Intombazane ethandekayo, ingabe uyathanda amantombazane? Uma kunjalo, ke lesi sihloko senu. Kuvela ukuthi amantombazane ahlukile ezintombi. Ekuqaleni wena, ngeke ukholelwe ukuthi uyintombi. Khona-ke uzobe umangale ngobuqotho. Yebo, uma kungangabazeki ukuthi kusale, kuzodingeka ukuthi unqume ukuthi udinga ubuhlobo nomuntu onjalo. Yini ongayilindela kuzo nokuthi yini okufanele uyenze nayo?
Okokuqala, cabangela izinhlobo eziyinhloko zezintombi ezincane. Bathanda amantombazane amaningi. Siyabona ngokushesha ukuthi imibono ethandwayo mayelana nokuziqhenya komusha osemusha akuyona iqiniso ngokuphelele. Ukuzicabangela kokucabangela ezindabeni zobulili kuvame ukufihla ukungabi nabulungisa kwangempela.
I-pseudo-macho.
Kakade omaziyo uzofunda ngawo wonke "ukunqoba" kwakhe kwangaphambilini. Ngakho-ke, kodwa umbono wakhe, amadoda angempela aziphatha njenge-hamovato futhi engahloniphi. Ukubonisa isimo sabo sengqondo sokungazihloniphi ubulili besifazane, uzobe esesimweni esifanelekile noma esingaphansi. Kungenzeka ukuthi ingxenye ye-bile izowa futhi - phambi kwezilaleli ezincane enkampanini yabangane bakhe noma abangani bakho. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuthi umlingo wokuba uhlale nawe wedwa, umgudu "wesibindi" uzoba yintombazane enamahloni. Indlela eqinisile yokunciphisa ukukhathazeka kwakhe ukumbonga ngempela, "ukuxhaphazwa" kwakhe nokuthandwa kwabafazi. Gcizelela kwakho - kanye nendawo yakho-ngokubaluleka okungenakubuzwa kanye nezinzuzo ngaphezu kwamanye amadoda. Msize ukuthi akholwe kuye, futhi ngeke uthole okuthakazelisayo futhi ukulungele ukuba uhlanganyele ngisho phakathi fighters onzima of the front front.
Izinkinga ezingenzeka: Ukuzizwa njengomuntu ophezulu, umlingo-mawuni angase afune ukuqinisekisa ukuqina kwakhe kwabanye abalingani. Ukuphikisa kwakhe ngokumelene nesipiliyoni sakho noma nesifiso sokubusa, futhi, ngeke ukwazi ukudlala indima engcono.
I-Knight yesithombe esidabukisayo.
Ukubukeka okuthakazelisayo, ukufundwa izinkondlo, ukububula ebhentshini, ukuhamba yinyanga - phambi kwakho umfana omdala uyintombi. Ubeka izandla futhi abe namahloni ngisho nangaphambi kokuthinta, ngisho nangesikhathi ingxoxo evamile ngesihloko esingacacile. Uma izinsizwa ezinjalo zishada abesifazane abathandanayo njengamaconsi amabili amanzi, kutholakala imindeni emihle, ethi: "Esikoleni ndawonye". Ebudlelwaneni nomuntu ongafihla imizwa yakhe, inqubomgomo enhle ingukuthembeka nokucabangela. Uma uvuma ngokukhululekile futhi ngokuthula ukuthi uyazi isizathu sokuba namahloni futhi ungaboni lutho olwesabekayo kuwo, uzokuphendula ngothando nangokubonga.
Izinkinga ezingenzeka: intando yakhe engamthokozi iyomjabulisa kakhulu kangangokuthi esikhathini esizayo uzodinga ukuthatha isinyathelo kuqala. Uma uhambisana nobuhlobo obungathí sina, khuthaza noma yikuphi, ngisho nokuncane, umsebenzi womlingani ocansini.
Manje ake sichaze izinhlobo eziyinhloko zamantombazane amadala amaduna. Ucabanga ukuthi usetshenziswe isikhathi eside noma esevele ehlukanisile - ngobudala, wabekwa. Kodwa kwenzeka ukuthi lokhu kuyiphutha. Futhi kwenzeka.
I-physicist noma i-lyricist.
