"Ngesinye isikhathi e-Epiphany amantombazane asebusuku beqagela" ... O, bathanda abesifazane abancane ukuba babheke esikhathini esizayo futhi bafunde isiphetho sabo. Ngokuqinisekile wena ngokwakho lapho ukhuphukela egodini, wavula ikhandlela futhi wazama ukubiza imimoya noma ukuthola umngane wakho womshado. Kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo, amantombazane ayethanda ukuqagela ngoKhisimusi, ngoba yisikhathi semangaliso nemilingo. Ngo-Eva kaKhisimusi zonke izinqatshelwe zamandla angaphezu kwemvelo ziphakanyisiwe. Yebo, umbuzo odume kakhulu wabesifazane abahle uhlala umbuzo womkhwenyana. Ungayitshela kanjani inhlanhla igama lomfana, umhlangano wakhe wangaphambili noma othakazelisayo? Kulesi sihloko sizokutshela ngezindlela ezahlukene zokuqagela.
Ukuqagela kumfana ngobusuku bukaKhisimusi
Ake siqale ngokubhula okulula. Ngaphambi kokulala, gqoka i-nightstand umshini wokuphuza amanzi ngamanzi okuphuza kanye negag. Okulandelayo, tshela lawa magama alandelayo: "I-betrothed-mummer, uzokhathala emgwaqweni, nginamanzi, ngize, ngizokwenza ngiphuze." Ephusheni, kufanele ubone umlingani wakho wesikhathi esizayo.
Yebo, ungakwazi ukuqagela ngesibuko. Gudla amagatsha ama-fir bese uthatha isibuko esincane. Beka ngaphansi kombhede bese usakaza amahlumela nxazonke. Esibukweni kufanele ubhale igama lomfana obona endimeni yomyeni. Ekuseni, bheka ukucabangela. Uma ukubhaliswa kwakho kudlulela - maduze umshado. Uma igama lingasusi, akusilo ikusasa lakho.
Ngolwazi olulandelayo olutshelayo, udinga amanzi. Thatha i-saucer noma ipuleti, uthele amanzi kuwo bese uyiphumele emkhathini. Ekuseni, bheka emanzini abandisiwe. Uma i-vodichka ivutha ngama-tubercles - umyeni uyoba ocebile, futhi uma ubuso bubushelelezi - buhle.
Ukuze uthole inhlanhla, ungasebenzisa futhi incwadi. Vele ukhethe incwadi yezinto ezingokomoya noma zenkolo. Ungathatha iBhayibheli. Buza umbuzo ofuna ukuthola impendulo. Okulandelayo, hlala kancane futhi wenze isifiso kunoma yiliphi ikhasi nelayini. Isibonelo, ikhasi 42, umugqa wesihlanu kusuka phezulu. Vula ikhasi bese ufunda umugqa.
Ukuqagela umfana ngosizo lwamakhadi
Uzodinga ipaki lamakhadi angu-36. Khetha ama-jack amane bese uwabeka ohlangothini nehembe elibhekene phezulu. Thatha ucezu lwephepha, udwebe kuzo zonke izikhwama ezine ezigqoka futhi ngaphansi komunye wabo bhala igama elilodwa lesoka labo, ongathanda ukushada ngalo. Ungabhala ngaphansi komunye wembala "Stranger". Ngakho, ukukhetha kuzoba namadoda amane. Okulandelayo, hlela wonke amakhadi asele ngaphansi kwe-jack ngayinye. Bayofanekisela ikusasa lakho nomkhwenyana. Izinambuzane zisho ukuthandana, ukuphakama - izingxabano, iziphambano - imali, namathangamu - zingaki izingane ezizoshada. Manje into ethakazelisayo kakhulu: kufanele ususe i-jack eyodwa, impilo ongayithandi. Lolu khetho olubi kakhulu kufanele lususwe namakhadi. Okulandelayo, kunezikhala ezintathu ezisele. Futhi ubeke amakhadi asele bese ususa ukulungiswa okubi kakhulu futhi. Yenza lokhu uze ushiye i-jack eyodwa. Ungayishintsha futhi ubone ukuthi ubani ozoshada naye.
Qagela igama lomfana
Uma ufuna ukwazi igama lomlingani ozayo, phuma phakathi kwamabili ukuya emgwaqeni bese uma phakathi komgwaqo. Uma umdluli wokuqala ukhona, buza ukuthi igama lakhe lingubani. Ngakho-ke, bazobiza ngokuthi u-betrothed wakho.
Kunezinye izindlela. Bhala emaphepheni wephepha igama elilodwa lamadoda. Shiya ishidi elilodwa lingenalutho. Okulandelayo, phinda amaqabunga abe yisigqoko noma ibhokisi bese uxuba. Phonsa ishidi elilodwa lesandla sakho sobunxele ngokungahleliwe. Ngaleli gama bazobiza umyeni ozayo. Uma uphume ngaphandle, akekho igama elifanelekile.
