Babangani na?
Uma uphupha ukuthi wangeze izindebe zomuntu ongumphathi wakho noma umholi wakho, kufanele ulindele inkinga emsebenzini. Zingaba zimbi kakhulu kangangokuthi zize ziholele ekudumeni noma kumholo.
Kodwa inkulumo efanayo yothando lapho wena nomlingani wakho ohilelekile kunencazelo ephikisana ngokuphelele futhi ebaluleke kakhulu. Ukuthandana ngothando nomyeni wakhe noma uthi ekuhlotsheni komndeni lo mbhangqwana kuyofika ukuvumelana okungakaze kube khona kanye nokuqonda okufanayo.
Bambalala ebuthongweni sesihlobo sakhe, futhi akukhathaleki: umfana noma intombazane, uthembisa ukuhlukana okudala kulo muntu, okuzokwenza ube nesimo sokulahlekelwa isikhathi eside. Kungenzeka ukuthi ukwehlukana ngeke kuxhunywe nokuhamba, kodwa ngokuxabana noma ukungqubuzana okukhulu, ngakho-ke zama ukugwema ama-angles abukhali ekukhulumisaneni nomuntu obonile ephusheni.
Ukumanga emlonyeni nomuntu ongaziwa kuyisibonakaliso somphuphi ukuthi empilweni yakhe kufika isikhathi esihle lapho inhlekelele nenhlanhla kuyofaka isandla cishe kuwo wonke umsebenzi.
Okunye ukuhumusha
Izincwadi ezahlukene zokuphupha zihluke ngokuphelele ngokuhlola imibono enjalo. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuhlala kuzo ngokuningiliziwe ukuze uhlanganise zonke izincazelo zamaphupho futhi uhlaziye kahle lokho abakubonile.
- UWanderer Wanderer uthi ukumanga okujulile kwe "French" kuyathembisa umphuphi ukugula kwasekuqaleni, okuyinto, ngenhlanhla, ngeke ihlale. Kodwa ukuvutha okuthakazelisayo nomfana wakho othandekayo noma intombazane ukhuluma ngokuhlukana okusheshayo nokude kwabathandi mayelana nokuhamba komunye wabalingani.
- Ngokusho kwencwadi yephupho likaMiller, ukubanga nentombazane engazijwayele kusho ukuthi esikhathini esizayo esiseduze umuntu uzokwenza isenzo esingahlonishwayo noma sokuziphatha okubi esiyobathinta idumela lakhe kwabanye. Ukubamba nesitha - ekuphetheni kokuqala kokuthula nomngane owake waxabana naye isikhathi esithile. Kodwa ukubona ukuthi intombazane yangaphambili isanga kanjani ezindebeni zomngane wakho womshado ithembisa ukulahlekelwa inhlonipho ngaye, ngakho-ke lo mphupho udinga ukulandela ngokucophelela izenzo kanye namazwi akhulunywe.
- Encwadini ye-dream of psychoanalytic, ukumanga ezindebeni ngentombazane kusho ukunganeliseki kwakhe nomyeni wakhe noma isoka lakhe. Kumuntu, ukulala kunenani elifanayo. Angenayo injabulo yobulili, futhi kakade esikhathini esizayo esiseduze ulindele ukudumala ekukhohlisweni kobulili obuhlukile.
- Encwadini yephupho uFelomeny uthe ukuvuna izindebe nendoda kuthi umphuphi uzoshintsha ngokushesha izimo zokuphila. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izinguquko ziyoba kakhulu kangangokuthi abantu bazohlala isikhathi eside kunalokho bebuhlungu ukuze bazijwayele.
- Iphupho elincane elihle ngokuphathelene nomuntu oshonile, owafika futhi wakuanga ezindebeni, uthembisa umuntu owabona impumelelo enjalo emsebenzini wakhe nabangane abaningi abasha abawusizo.
Sithemba ukuthi incwadi yethu yokuphupha izokusiza ukuba uhlaziye kahle lokho owabonayo ngesikhathi sokuphumula ebusuku bese uthatha izinyathelo kusengaphambili ukuvimbela ukuthuthukiswa okungalungile kwezehlakalo ezizayo.