Yeka ukuthi izingane zethu zikhula ngokushesha kangakanani! Umgwaqo wokuphila esikhathini esizayo uzoholela izingane enkulisa. Kodwa-ke, abanye abazali bangase bangadingi isidingo esinjalo, ngoba ugogo unakekela ingane, noma isimo sezimali somndeni singavumela ukumema umfana.
Kodwa nokho abazali abaningi bakhetha ukwenza ngokusemthethweni futhi babheke inkulisa yengane yabo. Kulokhu, kunemibuzo eminingi. Zihlobene nokukhathazeka ngenhlalakahle yengane yabo. Kungcono kunini ukunikeza ingane enkulisa? Isikhathi esingakanani sokuguquguquka sihlala isikhathi esingakanani esikhungweni se-pre-school? Lezi zinkinga zinconywa ukuthi zixazululwe nabachwepheshe abanolwazi, hhayi kuphela emkhandlwini womndeni.
Ngokwezinsana zezingane, ubudala obuhle uma unika ingane enkulisa kuyinto iminyaka emithathu. Kodwa kunoma yikuphi, ingane yonke ibaluleke kakhulu futhi iyinhloko umuntu. Uma umndeni mkhulu, kukhona odade nabafowethu, ngakho-ke akukho isidingo esikhethekile sokuvakashela inkulisa. Kodwa lapho ingane isodwa emndenini, ayikho indawo yokungabaza. Umphakathi wezinye izingane ungumhlabathi omuhle wokuthuthukiswa komuntu siqu. Kulesi simo, ingane izoba eyimfihlo ngokwengeziwe, izokwazi ukuzimela, ikwazi ukuzijabulisa.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, kunezingane ezingenakuzenza ngaphandle kwezingane zasenkulisa. Lesi sigaba sibandakanya izingane ezinenkinga yokukhuluma, amehlo wezinkinga nokuzwa. Enkulisa enabantwana abanjalo bazinikela ochwepheshe ngokuvumelana nezindlela ezinjalo zokubuza imibuzo. Abazali abakwazi ukuqonda izindlela ezinjalo.
Isikhathi sokuthinta ingane ngayinye singase senzeke ngezindlela ezahlukene. Abanye bangabonisa ukuhlukunyezwa, ama-whims, abanye bayenqaba ukudla nokulala. Abanye abantu babhekana nezikhathi ezinjalo kamuva. Izingane ezinemindeni yazo enobudlelwano obumnene nezilinganisela nabazali bazo, zingcono futhi zishesha ukujwayela enkulisa. Umuntu okhulayo kufanele ahlale ethi amagama abathandekayo, abonise uthando lwabazali. Ingane idinga ukuzizwa idingekayo kuleli zwe futhi ivikelwe. Uma wanquma ukuthatha isinyathelo sokunikeza ingane enkulisa, khona-ke umbuso wasekhaya kufanele usondele kumbuso enkulisa.
Ngokuvamile kungase kube nemibuzo mayelana nokudla. Amama kaningi akhulisa izingane zabo futhi alungiselele i-raznosoly, ngoba le nkinga ngokuvamile kunzima ukujwayele ukulungiselela inkulisa yokudla. Futhi uma ingane ingadli, abazali bazwakala i-alamu. Mama othandekayo, ungenzi ubudlova. Izingane ngokwabo zicela ukudla lapho zilambile. Umsebenzi oyinhloko akukona ukuphakamisa ukwesaba.
Izazi zengqondo ezinkingeni eziningi ziyavumelana nombono wezingane zakudala: ngaphambi kokuba uneminyaka emithathu, umntwana kufanele abe ngcono nonina, ozoyiqonda kangcono kunabanye. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi imizwa ihle, njengoba ikhula emntwaneni kusukela ebuntwaneni. Futhi umama onakekelayo kuphela onganikeza ukunakekelwa nsuku zonke, ukufudumala nothando, nokwandisa imizwelo emihle. Kulesi simo, ingane ingakwazi ukunqoba noma yiziphi izinkinga zokuphila.
Konke okuhlobene nokuzivumelanisa nokuxhuma kuncike ekubambeni komndeni, kanye nokuqaphela ochwepheshe, okubonakala ukuthi kuyintsana kule nkathi. Kubuye kuxhomeke ekutheni abazali ngokwabo bahlobanisa kanjani ne-enkulisa. Ngokwemvelo, abazali bakhathazekile lapho betha ingane yabo ezandleni zabanye abantu. Izikhathi eziningi kube khona amacala lapho omama bengakwazi ukushiya ingane ensimini ngaphandle kwezinyembezi. Futhi uma umama ekhala, umntwana uyakhala futhi. Isidalwa esincane futhi sikhathazekile kakhulu kangangokuthi sihlala nabantu abangabazi, futhi futhi nansi indoda encane yasendlini ikhale izinyembezi. Iseluleko kubomama - balahle ukucasuka, ukuhlaselwa futhi ungathukutheli. Izingane zithande kakhulu ekuthatheni indlela abantu abadala abasabela ngayo emcimbini, ngoba babheka kahle. Kungenxa kulaba abanakekeli ukuthi ukusekelwa kwabazali kule ndaba kuyadingeka.
Umuntu omncane ubuthakathaka ngokuzivikela, lapho umphefumulo ungathuli futhi ingane ijwayele izifo ezehlukene. Kulokhu, into enhle kakhulu kumntanakho ukubukeka kwakho okujabulisayo nokumomotheka. Usizo kule nkathi enzima ingenye yemisebenzi esemqoka yabazali.
Khumbula, ukuya enkulisa kuyinye yezivivinyo ezinkulu zokuqala ezimele ingane yakho ihambe ngokuzimela, hhayi nje imvelo entsha. Ungabi namahloni, cela imibuzo kubahlengikazi kanye nongcweti bezinkulisa, ngoba ndawonye ungathola ikhambi elihle kakhulu. Futhi ngokwenza lokhu, uzosheshisa umzuzwana lapho ingane izogijimela enkulisa, futhi izinkathazo kanye nokukhathazeka kuzoshiywa ngemuva.