Ukuhlukaniswa ngothando nomshado: Izindlela ezingu-8 ezivela kumlumbi ozuzayo

Kusukela ngoJanuwari 6, amantombazane aqala ukubuyiselwa impilo yabo yomndeni esikhathini esizayo. Kwabanye, lokhu kungokuzijabulisa nje, kwabanye - isenzakalo esibucayi, eveza izimfihlo zekusasa. Lapho uqala ukubhula, funda imithetho ekhuthaza ukuncoma oloyizi kanye nama-esoteric:

1. Abaqageli kufanele babe inombolo engavamile, kodwa hhayi 13.
2. Amantombazane enhlanhla kufanele abe izinwele nje, okungukuthi, ngezinwele ezingavamile ngaphandle kwezikhonkwane nemiklamo.
3. Susa isidingo samabhande, amawashi namawashi.
4. Kusuka ekamelweni lapho kuyoba nenhlanhla khona, bayathatha izithombe kanye nazo zonke izinto ezihlobene nesonto.
5. Ukukhanya kagesi kumele kucime. Amakhandlela ambalwa avuliwe ukukhanyisa.
6. Baqala ukuvuselela ngemva kokushona kwelanga. Isikhathi esihle kakhulu phakathi kwamabili.
7. Ngesikhathi sokubhula, umuntu akakwazi ukuwela izingalo nemilenze.

Ukuhlukaniswa ngezinto

I-Fortunate kumele ibe okungenani abantu ababili. Enye yamantombazane ithatha izinkomishi ezine ze-opaque futhi ibeka kuzo izinto: indandatho, imali, umdlalo. Ikomishi lokugcina lihlala lingenalutho. Iziqukathi kufanele ziguqulwe, zifake itafula futhi zixutshwe. Intombazane efuna ukwazi isiphetho sayo, sonke isikhathi sihlezi sibheke kude. Khona-ke ufika etafuleni futhi ukhetha indebe eyodwa, okuqukethwe okubikezela impilo yomkhaya wakhe:

• imali - ukushada okulula,
• indandatho yegolide - umshado ojabulisayo wothando,
• ukufanisa - impilo emfushane nomlingani wakho,
• ingilazi engenalutho - impilo eyodwa eminyakeni embalwa elandelayo.

Inguqulo yesibili yokukhulumisana okufanayo kuyosiza ukwazi uhlamvu lomyeni wesikhathi esizayo. Kuphela kunezinto ezisezinkomishi kuzoba khona uketshezi: amanzi uju, amanzi nosawoti, amanzi nge-citric acid no-alcohol. Enye intombazane ihlanganisa izinkomishi ezinama-napkins futhi ihlinzeka ukwenza ukhetho lwalo esikhathini esizayo lapho kukhona ukubhula. Okuqukethwe kwendebe kuzokutshela ukuthi umyeni uzoba njani:

• amanzi anamanothi - anomusa futhi anakekela;
• amanzi ngamanzi anosawoti - oshayisayo, uyoletha izinyembezi;
• amanzi nge-citric acid - adidayo, kuyoba nzima ukujabulisa;
• utshwala - uzophuza okuningi.

Ukuhlukaniswa komshado osheshayo

Kufanele kube khona abambalwa ababethayo. Izindlela zasendulo zizosiza ukuthola ukuthi ubani ozoshada ngaphambi, nokuthi ubani ozohlala isikhathi eside kunazo zonke "kumantombazane".

1. Thatha ubude obufanayo bezintambo ezivela ezintweni zemvelo ngenani labaqageli. Amantombazane ngesikhathi esifanayo abeka umlilo emiceleni yawo futhi abheke ukuthi ingxenye yani izoshisa ngokushesha (nguye ozokushada kuqala). Lowo ophethe intambo uzofa phakathi, ashade maduzane, noma aphile yedwa impilo yakhe yonke.
2. Amantombazane athatha izicathulo zawo aqale ukuwubeka emgqeni ukusuka ekamelweni kuya emnyango wangaphambili. Lowo obhujane bakhe kuqala ukuwela emngceleni uyoba ngumakoti ngaphambi kokunye.
3. Intombazane ngayinye iletha ubisi oluncane ekhaya. Zonke ubisi zixubene futhi ziphekwe. Khona-ke ithululelwa ku-jug yobumba futhi ivumelekile ukuba ipholile. Ubisi oluphuthumayo luthululelwa yibo bonke abaqageli. Ubani ozothola ipeni, uzoshada ngonyaka ozayo.

