Muva nje, abantu baye bashintsha okuningi. Ishintshwe ngokoqobo kuyo yonke into. Saqala ukucabanga ngendlela ehlukile, sizizwa ngendlela ehlukile, siqonde ukuthi izwe elizungezile, futhi, lihluke kakhulu. Saqala nokuphatha ngokuhlukile.
Owesifazane wekhulu lama-21 waba namandla kunempilo nangokwengqondo kunomuntu. Eminyakeni embalwa edlule, saqala ukuqaphela ukuthi abesifazane besenza isinyathelo sokuqala emhlanganweni wamadoda. Thina, amantombazane, sivame ukuthatha isinyathelo kulokhu noma kulolo daba. Khumbula, mangaki owake waba nezimo ezinjalo uma wena uvuma isinqumo esithile, futhi ucela othandekayo wakho ngalokho angakuphakamisa (okungukuthi, njengokulalela intando yomuntu, ushiye ilungelo lokukhetha), bayasiphendula ngani? Ngokuvamile impendulo izwakala kanje: "Izintandokazi, njengoba uzokusho, kuyoba." Futhi ngakho cishe cishe konke. Bese bekhononda ngabathandi, ukuthi bathi, intombazane engiyekanga ukuba ngihambe nabalimi e-bar ukuze ngihlale. Ina, umkakhe unzima, unquma konke ngaye, njll. nokunye okunjalo. Madoda, othandekayo, wena ngokwakho uyisola konke lokhu, wena ngokwakho unike lona wesifazane ilungelo lokuzikhethela, ukhetha, futhi uyathanda ukukhetha kwakhe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, unikeza isinyathelo esiningi ngokwengeziwe ngaso sonke isikhathi. Futhi kakade ngaphandle kokukuqaphela, udlula ingxenye yakho, okushoyo, izinso zikahulumeni. Futhi abesifazane, futhi, bathatha yonke imithwalo yemfanelo, empeleni, baba namandla futhi bezaza benza izinqumo ezimbili. Ngakho-ke, abesifazane nabo banquma ukuthi bangakwazi ukulawula indoda, kodwa ngani? Ngoba lo muntu ngokwakhe wanika ilungelo lokubusa phezu kwakhe ... futhi ngokuzithandela. Ngakho-ke, kuvela ukuthi izwe liphendukile! Amadoda aqala ukudlala indima yabesifazane, nabesifazane - indima yamadoda.
Eminyakeni yamuva, amantombazane amaningi, abhekana nokusebenzisana namadoda, okujulile noma okwesikhashana, aqala ukuqaphela ukuthi amadoda ayeka ukuthatha izinyathelo zokuqala ngisho nezenzo zesilisa ezisemqoka. Baqala ukukhukhumeza, okuvame ukuba ngabesifazane. Yaba yindlala kakhulu kuzo zonke izinhlobo zezinhlamba, eziphinde zitholakale kakhulu kwabesifazane. Amanye amadoda abuye abe nesici (futhi nesifazane), ukuba acabange inkinga ngokwabo, ukucasuka kuwo, nokusola isigamu sabo sesibili kukho konke. Amadoda anjalo othulini nasemlotha aphula izinkulumo zawo ezilawula umhlaba. Madoda, cabanga, ubani ozokubusa?
Lokhu kwenzeka kuphi?
Yiqiniso, ngeke siphikisana, akuwona wonke umuntu onjalo, kodwa kuningi olunjalo. Eminyakeni yamuva, amadoda amaningi aswele amandla aqale ukubeka ngaphansi kwe "isithendekazi". Laba bantu abanobuthakathaka basuke bekhanga abesifazane abanele ngokwanele hhayi nje ukuba baqine, kodwa kubesifazane abanzima. Wonke umuntu kufanele azi isithombe lapho umfazi ephinde eyala indoda, futhi indoda elalelayo ilandela iziqondiso. Mhlawumbe lokhu kungumyalelo wezinto futhi uhlele bobabili, kodwa uzovuma, isithombe esiphezulu sicindezela.
Kukhona amadoda anjalo adinga owesifazane ongumama. Futhi kukhona abesifazane abanelisekile ngomyeni oziphatha ngendlela enjengendodana. Uyayipheka, ayisuse, ayisuse, ihlezi ngokuthula, ibukele i-TV, ifunde iphephandaba, ikwazi ukuthi konke kuzokwenziwa "Mama".
Abesifazane, yebo, bahlukile. Owesifazane kuphela, lapho ebona ukuthi angakwazi ukuxazulula iningi lemibuzo emibili, ngamunye uziphatha ngendlela ehlukile. Abaningi bamane nje abazi ukuthi benzeni ngamandla anjalo. Qala ukusho kanjalo ngokufutheka kwamafutha, kusukela wonke umuntu anganquma, futhi-ke, ukuzihlonipha kuphakama. Abesifazane abanjalo bacabanga ukuthi akukho lutho olungenzeka ngaphandle kwabo, ngoba kuphela banquma ukuthi yini, kuphi nokuthi kuzokwenzeka kanjani. Kukhona nalabo besifazane abenza ngokuhlakanipha, baphinde bagijime indoda, futhi benze izinqumo ezimbili. Kodwa bayakwenza, bamphoqa lowo muntu ukuba acabange ukuthi yena ngokwakhe weza kulokhu noma leso sinqumo. It yamukelwa njengefilosofi yamaGreki: "indoda-ikhanda, intamokazikazi, lapho intamo iphenduka khona, lapho kanye nekhanda libukeka." Ngokuvamile, uhlobo oluthile lwesifo luyakwenzeka, bafana. Izwe liphendukela phezulu. Ake sibuyisele konke kwimibuthano.
Ukuthi lokhu akukenzekanga ...
Ukuze ugweme noma yiziphi izimo ezikhohlisayo nezinguquko ezishaqisayo, kufanele nje uhlale ukuthi singubani.
Abesifazane - bahlale besifazane, belula, bephephile. Ungalokothi uphakamise izwi lakho-liphindaphinda. Ungacabangi umthwalo wobuhlobo nabakhethiweyo. Thina, abesifazane banamandla kakhulu, kodwa ukuze sithande ukuthi othandekayo wethu abe namandla, ngezinye izikhathi omunye kufanele azenze abe buthakathaka. Vumelana, ukhathele ngempela ukwenza izinqumo njalo futhi ukuxazulula izinkinga ezithile. Ngezinye izikhathi nje ufuna ukuphumula futhi uzizwe njengowesifazane. Ungacabangi nganoma yini futhi unganqume noma yini.
Madoda, hlalani amadoda. Yiba nesibindi, futhi wenze izenzo zakho zesilisa, ngoba thina, besifazane, siswele kakhulu. Senzele izinqumo. Bagqoke abesifazane, bathande futhi nibavikele. Thatha izinyathelo zokuqala kithi, ngisho noma wesaba, yenza njalo. Ngikholelwa, siyakwazisa.