Udaba lokulahlekelwa ubuntombi lungelashwa ngezindlela ezahlukene. Kodwa kufanele sivume ukuthi lokhu kubalulekile. Futhi ngifuna konke kuhambe kahle, ngothando kanye nemiphumela engathandeki. Ukuze ugweme izinyembezi nezinhlekelele ezingadingekile, umuntu akufanele akhiphe isiphetho sakhe ekukhulekeleni izifiso ezingokomoya kanye nezilwane zasendle. Isabelo sokuzizwa okunempilo lapha akulimazi. Okuhlangenwe nakho kobulili bokuqala akubheki nje kuphela kwengqondo, kodwa futhi nezinkinga zezokwelapha. Kufanele kucatshangelwe kusengaphambili.
Ukwesaba.
Iseluleko soMhlaba wonke: uma sesabeka, awudingi. Linda kuze kube yilapho isifiso iba umqondo ovelele. Futhi ukwesaba kuhlaziya:
A. Ukwesaba ukuvela abangenalwazi. Eqinisweni, uma uneminyaka engu-15-18 ubudala, akekho okhethekile olindele "isipiliyoni". Ngokuphambene nalokho, ukwazi ukuthi intombazane ingenacala, lo muntu uzobe ebalalele futhi eqaphele. Ngesikhathi esilandelayo, amantombazane aqala ukubunzima ngokujulile, asaba (ngokuvamile avumelana) ukuthi ukungabi nabulungisa kuzobonakala ukuthi umuntu "awunamsebenzi." Yebo, ungavumeli lutho! Okubaluleke kakhulu kule nkinga ukukhulisa isikhathi sokuthandana. Nciphisa ubudlelwane bakho bocansi ekunciphiseni (uvumela noma yikuphi ukuzonda kanye ne-caresses, kodwa ngaphandle kokuxhumana kwezitho zangasese). Ngakho-ke, uzothola isikhathi sokutadisha indoda yakho ngokuningiliziwe, ukuqonda ukuthi yini eyamjabulisa. Uzo "funda "okukuthandayo. Futhi ekugcineni wanquma "ukulala", ungagxila ku "lokhu", uthatha isilwane esivamile nesimnandi. Khona-ke zonke izinto zizoxazululwa ngokwazo: isisindo sizosebenza. Futhi ukulahlekelwa okumnandi kobumsulwa kuqinisekiswa kuwe.
B. Ukwesaba ukushiywa. Ekuqaleni intombazane iyesaba ukuthi lo mfana uyomshiya uma engatholi lokho akufunayo. Khona-ke ukuthi uzoyeka, ngoba usuvele esamukele konke ayifunayo. Lokhu kulungile ukwesaba. Futhi uma ubuhlobo bwakhiwe kuwo, kungcono ukuthi uzivimbe ngokwakho (ngisho nakakhulu uzoshiywa).
C. Ukwesaba ubuhlungu. Sizokukhuluma ngalokhu ngezansi.
Ubuhlungu negazi.
Ngokwalo, ukwesaba kungabangela ubuhlungu. Intombazane ngaphakathi "izivumelwano", kune-spasm of muscles - futhi yilokho okwenza izinzwa ezibuhlungu ngesikhathi socansi. Ukukhulula ama-spasms, ukuphumula imisipha kanye nemisipha kuvame ukuphakanyiswa ukuba ususe ubuntombi ekugezeni okufudumele. Ngokusobala, lesi seluleko sabhalwa ezincwadini ezithile zaseYurophu. Emabhakeni ajwayelekile okukhiqizwa asekhaya, abathandi abanolwazi kuphela abangenza ucansi. Abaqalayo nabo bangengozini yokuthola ukulimala okwengeziwe. Yeka indlela okuyobuhlungu ngayo ukuhlaziywa (ukwephuka kwe-hymen) kuxhomeke kumlingani wakho. Kufanele abe nesipiliyoni esihle sokuxhumana nawe, noma nje okuhlangenwe nakho okuhle: emva kwakho konke, indoda akufanele nje "iphumule", kodwa futhi indlela yokujabulisa umlingani. Kuphela ubulili buzoba "njengama-clockwork".
I-pose ebaluleke kakhulu ayifuni, kodwa kusukela ekubukeni kwengqondo, kuyoba lula ukuba intombazane ibe yinto engacabangi, "isithunywa sevangeli" (kusukela ngezansi, ebhekene nomlingani).
Uma emva kokuxhumana kocansi okokuqala ubuhlungu abudluli isikhathi eside (ngaphezulu kweviki), uma kungakapheli izinsuku ezintathu ukuphuma kwegazi kungavumi, kufanele uxoxe nodokotela. Kunoma yikuphi, kuze kube yilapho isifo esibucayi kanye nokuqothulwa kwanyamalala, akukhuthazwa ukuphinda izenzo zocansi.
Ungalindeli isonto eligcwele uma ubuhlungu bukhulu kakhulu noma buhambisana nomkhuhlane. Ikakhulu uma kukhona ubuhlungu esiswini esingaphansi. Phela, ngisho nendoda yokuqala futhi ethandekayo kakhulu ingahle ibe yinkinga. Mhlawumbe usulelekile.
Amakhondomu namaphilisi.
Ikondomu iyisivikelo esihle kunazo zonke ekumelaneni nokutheleleka. Amantombazane ahlukumeza amakhondomu. Abafana abazi ukuthi bangawagqoka kanjani, kodwa besaba ukuyivuma. Amantombazane, ngesizathu esithile, esaba ukuthi ikhondomu izovimbela ama-hymen ekuphukeni noma ukuzwa okunye okubuhlungu.