Ukuqagela ekubhekeni

Indlela kulabo abangakwazi ukupheka. Kusihlwa nganoma yiluphi usuku olungcwele udinga ukugcoba imvubelo inhlama, ukubuza ngengqondo ngokubuza imibuzo emincane. Amapayipi okunambitheka ngokushelela okulula (amazambane, iklabishi) futhi anquma ngokubhaka, kuyoba yini umshado:

• Amapayipi aluhlaza futhi anesibindi - ukuphila komndeni ojabulisayo, umyeni osebenza kanzima;
• inhlama ikhuphukile kabi kuhhavini - indoda ehahayo nenjabulo;
• inhlama yajika - ayikho inhlanhla nonina kamasipala;
• ama-pie azoshisa - eminyakeni embalwa ezayo yomshado akumele ilinde;
• ukupheka kubhidliza nokuphuka - indoda izophakamisa isandla sayo;
• Izinto eziluhlaza - umyeni uzovame ukuphumula kakhulu;
• ukugxila okumuncu - umyeni uyophuza;
• ukugcwalisa usawoti - kuzodingeka ukhethe kusuka ezigumbini eziningana.

Ukuhlukaniswa yikusasa elihlangene

Amantombazane asevele esebuhlotsheni anesithakazelo endabeni yekusasa elihlangene nelikhethiwe okwamanje. Impendulo izosiza ukuthola ukubhula nge-apula. Thatha i-apula elibomvu elivuthiwe futhi usike inhliziyo yakhe enemiphefumulo. Emgodini obangelwayo ubeke ipheshana elincane ngegama elibhalwe ngamadoda. Ingqalasizinda idinga ukufakwa emuva, futhi i-apula ngokwayo ifihlekile ekuhloleni amehlo. Ezinsukwini ezintathu kamuva, babheka okwenzeka esitshalweni: izithelo ezomile zibikezela umshado obolile - ukuhlukana okungenakugwema.

Ukuqagela ephepheni

Ngaphambi kokulala, le ntombazane ibeka izingcezu zephepha ngezinombolo ezehlukene ngaphansi komcamelo wayo, ibuza umbuzo: "Ngingashada iminyaka emingaki?". Ngakusasa ekuseni udinga ukuphuma uphinde ubone ukuthi yini ebhaliwe kuso. Lokhu kuyoba impendulo yombuzo.

Ukubhula kwekhadi ngomshado

Ngenxa yalokhu ukubhula, uzodinga indawo engabonakali yamakhadi angu-52. Umqageli ukhetha ikhadi elilodwa elizolifaka umuntu. Amantombazane amancane akhethe ingoma yamantombazane, abesifazane emva kwezinsikazi ezingu-30. Ikhadi idinga ukuthathwa emkhunjini futhi likhishwe, libuza umbuzo womshado. Umkhohlisi ususa inqwaba yamakhadi aphezulu (angaphezu kuka-20) ngesandla sakhe sobunxele bese ebuka ikhadi lakhe lapho. Uma ithola, khona-ke ukuboshwa kuyokwenzeka ngonyaka ozayo. Uma i-"portrait" efunayo engekho, intombazane ibeka amakhadi asele abe yizinqwaba ezifanayo eziyisihlanu futhi ibuye iqinisekise:

• le nkosikazi emgqonyeni wokuqala - umshado phakathi neminyaka emibili elandelayo;
• unkosikazi emgqonyeni wesibili - umshado eminyakeni emithathu;
• unkosikazi emgqonyeni wesithathu - umshado uzokwenzeka eminyakeni emine;
• le ndoda enqwabeni yesine - umshado eminyakeni emihlanu;
• le nkosikazi inqwaba yesihlanu - umshado omfushane.

Ukuthunjwa ngamathambo ezinkukhu

Ngenxa yalokhu, ukubhula kuzodinga amathambo enkukhu emlenzeni, ephiko nasemqaleni. Kumele kube khona ukukhamuluka okumbalwa, bonke baba ngumbuthano. Enye intombazane iba phakathi nokuphonsa ngamatshe. Abanye bazama ukubamba futhi babheke umphumela:

• Ithambo elisuka emlenzeni lisho ukuthi umyeni uzobe esebenza kanzima;
• ithambo elisuka ephikweni - kubalulekile ukuhlala kanye nezihlobo zomyeni;
• amathambo entanyeni - umfazi uzoba yinhloko yomndeni.

Amantombazane angabamba itshe elilodwa, azoshada maduzane.

Ukuhlelwa kwemisebenzi ngezingubo eziyimpumputhe

Enye intombazane ihoxiswa emgodini, igqunywe amehlo futhi ingabonakali. Bese babheka ukuthi uzoya kuphi:

• emnyango - uzoshada phakathi nonyaka;
• kwesokunxele noma kwesokudla - umshado eminyakeni embalwa;
• ngokujulile endlini (indlu) - lomshado uzokwenzeka maduzane.