Uma konke okusemandleni kuphelile, umyeni uyamangalisa, usuku ngalunye alufani nolunye, umuntu ongaziwa owenza "ngengozi", "isibonelo" kwinethiwekhi "Odnoklassniki", e-ICQ noma kwenye indawo, kuletha impilo yakho yansuku zonke. Izwi ngezwi, futhi unamathele ngokuthula kumngane wakho weqiniso. Ukuzijabulisa nokuthakazelisayo kuba ukuphila kwansuku zonke. Kodwa ingabe konke kuhle njengoba kubonakala? . . Awucabangi yini ukuthi uqala ukushintshela kumyeni wakho noma kumngane wakho? Uyazi ukuthi ukuhlubuka akukhona ukuxhumana ngokomzimba.
Umngane weqiniso ulungile uma uhlaselwa empilweni yakho siqu futhi uqinisekile ukuthi ufuna ukushintsha okuthile, noma uma kungekho muntu empilweni yakho nhlobo. Khona-ke ukuzijwayeza nomuntu ongaziwayo uyoletha u-romance empilweni yakho ngaphandle "kwemiphumela emibi". Kodwa, ake ucabange, konke kuyoba bushelelezi empilweni yakho, uma umyeni wakho ekhubeka ngephutha ngombhalo wakho wemfihlo. Wena ngokwakho uyazi ukuthi "isela nesihe livutha umlilo," futhi, njengoba inhlanhla ingabe unakho, ungakhohlwa ukuvala "iwindi elinqatshelwe." Ingabe udinga ukwehluleka okunjalo, ucabanga? . . Ukulahlekelwa ukwethemba okukodwa kanye nonke kufakwe ezinhlelweni zakho?
Okokuqala, umngane ongcono ulungile uma ufuna nje ukuxoxa, wabelane ngesifo sakho nomunye umuntu ongajwayelekile. Kuyinto yokuthi abesifazane abaningi "bajwayelene" ngokungabikho, futhi kamuva bashada ngendlela efanayo. Abanye bamane bangakwazi ukuhlala ngaphandle kokuxhumana okungokoqobo, abesifazane abanjalo badinga umngane wangempela, ngisho nje nokuphumula. Kodwa, ngesikhathi esifanayo, awuvikelekile ukuthi ungakwazi ukuxhumana nobuntu obusungulwe ngokuphelele. Asikho isiqinisekiso sokuthi ngakolunye uhlangothi "le-spider web" akulona uhlobo oluthile lwe-maniac yezocansi. Akukho lutho, kodwa ake ucabange ukuthi ufuna ukuhlola okuthandayo, uthole isithombe sokushintshanisa okukhohlisa futhi waqala ukuxhumana nawe ukuze akuhlole ekukholweni. Yilokho engicabanga ukuthi awunakulindele.
Yebo, owesifazane weqiniso udinga umngane, wemvelaphi yangempela, lapho kungekho muntu wangempela empilweni. Futhi uma kungekho lutho lokulahlekelwa, ungaxoxa nomuntu ongaziwayo, ngaphandle kwalokho, umuntu ongaziwayo uyohlala ehlala ephelele, engenamaphutha, uze uvumelane naye ngomhlangano ... Kodwa lokhu ngeke kwenzeke, lokhu kungenye indaba.