Eminyakeni eyishumi edlule, noma ngisho namashumi amabili, wayematasa kakhulu. Wabhala i-dissertation, wazama ukuthola idiphozi ye-pyrite ekhanyayo noma efunwa ngesiqiniseko esihlokweni somqhubi ofanele esifundeni se-Perm. Ngokuvamile, wayengekho empilweni yangasese. Egcwele izincwadi namafolda itafula elithuli kanye namasokisi angewona ayingxenye yezibonakaliso ezikhethekile zalolu hlobo lwezintombi. Ungumngane othakazelisayo, futhi awusoze wamthukuthelela. Yiqiniso, ithemba lokuba ngumngane wokuphila komuntu ohlakaniphile nomdali, ikakhulukazi uma esefinyelele izinga elithile ensimini yakhe yobuchwepheshe, kuyalinga kakhulu. Kodwa kuthiwani ngocansi? Indoda eyenza ngaphandle komphakathi wabesifazane isikhathi eside ngokwanele ingase ijabule ngokubonakala kwesidalwa esihle embhede wakhe wokugcina. Into eyinhloko ukuhlanganyela izithakazelo zakhe ezingokomoya, konke okunye kuyinkinga yezinkambiso, okungafani nawe, okungafani naye.
Izinkinga ezingenzeka: uhlelo lwezinto ezibalulekile kuqala luye lwasungulwa isikhathi eside. Kuwubuwula ukuthemba ukuthi ngokufika kokuphila kwakho, umsebenzi wokuphila kwakhe konke uzothatha isihlalo emuva. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yikuphi, kuzodingeka uhlale unciphisa i-lyric physicist kusukela "emazulwini" esayense kuya kwesono (ngomqondo oqinile kakhulu wegama) umhlaba. Qonda, ulungele lokhu.
Umama uyigugu.
Indodana kamama onamandla nokuziqhenya kwakhe. Akekho kulaba besifazane abavela ngasemuva, ngokusho komzali, wayefanelwe ukwenza injabulo yengcebo yakhe. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, umuntu onjalo angaphumelela kakhulu, afundiswe futhi anikezwe. Futhi cute, okuyinto ehlambalaza kakhulu. Lokhu kungenye yezinkinga ezinzima kakhulu. Kodwa konke kungenzeka, uma ulawula ukudukisa intombi enjalo ngaphambi kokuhlangana nonina. Unobuntu obuncane, futhi into yokuthembela ingahluka kuye ngezimo.
Izinkinga ezingenzeka: kulokhu ziqinisekisiwe. Awukwazi ukuthatha indawo yomama empilweni yakhe, ngakho ungachithi isikhathi sakho namandla. Ukuphikisana okuqhubekayo nalo kungabonakala kakhulu. Kodwa uma ungathola inhlonipho yakhe, uzoba indlovukazi engashintshi enhliziyweni yomuntu onjalo. Futhi awusoze waba nezimbangi.
Izintombikazi ezidume kakhulu.
Kukholelwa ukuthi kukhona ukuxhumana phakathi kwetalente nokuhlanzeka. Abaningi abakhulu bahlala bengenacala zonke izimpilo zabo, kanti abanye babezijwayele ubulili ngesikhathi bekhulile. Inkathazo noLee Carroll yukuthi u-Alice wakhulela empilweni yakhe. UJohn Raskin wahlala engumfana ngisho nasemshadweni. UHans Christian Andersen wabhala inganekwane ngothando, ayengenalo. U-Nikolai Gogol uthathe ucansi ngesono. U-Arthur Schopenhauer, "lokhu" kwenzeka eneminyaka engu-70. Futhi ekugcineni, uSigmund Freud, ogama lakhe lihlobene ngokuqinile nobulili phakathi kwayo yonke isintu, ugweme abesifazane kuze kube seminyaka engu-30.
Izimbangela zobuntombi.
Kubalulekile njengokulungela ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo kokuqala kokuphila kocansi. Ukuhlehliswa kwakhe eminyakeni engu-22-30 kukhuluma ngezinkinga zokuxhumana nobulili obuhlukile. Ngokuvamile, ukuzethemba okuphansi kwezintombi kubonakala. Le ndoda inezinhlangothi ezimbili: indoda ingaba nomthelela kakhudlwana kowesifazane, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi lokhu kuyinto yesikhashana. Ngemuva kokuthakazelisa kokuqala, ukusesha izinzwa ezintsha kuvame ukuqala. Ngakho-ke, uma ubuhlobo nentombi busekelwe kuphela kwisici sokwethuka, ngeke kube khona isikhathi eside. Ukuzihlonipha ngokweqile kumuntu ogcwele umhawu, izidakamizwa. Uma inoveli enezintombi inemizwa yangempela futhi bobabili abalingani bavuthiwe ngokwengqondo, ukuqala okunjalo kungaba kuhle kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, uma amantombazane oyithandayo namantombazane amantombazane enza ukwakha ubudlelwane, yiba nesineke kakhulu kubo kanye nokunciphisa kancane.