Ngamunye wethu ufuna ukwazi ukuthi kuzokwenzekani esikhathini esizayo, yini engenzeka kuye nokuthi yini okufanele ukwesabe. Kodwa, ngeshwa, asikwazi ukubuka ikusasa lethu. Nakuba bekulokhu kube khona indlela ababelethi bethu abahle kakhulu abasebenzisa ukubhekana ngayo. Yiqiniso, lokhu kuyiqiniso. Futhi uma ngaphambili ungatshela imali emabalazweni, manje manje kunezinhlobo eziningi ezihlukahlukene zokuhlomula. Isibonelo, sonke sinokubhula okubonakalayo ngefoni.
Kuyini ukubhula okungokoqobo ngefoni? Eqinisweni, le ndlela yokubhula iye yaba yinto ethandwa kakhulu ezweni lanamuhla. Emva kwakho konke, ukuze utshele inzuzo, awudingi ngisho nokusabalalisa amakhadi. Ngokuvamile nje ukuthumela igama elithile ukuthola ukuthi yini okulindele esikhathini esizayo.
Ukuhlukaniswa Ngothando
Abalandeli abanenhlanhla bahlukile kakhulu. Ngokuvamile kaningi, amantombazane akhetha inhlanhla yothando. Ukuze uthole ukuthi umfana ufanelekile yini, udinga nje ukuthumela igama lakhe phezu kwefoni. Ngomzuzu, uzokwazi ukwazi ukuthi uhambisana kanjani nale nsizwa nokuthi kufanele uqale ubuhlobo naye.
Ukukhuluma ngenhlanhla nsuku zonke
Yiqiniso, ungakwazi ukuqagela efonini hhayi kuphela othandweni. Futhi, empilweni yansuku zonke, okuthiwa "inhlanhla yansuku zonke" ingaba usizo kakhulu. Lezi zivumo kuzokusiza ukuba uphile ngosuku olufanele, ungagxila ekuhlulekeni futhi ukwenze ngokushesha izinqumo ezifanele. Ukubhula okunjalo kungaba okungafani kakhulu. Isibonelo, ungenza ikhadi elithile, uthumele igama lakho, uphawu lwe-zodiac, ukuqagela inombolo nokunye. Ngokuvamile, inhlanhla eqondile isho izinketho eziningi ezahlukene. Kumele ukhethe lowo othanda kakhulu futhi ugcizelele imizwa yakho.
Isimo sengqondo esifanele
Abaningi babhekisela kulezi zinhlanhla ngokungenangqondo, yingakho abaningi bengathandi imiphumela yokubhula okunjalo. Eqinisweni, kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi empeleni, ukubhula okungokoqobo akufani nganoma iyiphi indlela kusuka kwangempela. Ngakho-ke, ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukubhula, gxila embuzweni wakho ngangokunokwenzeka. Endabeni uma ucabanga ngomuntu othile - zicabange ngokwakho, khumbula inkulumo yakhe, imikhuba, iphunga. Kuphela kulesi simo, umlayezo wakho wamandla uzothunyelwa kanye negama ocabanga ngalo, bese ukukhulunywa ngenhlanhla kuzogcwaliseka ngempela. Uma uqagela kuleso simo, ke ucabange ngawo wonke ama-nuances, kodwa ungaqali ukusibonisa isixazululo. Kulula kulokhu kungase kuvele ukuthi wena ngokwakho uzovela nempendulo, ufake amandla kuwo futhi umphumela wokubhula uvumelane nje nayo. Yiqiniso, lokhu kuzokujabulisa, kodwa udinga impendulo eqinisile, hhayi ukwanelisa izifiso zakho noma ukuzethemba. Emva kokugxila embuzweni wakho, inkinga noma umuntu - thumela uphawu oludingekayo ukuqagela futhi ulindele impendulo.
Ukuqagela efonini kulula futhi kulula. Ungahlala uthola impendulo cishe noma yimiphi imibuzo yakho, emsebenzini, ekhaya noma emgwaqweni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, akudingeki uthintane nabaqashi futhi uchithe isikhathi sakho ukuya emihlanganweni. Ukubhula okunjalo kuklanyelwe ukwenza impilo yakho ikhululeke ngangokunokwenzeka. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abaningi baqinisekisa iqiniso lokuthi inhlanhla efonini iqinisile futhi ingaphendula cishe yonke imibuzo yakho.
Okuwukuphela kokunciphisa inhlanhla enjalo - cishe ngaso sonke isikhathi abakhululekile. Kodwa, njengoba wazi, ngejubane lokwenza imisebenzi ethile, kufanele ukhokhe njalo. Ngakho-ke, uma ufuna ukwazi ikusasa lakho, njengoba leli zwi lihamba "ngaphandle kokushiya ehhovisi letikiti," ke, qiniseka ukuthi usebenzise inhlanhla eqondile ngefoni. Ngomzuzu uzothola impendulo futhi uzoqonda ukuthi ungenzani kahle kuleso simo.