Ukuze uqonde ukuthi iyiphi indiza ephuphayo, kuyadingeka ucabange ngokusekelwe emibonweni evamile yabantu mayelana nezindiza, izinkanyezi nezindiza, ikakhulukazi. Liwuphawu lokukhuphuka ngokomoya nangokwenyama. Isibhakabhaka liwuphawu. Kungasho umgomo, umzamo, umphumela wokuphela.
Kwabesifazane, uma ubona indiza esibhakabhakeni ephusheni - cishe njalo kusho impumelelo empilweni yakho siqu. Kukhona okuhlukile, ngoba izimo kanye nemininingwane yamaphupho kungahluka. Ukuqhubeka kulokhu, ukuhumusha nakho kuyashintsha.
Mayelana nokuthi kusho ukuthini ukundiza indiza ephusheni, funda lapha .
Ake sibheke ukuthi yiziphi izindiza eziqondene nabesifazane.
- uma ubona indiza emi endaweni yokupaka, e-hangar noma emgwaqweni, ngokushesha uzothola ithuba noma isidingo sokuphumula emsebenzini wakho wansuku zonke. Ngokuvamile iziphupho ezinjalo zivakashelwe abantu abakhathele impilo yansuku zonke, abaye bephupha isikhathi eside sokuthatha iholidi, kodwa konke kuhluleka;
- lapho indiza ehamba phezu kwakho iphupha, lokhu kungase kusho isengozini esiseduze ukuthi uzohlangana ngokungazelelwe. Ingozi enjalo, ngokuvamile, ingavela kubantu abangajwayelekile, noma abangajwayelekile. Gwema ngeke kusebenze, ngakho kufanele ulungele. Uma lophupha engumfana osemusha olungiselela umshado, khona-ke kungenzeka kube nenkinga ekulungiseleleni umcimbi womshado, noma kuyoba nengxabano nomlingani ozayo;
- esimweni lapho uphupha mayelana nokushayela endizeni, lokhu kuchazwa njengesibonakaliso esihle, okukhombisa impumelelo emsebenzini wakho. Kubantu bebhizinisi, isibonakaliso esinjalo simnandi ikakhulukazi, njengoba sisho izingxoxo eziphumelelayo, siphethe amadili. Kuzo izinceku zikahulumeni, lokhu kunyuke izinga lezemisebenzi, kanti kwabanye abantu ingxabano enzima ukuthi esikhathini esizayo umsebenzi uzokwenyuka;
- Uma wenza indiza ende ngezindiza, esikhathini esizayo kuyoba umatasa kakhulu futhi umsebenzi omude, imiphumela azokwaneliseka ngayo. Akukhona ngempela ukuthi umsebenzi uzohlobana nomsebenzi wakho. Kungaba ukukhulumisana kwesigamu esingaphambene, isibonelo;
- uma ubona ephusheni ukuthi indiza iwa kanjani, khona-ke ulungele ukunye ukuncipha kwimali engenayo, imiphumela, impumelelo. Uma umphuphi egibela indiza ngesikhathi sokushayeka, kusho into efanayo, kodwa ngezwi elimnyama kakhulu. Nakuba ezimweni eziningi lesi simo sibi, abanye abahumushi abahumusha basichaza isibonakaliso esinjalo futhi njengesikhathi esihle. Kukholelwa ukuthi ngesikhathi esifushane umuntu ovela ocansini ohlukile uyavuma kuwe ngemizwa yabo.
- uma ugibele ibhanoyi eliphahlazekile - lindele inkinga esikhathini esizayo esiseduze. Bangakuthola kunoma iyiphi indawo yokuphila. Into enhle ukuthi izinkinga ezinjalo ngeke zihlale isikhathi eside futhi maduzane zikhohliwe;
- uma usesigodini sezindiza - esikhathini esizayo esiseduze uzobe uhambisane nempumelelo ezindabeni zothando;
- ngesikhathi sezindiza, bheka ku-porthole - ngaleyo ndlela uyaziswa ukuthi awunandaba nabantu abaseduze nawe nalabo abaseduze nawe. Kuyafaneleka ukucabanga futhi ukuthatha ukunakekelwa nokufudumala okungaphezulu.
Njengoba ubona, ngokuyiningi kakhulu, lezi zibonakaliso ezinhle. Ngakho-ke, ngesikhathi esilandelayo lapho uphupha indiza, akufanele ubuke leli qhinga. Yiba nendiza enhle!