Izinto ziqoqwe, imiyalelo yokugcina iyabonakala, futhi injabulo ayiniki ukuphumula. Ingane iya ekamu okokuqala. Enye. Indlela yokwenza lolu hambo angabangeli ingane yakho ukuba nemizwelo emibi nezinyembezi? Phela, uhambo lokuqala ekamu labantwana liyisikole sokuphila kwangempela ...
Sekudlule izinsuku ezimbalwa ekamu, futhi umntwana uyakhala: "Mama, ngifuna ukuya ekhaya!" Inhliziyo yomzali womuntu mhlawumbe iyozamazama futhi igxile ekukholiseni okubuhlungu kwesifo esincane. Noma kunjalo, izazi zengqondo azicebisi ngokushesha ukuqoqa i-suitcase. Cishe, ukusabela okunjalo kuyinto yesikhashana ehambisana nokujwayela. Ngokushesha uzothola ukuzola, ujwayele izimo ezintsha futhi, kungabandakanyi, ekupheleni kweshintsho ngeke ufune ukushiya ekhaya.
Ngezimiso.
Ingane yakho yayingesabi ukuphuma ekhaya okokuqala, imfundise ukuhlanza umbhede wedwa, ubuke ukuhlanzeka kwezambatho, ukuhlanza izinto zakhe, ukugcina imithetho yokuhlanzeka. Akusikho indawo yokufunda kusengaphambili mayelana nokuhleleka nemithetho yokuphila ekamu bese utshela ingane ngabo ngokuningiliziwe ukuze akwazi ukucabanga ukuthi uya kuphi. Ungacwayisa ngobuqotho ukuthi ezinsukwini zakuqala ngeke kube lula kuye futhi ukuthi ngokushesha uma ejwayele ontanga yakhe, kungcono. Qinisekisa inzalo ukuthi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ngeke ishiywe, ukuvikelwa nokusekelwa yibafundisi nabeluleki abangasetshenziswa kuyo yonke imibuzo.
Ngokuphelele yedwa?
Qinisekisa ukuxazulula inkinga yokuxhumana. Uma ngesizathu esithile ukwesaba ukunikeza ingane yakho umakhalekhukhwini, khipha ikhadi lefoni noma imali ukuyithenga ukuze akwazi ukubiza ikhaya nganoma yisiphi isikhathi. Mcele angakukhathazi ngezizathu ezincane. Ingane, ephindaphinda izikhathi eziningana ngalolo suku akwenzayo, odlala naye, lapho edla, ingabizwa ngokuthi "indodana ka-mama."
Kodwa nokho kunezimo lapho umuntu omncane enqatshelwe ngokungenangqondo yiqembu. Njengomthetho, lokhu kwenzeka ezimweni ezilandelayo:
■ Ingane ayiqondi ukuhlanganiswa kwezindima zomphakathi eqenjini, ayiboni isizathu sokulandela imiyalo "yomholi", akwazi ukuthi uyisongela yini. Futhi uma ukuhleka noma ukuhlukunyezwa kumfikela, akawutholi ukuxhumana phakathi kwezenzo zakhe kanye nokusabela kwezingane eziseduze naye;
■ unamahloni futhi unamahloni. Uma ingane yakho kunzima ukujoyina iqembu elisha, thumela ekamu kanye nomngani. Lokhu kuzosheshisa inqubo yokuzivumelanisa;
■ ukungathandeki kwangaphandle: ngokuzithoba, okugqoke kahle, sekubeletha noma kutholakale
iziphambeko - izindawo zokubeletha ezinkulu, izilonda, i-strabismus, ubuso obusakaziwe noma izandla, i-limp, njll.
Angikwesabi!
Ukuguquguquka kuyinkqubo yemvelo yokuhamba kokuqala ekamu labantwana, kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi akufanele unake izicelo ezibuhlungu zokuthatha ekhaya. Qiniseka ukuthi ubuza ingane ngalokho ongakuthandi, sikisela isixazululo ezinkingeni, ukululeka ukuthi uxhumane nomholi. Futhi usho ukuthi uphinde ulahleke, kodwa ukholelwa ukuthi lo "osemusha" ozokuthola ngokushesha uzothola abangane. Ungathembisi ukuthatha indodana yakho noma indodakazi yakho ekamu uma ungakakulungeli ukwenza kanjalo.
Kodwa uma ingane iba yinto yokuhleka usulu nokushaya, kufanele ihanjiswe ekhaya - ukuze ingabi nendawo ephansi futhi ukwesaba ikamu. Uma kunokwenzeka, thintana nodokotela wezengqondo - uzokusiza ukuthola ubuthakathaka ekukhuliseni. Ukuqeda - bese ihlobo elilandelayo ekamu lazo zombili lizoba mnandi kakhulu.
Yiba nokuthula uma ...
• Indodana noma indodakazi isondelene, thola ngokushesha ulimi oluvamile neontanga, zivumelane nenkampani.
KUBALULEKILE! Qaphela ingane: akunakwenzeka ukuthi uthole abangane nawo wonke umuntu. Abangane ababili abanele, futhi ngeke babe yedwa;
• ozimele, okwazi ukugeza ngokushesha nokugqoka, gcina izinto zakho ngokuhlelekile, uhlanze izitsha.
KUBALULEKILE! Cabanga ndawonye ikhabethe lezingane: izinto akufanele zinyunywe futhi zingcolile;
• Oqondisiwe, okwazi ukulandela isimiso esicacile, masinyane enze imisebenzi eyabelwe.
KUBALULEKILE! Ekhaya, ukujwayela isimiso, dlala "ekamu."