Mhlawumbe, ngeshwa kwenzeka ukuthi intombazane, kubonakala sengathi inomshado ojabulisayo kangaka, kodwa ngokuzumayo uzinika ikhefu. Kubonakala sengathi yinto yonke: kokubili umshado ngemoto, nomgqoko wobuhle obungenangqondo, futhi umakoti uhle ngokungavamile, kodwa ... emva kwalokho, emva kwesikhathi esithile samafu (noma kungenjalo i-cloudless - kunoma ubani ukuthi kunenhlanhla) ukuphila, umfazi ufunda ukuthi umyeni wakhe ushintshile . Kungenzeka, njengokungathi ku-anecdote engalungile, lapho umfazi ebuya emsebenzini (uhambo lwebhizinisi, isitolo, ukuphumula, njll) ngaphambili futhi uthola embhedeni wakhe, omunye umuntu ongaziwa, futhi, mhlawumbe, ukuhlukumezeka kuyaphuma ekuphileni kwansuku zonke. Imizwa owesifazane okhohlisayo kunzima ukuyichaza. Kuyinto ingxube yentukuthelo, intukuthelo, intukuthelo, umhawu, ukoma kwempindiselo ... Nansi i-cocktail enyantisayo. Ngakho-ke kukhona abesifazane - kuphela kubo, mhlawumbe, abanolwazi olunjalo oluxubile. Kodwa into enengekayo kakhulu yithemba. Kubonakala sengathi izwe liyekile futhi alihambanga, kodwa uma lifika, akuyona into ecacile njengangaphambili. Lokhu kuthiwa ukucindezeleka.
Abanye besifazane banquma ukuhlukanisa ngemva kokukhashelwa komyeni wakhe. Bakholelwa ngokuqinile ukuthi bazoletha inqubo yesehlukaniso kuze kube sekupheleni, futhi ngeke basithethelele ubunjalo obunjalo ekhelini labo. Kodwa lona wesifazane unomzwelo futhi uzimisele ukupholisa ngokushesha. Nakuba kungenzeka ukuthi uzobe enomhawu futhi ulindele ukuthi icala liphindiselele. Lokhu kwenzeka futhi. Kodwa manje sibhekene namacala ajwayelekile eningi.
Ngakho-ke, isikhathi sidlula futhi uma umyeni ephikelela ngokukhuluma ngothando lwakhe olungafani, khona-ke kungenzeka ukuthi umkakhe uyothethelela. Lokhu kusebenza eqinisweni lokukhashelwa okukodwa. Iphesenti elincane kakhulu labesifazane isahlukaniso ngemuva kwesinye icala. Cishe wonke umuntu ufuna kodwa akaholeli isehlukaniso kuze kube sekupheleni.
Khona-ke isimo siba nzima nakakhulu. Amadoda, ayingxenye enkulu, ayishintshi, ahambe ngakwesobunxele (ikakhulukazi njengoba eqonda ukuthi amthethelele futhi, empeleni, akukho lutho olwesabekayo olwenzekile), cishe uyokwenza isinqumo ngokuphinga futhi. Lokhu akusho ukuthi umkakhe akayithandi, kusho ukuthi umuntu akanakho ukuthakazelisa okwanele ekuphileni, kodwa wena, besifazane abathandekayo, kudingeka ube yithuluzi lokukhulisa izinga le-adrenaline egazini lomyeni wakho?
Abesifazane abaningi basenqume ukuhlukanisa ngemva kokushintsha njalo. Ecindezelekile esimweni esicindezelekile, bayaqonda ukuthi abakwazi ukubekezelela ubuhlungu bomuntu othandekayo futhi bahlukanisile ngemva kokukhaphela umyeni wakhe. Lokhu kungaba buhlungu kakhulu futhi isimo sengqondo sesifazane sihlala sicindezelekile isikhathi eside kakhulu. Ucabanga: "Ngenze into efanele ngokuhlukanisa nalomuntu? Kodwa kuthiwani uma konke kwahluke? "Ngeke kwenzeke. Futhi baqonda ngokugcwele lesi sizathu, kodwa inhliziyo yowesifazane ikulungele ukuthethelela. Kodwa-ke, isehlukaniso emva kokuphinga, njengomthetho, akunakugwemeka, uma owesifazane, eqinisweni, esenomqondo wokuzibheka.
Ukukhuluma ngesahlukaniso emva kokukhwabaniswa okuqhubekayo, okuqala ngumyeni, kodwa-ke, ishintshe, ngakho-ke, umfazi, kunengqondo kuphela ezindaweni ezizimele. Ngenxa yokuthi amadoda ahlukile futhi ahlukumezi ngokuvamile awaxoleli. Indoda ingaqhubeka nokuhlala nomkakhe esimweni esinjalo, kodwa ejulile, ngeke neze imthethelele futhi ihlukanise ngokushesha noma kamuva kuyokwenzeka. Owesifazane ngokwakhe ngeke akwazi ukumelana nokucindezeleka kwengqondo okuqhubekayo, okuyinto umyeni wakhe ayokwanelisa ngemva kokukhaphela, ngisho nangemva kokumthethelela. Okumangalisa kakhulu emindenini enjalo, umsunguli wehlukaniso ungowesifazane, ongenakukwazi ukumelana nokucindezela ngokomzwelo.
Ukuhlukaniswa ngemva kokushintsha njalo kwenzeka cishe njalo. Ngoba, ngubani ongasho lutho, kodwa imigomo yabo bonke iyodwa: umndeni oqinile ngaphandle kokukhohliswa. Futhi kukhona amadoda nabesifazane abangashintshi futhi baphile ngokujabula njalo. Into esemqoka ukuma ngesikhathi futhi uqonde okubaluleke kakhulu empilweni ....