Kuyinto ehlukile! Amakhondomu abuhlungu ubuhlungu ngoba ahlanganiswe ne-lubricant ekhethekile ekhuthaza ukuhamba. Ukuhlolwa, akuphazamisi, ngoba kule nqubo, akubalulekile ikhondomu ngokwalo, kodwa isitho socansi esigqoke kuso.
Ukunakekela kufanele kuthathwe ngisho noma bobabili abalingani bengenacala. Ukuthembela ngokuphelele komunye nomunye kungabandakanyi ingozi yokubamba izifo ezithathelwana ngocansi. Kodwa ngeke kukulondoloze kusukela ekukhulelwe. Into engcono kakhulu yokwenza kulolu cala ukuthatha izisu zokubeletha ezihlangene kahle kusengaphambili.
Khumbula ukuthi udokotela kumele akhethe iphilisi! Uma ubeka imali oyidingayo kusukela ngosuku lokuqala lokuya esikhathini, bese ezinsukwini eziyishumi ungasho ukuthi "yebo" kumuntu wakho. Uma amaphilisi kufanele athathwe ngosuku lwesihlanu, bese "ngothando" kufanele ulinde cishe inyanga - kuze kube umjikelezo olandelayo wokuya esikhathini. Kungcono ukuhamba konke kuze kube sekupheleni, noma ngabe phakathi nalesi sikhathi uhlehlile, futhi kwakungazange kube nobudlelwano bobulili. Uma uphazamisa ngezizathu zomgomo ukuthatha amaphilisi, bese ezinsukwini ezimbili noma ezintathu nje kuphela, ukuphuma esikhathini okungenakulungiswa kuzoqala.
Uma ungazange uxabane, kodwa nje wanquma ukubambezela "imihlangano esondelene" okwesikhashana - ungaqala ukupakisha okulandelayo kokuzalelwa kokubeletha ngesikhathi ngokuya imiyalelo. Akuyingozi.
Okubi yilokho okubizwa ngokuthi i-postcoital, noma "umlilo" wokubeletha. Kodwa nokho kubi kakhulu kunokukhipha isisu. Lezi amaphilisi (njengomthetho, zingatholakala kuphela kudokotela, kuma-pharmacy kuphela "i-postinor" athengiswa) aqukethe ama-hormone aphezulu kakhulu futhi angaholela ekusebenziseni ama-ovari.
Njengomuthi wokukhulelwa komlilo, ungasebenzisa izisu zokubeletha ezijwayelekile ngokulandela uhlelo olulandelayo:
Thatha ngokushesha amaphilisi amabili eDemulen, Rigevidona noma e-Triziston. Noma amaphilisi angu-4 e-Marvelona, i-Mersilon noma i-Femodena.
Ngemuva kwamahora angu-12, phinda umthamo ofanayo. Yenza kungakapheli amahora angu-72 emva kokulala okungavimbelwe.
Ukuya esikhathini kufanele kuqale ngesikhathi noma kancane kancane. Uma kwenzeka ukubambezeleka okungenani usuku olungu-1, sicela uxhumane nodokotela - kungenzeka ukuthi ukukhulelwa kufikile.
Ukudla njalo nokulungiswa kwemithi yokuvimbela ukuvimbela imithi kuqinisekisa ukuvikeleka okungaba ngu-100%.
Isikhathi sokuqala.
Ezikhathini zamaSoviet, iminyaka lapho umsebenzi wezocansi waqala khona wachazwa ngokucacile: kusukela eminyakeni engu-18 ubudala kungenzeka ukuba ushade, okungukuthi, kusukela eneminyaka engu-18 ungaqala ukuya ocansini. Lesi sibalo asikho nje kuphela ekuziphatheni, kodwa nangezokwelapha.
I-hymen iyi-formomatic anatomical eyenza umsebenzi wokuzivikela. Izigidi zeminyaka abesifazane baye bahlaziywa futhi, nakuba kunjalo, ngenqubo yokuziphendukela kwemvelo plevatak futhi hhayi atrophied. Kuyinto engacabangi ukucabanga ukuthi imvelo iyalondoloza kuphela ukuthi le ndoda yayizibuza yona: "Ingabe iyona yokuqala noma ayinayo yokuqala?" I-hymen iyimbimbi yemvelo ekuthelelekeni ngenkathi i-microflora evikelayo engasese isakhiwe ngokuphelele. Ngaphezu kwalokho, amantombazane ane-epithelium encane kakhulu ezindongeni zangasese. Kungaba lula ukuhlukunyezwa kusuka ukuxubana mechanical ngesikhathi socansi. Imiphumela ingaholela ekuthuthukiseni izinqubo zokuvuvukala, okungahambisani nalokho okubangelwa yi-hormonal disorders, kanye nokunamathela kwezitho zangaphakathi, ngisho nokungazalwa kahle.
Okumangalisa ukuthi, okunye okwedlulele kakhulu - ukuqala kwesikhathi sokuqala kocansi - kungenayo imiphumela embi. Kunezimo eziningi lapho abesifazane belahlekelwa khona ubuntombi babo eneminyaka engu-27, 30, 36, bekhulelwe futhi babeletha ngokuphepha. Izinkinga zingase zivele ngenxa yokuthi izintombi azivami ukuvakashela isazi sokubeletha, ngaphandle kokubona kubalulekile. Lokhu akulungile. Ukuhlolwa kokuvimbela kufanele kwenziwe okungenani kanye ngonyaka.