngokuzenzekelayo - ikakhulukazi uma usola ukuthi uMCH angaba neophobia: ukwesaba intsha. Ngendlela, wena ngokwakho awukwazi ukulungela entsha, yingakho wesaba ukubika ngesifiso sakho semfihlo - kodwa kuthiwani uma i-MCH ivuma?
Mhlawumbe, ngizobhekana ne-orgasm, kuphela lapho ngibelethe izingane eziyishumi, iminyaka eyikhulu ...
Uma ungenaso isiqiniseko sokuthi injabulo ebuthakathaka eyake yabhekana nayo - lena yi-orgasm, ungazitholi njengeqhwa lezocansi. Ukuqonda kangcono izizathu. Izinto ezinciphisa ukuzwela, isisindo: izicubu zesisu aziqeqeshiwe, ukhathele, umfana uphuthuma futhi awujabuli ngokushesha ngaphambi kokulala, ukuzivikela komzimba kuyabuthakathaka njalonjalo. Yiqiniso, akudingeki ukuthi uthi kule nsizwa: "Awuzange unginike injabulo!" - kungenjalo, kuyoba neurotic ngaphezulu emhlabeni. Fundisisa umzimba wakho, zama izindlela ezintsha zokwaneliseka, amanani ahlukene nezindawo zesenzo, uvumelane nokuya ocansini - futhi i-orgasm yokuqala izoba kuhle!
Konke, kuyiqiniso, kuyoba yisiphukuphuku futhi ihlekisayo
Imisindo, iphunga, isikhumba esinyene, ubuso obunamahloni, ucacisa kushidi kanye nezinye izinto ezijabulisayo ezingenakugwemeka. Ingabe abazali bakho bazama ukukufundisa kusuka ku-chistyulyu enyanyekayo? Futhi awucabangi ukuthi ungakhipha kanjani futhi ujabulele, kodwa mayelana nokuthi ungene kanjani eshaweni ngemuva kwalokho? Okokuqala zama ukuthulula nomfana osuka kwelinye tube, ukondla nge-spoon, uhlale ugeza ndawonye, njalo ugcine ucwecwe futhi uhlume ngamanzi, ubeke ngobumnene umculi othandekayo, ucabange umzimba wakhe - ufunde. Ziqonde ukuthi esikhunjeni naselulwini lwabantu abanempilo alukho amagciwane abulalayo futhi akukho lutho olwesabekayo
Kodwa lokhu kuyesabeka ngempela:
- Ukwesaba abesifazane - ukwesaba abesifazane
- Ukwesaba abantu ukwesaba abantu
- Ifilimu phobia - ukwesaba ukumanga
- Ntifallofobiya - ukwesaba isithunzi sesilisa esabuyiselwayo
- I-Merevomixofobnya - ukwesaba ukudalula izitho zangasese nokuthinta umzimba womlingani
- I-Disabillophobia - ukwesaba ukuphazamiseka (lapha ukuhlukunyezwa kwesimo sengqondo - ukwesaba ukukhubazeka okungabonakali okubonakalayo) Ukubulawa komuntu - ukwesaba imiphumela embi yalokho okufanayo (kodwa, njengoba besho, amehlo ayesaba, nezandla zenzeni) ngeke kwenzeke kuwe. Bese ucabanga ngomuntu onguhlobo lokuhlanzeka kuwe - enye inkanyezi ekahle - bese uzama imininingwane yakhe engokwenyama elulazayo. Konke kufinyelela ezimweni ezibucayi embhedeni - futhi usahlanza emithonjeni ye-serotonin.
Futhi yini abafana abayesabayo
Bayakhula emcabangweni wokuthi:
• ngeke ukwazi ukukujabulisa
• ujabule endaweni engalungile kakhulu
• noma awakhuliswa kahle kakhulu (i-medomalakufobiya - ukwesaba ukulahlekelwa ukulungiswa - ngokuvamile kuvamile)
• ungumfana (njengoba kwenzeka, amadoda angaphezu kwama-70% asaba ukuthi abe ngabokuqala, izazi ze-psychologists zaze zadingeka ukuba zithole igama elithi parthenophobia - ukwesaba amantombazane angenacala)
Ngendlela, i-parthenophobes iphindwe kathathu ngaphezu kwe-primizodofobov - amantombazane abesaba ukwesaba ukulahlekelwa ubuntombi bawo. Mhlawumbe amadoda amaningi anesifo sengqondo esingapheli - ukwesaba umthwalo wemfanelo)
• uzothola isipiliyoni (angeke ujabule!)
• I-ex-sexier yakho ngaphambili kuneZac Efron (futhi, nakanjani uzophinde uwaqhathanise)
• Ucela ukuthi ahlale ekhanda lakhe futhi enkambeni yokuhlola uzothola ukuthi akayena umqedeli wezocansi nhlobo
• uhlolo luzobonisa imivimbo emibili, imivimbo emibili!
• wena, ubheka isithunzi sakhe, uzocabanga: "Imali-futhi-futhi, yilokho!"
Njengoba ubona, ngaphansi kwengubo yabafana namantombazane, cishe ukwesaba okufanayo kulindeleke. Ngakho-ke, kumnandi ukuzibandakanya empini futhi kuyasiza kakhulu kunomsebenzi weqembu. Futhi umuthi omuhle kunoma yikuphi ukwesaba ubulili ngokwayo ...